I told out the big difference between being Licked and being Caged. My wife about a year ago left me her key and didn't want to be involved. I stayed out of the cage most of the time and then starting masturbating more and more so I would cage him for 3-5 days let him out for the weekend in case she wanted sex if not I would take care of him myself 8 days ago I went to go use the key and it was gone. I was sitting having morning coffee and my wife came in I got her some before I could ask her about the key she said she was taking it back. So now she decides again when and were he comes out or cums. There's the difference between Locked and Caged. Locked is better
It’s funny how the difference feels. She was not very happy about me having an emergency key. I told her that she would know if I used it(on her note and taped), but she said “but you could still unlock it whenever you wanted”. Her look of disappointment was noticeable. She said “if I lock it, I should be the ONLY one ABLE to unlock it”. I gave her the the other key that day. I will admit that things felt different when I knew my options were gone.
It certainly sounds like the difference is big. I know how it feels to be caged. For me, it's almost like a security blanket, both caressing my cock and controlling it. Knowing that you are unable to remove it, at all, would add a whole other level of feelings. I hope you enjoy it.
I have offered the second key to Miss K more than once. I have even asked her to hide it somewhere I can't find it. She tells me it shouldn't matter if I know where it is. I better not use it without permission, she will know if I do. If I do there will be no mercy.
We keep a key at the house in a combination safe and my Wife has the other on her at all times.... I like being locked with no way out, makes me feel special and cherished by my Wife
After 10 days my wife let me out so I could give my self a hard on ( a good stretch) after 20 min had me stop felt good to stroke another 15 I was small enough to lock back up day 14 she unlocked me rode me cow girl on her 2nd orgasm she let me have one I almost passed out. Next morning she locked me back up now I'm on day 6 time will tell.
Going on 2 months wife enjoying more and more agajn. She has let me out just to streach her member 3 times and sex with coming 4 times bin 2 weeks since our last unlocking night time erections are getting harder last longer co.e on very fast 3 - 4 times a night. She like rubbing the cage in the morning smiles and puts her key on her neck before she goes to work wonder how long before next play time
Hello Jblocked. Sounds like your and your KH are on your way. Like your KH, I absolutely love playing with my sub's locked cage early morning until we awake. I know it drives him insane and keeps him on his toes. The unknowing of "if" and "when" I let him out, has him serving me in the most amazing ways. I keep my key hid in our house. he has the emergency key in a lock box with him at all times. he too rides a motorcycle and needs quick access to it, though, I have the combination of which he has no clue what it is. Funny thing is, my best friend has the combo, of which she has no clue what the code is to that she has. As a Domme, I always try to find different ways that my sub can serve me. My most recent one was he hates getting into a cold bed this time of year. So...I decided when he gets into bed, he has to get in on my side of the bed to warm my side up for me, then, and only then, he can move over to his side, which of course, is cold. Knowing he is feeling uncomfortable twice just getting into bed arouses me and pleases him knowing this. I guess it's the little things in life that make this lifestyle go above and beyond making it well worth it.
If I may chime in here, Mistress, I really can't wait for the warmer months to get here. That whole new cold bed, times two, is no fun. As far as the thread goes there is definitely a difference between being locked in, and just being in it. When Mistress leaves the key out, even though I don't usually grab it without permission, the high is just not the same. The mental mindset of being able to escape if i really wanted to removes the euphoric high that chastity creates for me. When She hides the key and torments me, well you could say that is where the lines between frustration and heaven are blurred.
Yes, I can imagine. Even with a tamper-evident system so you can't use the emergency key without her knowing, and even if there's a penalty associated with it, there is still the sense that you have the choice. Without that choice, it's a different ball game (accidental pun).