I've ordered a new metal cage a month ago and haven't expected to like it so much.It is my first 'long' lock up(tomorrow it will be one week since I'm caged),I'm self-locked and was curious how it will go and on 3rd day wanted to unlock the belt feeling the urge but decided to resist and it felt like some switch in my brain has been activated:I don't want to take the belt off anymore...The pleasure of being locked,a light orgasm-like feeling from arousal seems more enjoyable,I'm happy that I decided to try it out even though I'm single yet.I hope chastity has no negative health effects and maybe I will fall deeper into chastity addiction,maybe not,but I feel no regrets!
@chastitynewbie doing a week is very good and im glad that you ok and like it. I dont think it will make you poorly so dont worry.
Yes,the more time I spend in it,the more I want to remain in chastity,I thought it will be the opposite.Unfortunately its ring is not really comfortable,I plan to order a real holytrainer one day.
Yes what you discover is the longer you're in Chastity the longer you want to stay in Chastity, after about 21 days the neural networks in the brain rewire themselves ,the longer you stay in the more endorphins are released into the system so you have this constant pleasure Buzz going ,denial is delicious ...
I feel exactly the same way. Although it can be a bit of an emotional rollercoaster now and then but definitely more up than down. I would have unlocked quite a few times by now if I had a key at hand.
Glad to hear your enjoying it. Is chastity addictive ? Absolutely. Intially before bringing it up with my wife i only ever imagined doing chastity for a week or two at a time. I did my first week a couple of months ago. Now im coming up to my first whole month in chastity with atleast 3 weeks to go. We are both enjoying it so much we are already discussing how my next stretch will be longer. Secretly I'm hoping she decides on much longer.
I was addicted to edging, and find that chastity can be similar. I often think about my situation and look at porn to get myself more worked up (I can't get anywhere near as horny as when I was able to stimulate myself.) and feel that extra bit of pleasure. It also makes me focus on being obedient to my Mistress, because I can't and won't act on the frustration. Like many guys here, I eventually reached a point where I don't enjoy having to orgasm anymore, and we make it an unpleasant chore to help reinforce that feeling. You know you're in trouble when the let down from orgasm is worse than the frustration of going a week, and a month, and several months.....etc.
I don't want to ever reach the point where I don't enjoy and want orgasm. The whole point of it, to me, is the control that it gives the keyholder, the leverage and increased ability to influence and manipulate. If I'm not craving release, it's not contributing to control in that way.