Why Are There No Mistresses - An Answer

Discussion in 'Personal ads - Looking for a keyholder or sub?' started by Mistress Jules, Jun 22, 2017.

  1. L-u-c-y
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    All great points.

    Over the last 5 or 6 years I have mailed at least 100 locks around the world. I did this for free. They just paid for the lock and shipping.

    How many of these "adoring subs" ever sent me a Christmas present? How many of these "devoted slaves" ever sent me a valentines gift?

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    It seems common courtesy is missing from subs, online anyway. It has been drummed into them that sending a woman a gift is a very bad thing.

    I sent a lock to a member of this site a couple of years ago, he was 58 and married. He told me his wife had no interest in his chastity fetish and didn't mind him seeking it elsewhere as long as it was online only.

    We chatted online for at least 6 months, usually about 5 times a week. It was mainly about normal every day stuff and chastity was rarely mentioned.

    Then one day he disappeared.

    6 months later he contacted me again and apologised and made various excuses. He begged me to send him another lock. I declined and said I wasn't interested as he just dropped me in the past.

    He said "I will do ANYTHING to make it up to you."

    So I told him to send me a small gift from my wishlist.

    He replied "You're like the rest, only interested in money!"

    I rarely bother with keyholding anymore.
     
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    Pasmem Mistress Lucy's slave

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    I absolutely agree with both Mistress Jules and You, Mistress Lucy. I believe that male submission is not for any man, but only for gentlemen who can realize that they are in front of a Lady.
     
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    Being a gentleman has nothing to do with submission and everything to do with mutual respect. Submission may be part of a relationship but means crap without mutual respect.
     
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    That's sad.
     
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    The streets are not paved with gold, like some people think. : )
     
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    Truer words were never spoken.
     
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    #82 tristenfifty, Feb 21, 2020
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    Mistress thank you for sharing this it is enlightening for me. I know you should have removed me from your site before as a lesson. Thank you for the lesson you are teaching me now. With all my respect and admiration.
     
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    Wow
     
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    Awesome post and so true. I’m blown away by the lewdness towards the women as well in the men’s posts online. And complete lack of empathy or consideration of the time and energy of the Dominant-manifesting as lack of simple courtesy or lack of tribute.
     
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