I bought my first cage and went for a tiny cage (think the ring is a little tight) sadly I can cum very easily is this normal? Can anyone recommend a device that will actually stop me cumming?
Yes, it is normal. Many men can orgasm even in full belts. Depending on how your body and brain are wired, it is entirely possible than no device suitable for long-term wear will prevent orgasms. Was the orgasm easy, and what type of a device are you using?
Yes very easy in some ways. Just shook the cage a bit and in a few seconds could feel it building and boom out it oosed - not a full PIV body shaking O but still more that I had hoped ... pic in profile
A penis plug makes cumming significantly more difficult. There are a few men though who say that they can achieve orgasm by merely thinking about it.
If you are new to this, it could be that the mental excitement was overwhelming. I used to be able to have orgasms by shaking the cage when it was a new thing 20 years ago. After a few months, daily wearing became second nature and it was much more difficult to force one out that way.
I came in my cage a couple weeks ago. After I did, I was bummed because I knew now I could defeat it. It was very difficult and involved some cbt to get me over the edge. The night before, I tried using a vibrator and then my E-stim. Neither worked so then I tried both at the same time. No luck that way. Finally I gave up and went to bed frustrated.
I can quite easily in my large looker 2, but the small one with the tether, I have messed with it and while I THINK I probably could if i really set my mind to it it would be really hard. My full belt pictured I cant, but the little looker with the tether is totally secure (as in cant pull out), and light years more comfortable than the full belt. In the end like Tom says, you just don't even try. For me if I do succeed it just makes me feel like shit anyway so whats the point.
At the end of the day it's about having the willpower not to cum without your KH's permission Good luck
I can come if I rub the underside like a little bitch wife doesn't care if I do it this way because my cock can't get hard and it also makes me seem a woman instead of a man
There may not be a device that can prevent it entirely for you, but I wouldn’t give up on trying to find one that at least makes it more difficult than that. From your pic it looks like there’s a lot of your shaft that’s engorged behind the base ring. It might actually make sense to try a longer cage that would enclose more of the overall length. Try to find one that’s narrow enough to fit snugly when flaccid. Also, if you can go smaller on your base ring, that will reduce the amount that your shaft can thicken without starting to cause discomfort, and that may help some. Good luck!