Ex military and police subs

There is quite a dichotomy when I am subservient to another person, especially a powerful and beautiful woman! Having arrested and taken charge of prisoners in my career, I know the feeling of dominance, as well as the responsibilities that go along with that control. Now, to be at the "other end of the leash", so to speak, feels incredible. I love/hate it!

 

From the police point of view it could be the good salary and lots of days off mid week that facilitates going for sessions. Most people who are married have to work mon-fri so not so easy to plan sessions....maybe

Or maybe all coppers are perverts! i’ve heard it said before

 

Well, they must be into something! I mean all that hand cuffing strangers! . On a serious note our British bobbies do a great job! I couldn't put up with the crap and abuse that seems to go with the job these days!

 

Im neither but i do manage teams at work and have to set the direction they go, control their timeline etc..So when i can let go of that and have my wife tell me what to do, it does feel like bliss.

 

I have noticed a similar correlation with those who came to Muir Academy for naughty adult boys, girls and special girls ... and with transgender women I have known, etc.

At Muir Academy we used to say that if a man played Rugby (or American Football) at Club level, raced cars or had a Private Pilot's licence, they probably wore a dress at weekends. If all three were true, it was almost certain.

Which leads me to another possible hypothesis for reasons; that those privately uncertain of their maleness, or ability to conform to gender norms, will often overcompensate by excelling at typically male roles.

I know of one woman friend, for instance, who was judged best officer cadet at marines officer training academy, did some incredible feats of military derring-do in a hot war, is a decorated war hero, who now lives as a woman and teaches military history to officer cadets.

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i was always hopeless at games at school tho and Mistress dont let me drive anymore but i does like to watch the F1 racing cars. and the red ones are my fave ones.

 

Yes, we always had to hide or take the plug off the TV at Muir boarding schools when there were F1 races or rugby matches or the (t-)girls would skive off from prep. to watch it!

 

ooooh. please I am allow to watch the racing cars. I like Kimi best but he dont drive the red car no more now.

 

I'm ex military and now work for the police, and while I can't say I have loads of power at work, and therefore seek to give up that power in private, I do feel that I am constantly in the public eye and it's a huge release to enjoy submissive/sissy fantasies at home, and forget about having to be that 'straight-laced' suited guy.

 

I'm am EMT myself and I am currently in nursing school to boot! I am very dominant in my work and school roles and quite the opposite with my KH obviously lol

 

Interesting topic @L-u-c-y . I noticed recently that the vast majority of men who are the most curious about pursuing me and many are still trying over many years, they tend to appear as alpha types. Most are ex-military who were in ground combat, one active police officer, three helicopter pilots (one active), one active marine and the rest are just ex-military.

They don't really know what to make of me or how to handle me because I never respond to them in a way that's familiar at all. Nothing they do works like it does on other women. I am clear about who I am and what I want yet I noticed that usually increases their interest and desire 10x. Only two have come out and been honest that they secretly want to submit to me. My guess is the rest don't know it yet. Or are afraid what will happen if they admit it. As if I would suddenly agree to jump in and train them. They haven't learned yet how hard it is to find a KH.

 

I served in the Army for 24 years, joined when I was 17. I was an officer with 2 combat deployments leading soldiers. Currently I am a construction Manager for very large construction projects in the oil and gas industry (think $800M+ jobs).
Both of these jobs were high stress jobs. I was counted on to make the right decisions every day to keep people from being killed or major injury. When I get home, I shut off my mind. I don’t want to make decisions on what’s for dinner, what are we doing tonight. I thoroughly enjoy my wife giving me directions and setting my priorities. Additionally, I enjoy giving her attention she deserves for all the time I spend away.

 

I’m ex infantry, a sergeant until I was shot and discharged at the ripe old age of 21. Been in management since I left University. Being subservient is a huge relief when I’m off work

 

Explosive ordnance disposal specialist or EOD 307th Engr attached to the 82 Airborne Div, 12 Years active the rest reserved to a local EOD Unit retired at 50, four Police Deployments, Two in South America training rebels.
to come home and serve my Wife was an Honor, The easy way to put it We were adrenalin junkies always pushing ourselves. So of course once We taste subspace the adrenalin We look for is there and in our service. So as I started going to Munches around the post-meeting solders like myself looking for the same thing, Also Mistresses best friend who is Dom and Her husband is my friend retired Army Combat Vet and A sub, So yes I feel there is something to it/

 

I’m ex military and I had always been submissive around woman but not men long before I joined the Army, I joined the army as I enjoyed the physical side and the mental challenge etc. The irony for me is I left as I hated being dictated to by others, I hated the discipline and do as you’re told side of it lol.

Though it was a corporal I knew who told me how he used to get pegged and the femdom side, up to then I assumed I was just a odd dirty little fucker lol

For me the armed forces and being submissive are coincidental, I might have stayed longer if I was being told what to do by females lol.

 

Former military and rugby player but I don't remember wearing a dress

 

I think you have to have a pilots license as well. The trifecta.

 

I worked for the military for some short years, than a long time in the privat sector, security for companys, things or people in different dangerous country, things like that.

I think that formed the way I view my relationship and my role as submissiv very fundamentaly. I think many submissives see there first and formost role as being a slave or butler or something like that, others see there role as life partner as the most important.

For me (thats also why I choose my nick-name) my most important function in my eyes is as some sort of bodyguard. Preventing every harm that comes my Queens way, no matter if it is work in the household she hates and therefor I do it, or a street rober, or what ever else. After that I see myself as slave for her wishes.

I definetly think this perspectiv came from my time in the military sector, I saw a lot of things and ever since I met her my highest priority was to not let things like that happen to her no matter what.

 

Former Police officer here. I can relate in that bondage was a huge destresser for me. As I began to explore that life I came across this and something intrigued me. The first time I was able to really experience the desire, followed by the detail, was such a rush I knew I would be hooked for a long time. Having to be dominant in my every day life was natural, but so is submitting to my Wife/Godess in this world behind closed doors.

 

I would never claim there is a 100% correlation, just that it was a better than random one.

 

Tu du bain. Please forgive spelling and my poor Brazilian Portuguese

 

? I may live in Portugal, but I am British and my Portuguese is appalling.

But what you said makes no sense in Portuguese either!

My original post reflected that with a sample of many hundred, if not thousands at Muir Academy we could see a correlation between service veterans, those engaging in stereotypically masculine activities like playing rugby, racing cars, getting a private pilots licence, etc. and those who cross-dress.

There was an even stronger correlation with professional engineers.

Obviously it will never be a reliable predictor, and if your sample is much smaller, or sorted or chosen in a different way, as inevitably most folks will be, you may get different results.

 

Tudo Bem = OK

 

It's no coincidence seems males that are in a position of authority need to be the submissive, When their day is complete they like to turn over control to their girlfriends or wifes. That is my perspective on this point.

 

I think just a coincidence for me. I’ve been submissive since I was very young and have been a police officer for over 12 years. Although I wish I wasn’t submissive.