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    Is there any vitamins that I could take to allow an erection easier.
    I am over 50 now and I feel my erections are not as hard as I remember.
    My wife commented that I take so long to get an erection now.
    We have tried longer chastity times and it doesn’t make it any faster.
     
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    Viagra.

    If she was feeling cruel she could give it to you quite some time before she let you out of your cage.
     
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    Late 50s, slower to erect and not as hard, Viagra works well. I had a larger than normal cage on a couple of weeks ago and my wife gave me a Viagra. With the slightly larger cage I was able to swell up more than normal and it got quite intense for me. My wife really enjoyed teasing me like that as I do not normally strain at the cage as much as I was. As it was a fairly open cage and I was poking out between the bars it took her a bit of wiggling to get it off, the base ring had to stay on.
     
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    Try a cock ring, it worked for me. Put it on when flaccid though
     
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    Cock rings can be fun!
     
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    I have no problems with erections, and cock rings still make me harder and last longer!
     
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    Once my wife saw me wearing one, asked me "What's that?" and after I explained her, she replied "That's the reason why you wank and real men fuck me".
     
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    Well, I would say loose weight, I loose 18KG (36 pound) and it helps a lot to be more effective.
    I have no idea of your shape but it helps.

    Also maybe you should get uncaged for longer period or have a bigger cage? It will help you. I am also nearly 50 and don't dream you won't be like at 20y.
     
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    Eating a great diet, not drinking, working out, and eliminating stress.
    Or take the blue pill.
     
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    Without knowing anything about you other than your age is over 50... I don't think anyone on the internets are qualified to tell you what herbs or vitamins will increase the speed of your erections. Without knowing what other medications you take that is just plain irresponsible of us to offer any kind of advice about this subject!

    We literally don't know anything about you! Most importantly how often you masturbate? Is your wife your full time keyholder? How long have you been playing? What is your goal? Do you have the keys? Do you unlock? Do you sleep without the device? How often do you have sex with your wife? Do you make love to her? is there foreplay?

    Jeez there is just so much about you that none of us know. Here. This will help.

    1st Stop... Swallow your pride... Get courageous... And tell your doctor. He/she may have helpful advice or prescribe medication. Most of us are idiots... Why would you ask us any kind of medical advice?

    2nd increase (as others have said) your state of health...

    3rd Stop masturbating especially a few days before sex...

    4th Be careful with chastity... If your goal is to wear chastity for a month, you may change your state of mind to a point where you would prefer to abstain even though you know you want to have an "O". I know that after a month I actually asked to not be allowed to have an "O".... I told her that if she chose she would be satisfied and there would be no mess....

    5th Consider the goal of your chastity... If it is to increase the speed of erections, Just stop yanking your crank. You don't need a device to fix your problem. You need self control.

    6th We don't know anything about your wife... Perhaps she is messing with you... Perhaps she's playing the part you are asking her to play... "Honey, this tiny little thing barely gets hard enough... And I can't believe it's taking so long. Do you mind if I watch a show while you get yourself ready?"

    Conversely if you are looking to increase sexual stamina, a ruined "O" after chastity and prior to sex might be best.

    Finally, understand that if you want good advice about yourself... You will not find it out here... You must begin with you and your circumstances....

    Weight
    What food you eat
    If you smoke
    Whether or not you exercise regularly
    Your mental state
    What you are thinking about
    Stress in your personal life
    Are you happy
    The state of your relationship
    Your attraction to your mate
    Their involvement in your sexual excitement
    How you use chastity in your regular/daily life
    What you do for exercise (bicycle/weight lifting/running)

    These are all factors in your ability to become sexually excited, but may or may not have anything to do with you and your experience....

    You could just use the internetsssses as a tool to do research instead of searching for chastity porn.

    A quick search on web MD listed many results. Use at your own risk- and don't be stupid and take something that will give you an erection while you are in a device... People who write about that or fantasize about that are idiots looking to injure themselves.... Possibly permanently... Remember you live in the real world. Not a fantasy world.

    Mic drop
     
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    I think your wife treats you fantastic !! I envy you !
     
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    Yes, she never misses a chance to humiliate me, and it's so exciting for both of us.
     
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    Cialis (tadalafil) works great for me (59 yo), and it lasts 36 hrs. Cock-rings also work.
     
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    Oh, it is now generic and costs about $1/pill.
     
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    Before you get into prescription drugs, try natural supplements ... go to Amazon and do a search on "male sexual health supplement"

    Here are a few supplements that come up again and again
    Tribulus Terrestris
    Ashwagandha
    Epimedium (horny goat weed)
    Tongkat Ali

    Also take a men's one a day supplement; may need tad extra zinc or magnesium

    There are many supplements that have some combination of the above. There are many youtube videos out there with their claims. They all disclose what the ingredients are so you so after looking at enough of them, you can narrow down a few to try out over a few months etc.

    When you see adds about increasing testosterone, they are usually using these supplements. To be clear though, they are not increasing your testosterone directly. They are creating the best circumstances for your body to do it naturally. They are also inhibiting things that negatively impact testosterone like cortisol (stress hormone) and estrogen etc. So you'll also see phrases like "increasing free testosterone" which is to say allowing your body to do it's best naturally as well as inhibiting things that have a negative impact so the net effect is that you have more usable testosterone that you created on your own.

    I'm not trying to have this post be comprehensive; after a few searches, you'll see there is much more detail out there and you can make some informed decisions at that time.

    Good luck and keep us posted!
     
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    Or yknow see a professional that does this for a living rather then a random on the net....

    Just my thoughts.
     
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