Living the life 43years

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    MIstress and I started going out in late 1977, fairly early on it became clear to her that she was the more dominant in our relationship in all things.We married in 81 and were now leading a full on FLR (at that time we hadn't heard the phrase), moving forward a few years where we had to hide the D/s side of our relationship as we raised two boys, although they always new the way to get dad to do something was to get Mum to tell me to do it, 2006 and we found ourselves approaching our silver wedding anniversary and MIstress informing me that on our special day She would be putting me into chastity and "forcing" me into panties, those shopping experiences are a story in themselves. The boys have long since left home and we're now getting older disgracefully together with a lifetime of stories behind us, let MIstress and I know if you are interested in hearing more KINDLE_CAMERA_1575120403000.jpg
     
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    Welcome! Would love to hear more stories.
     
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    Will do, thanks & happy new year from MIstress
     
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    That is so cool. something for many of us to look to. given your time together, one can only assume that it has worked for you. Well done. We look forward to hearing more.
     
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    Thanks, a lot more to come
     
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    Tell all, a little sanitised, tidied and where necessary fuzzed-up a little to protect your privacy.

    But you've been there, done that, worn the T shirt out, that experience is heaven sent..

    Folk will be keen to hear the nitty-gritty, the stuff that really tels you're for real, not bullshitting ...
     
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    Sounds fun, looking forward to reading more (0:
     
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    We've been married since 1981 also but it took until this past Christmas for us to try chastity. It is amazing how I have become more intimate and she is loving it. Wish we started sooner.
     
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    Welcome! Yes please!
     
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    Living the life, continued. Just about all family and friends know to some extent of our FLR but the person who knows most is Mistresses mother. She has largely come to visit us every other Saturday throughout our time as a couple which coincides with my main housework day, particularly laundry and ironing. She once said to MIstress how she wished she had someone to do her ironing, next thing you know MIstress has volunteered my services so now when she comes I'm ordered to make tea & coffee and told if I can have one and to get her ironing out of the car. Most Saturdays they will go out leaving me to do the chores, but sometimes they will take me, usually to London Colney where they have a big M&S store. We always visit the ladies knickers section, the first time I knew mum was aware that I was kept in panties was when she held a pair up and said how about these for him.I could have died and felt my face burning,MIstress just smiled at my embarrassment and at the look on the faces of two ladies nearby who clearly heard the comment. The solitary item was put in a basket, given to me and I then had to go and purchase them,which was a further embarrassment. Asking MIstress later how her mum knew l wore panties MIstress said she had explained the situation month's before when mother queried why there were only ever knickers drying on the clothesline. Let MIstress and l know if you'd like to know more xxx
     
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    Good reading, thanks for posting.
     
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    More please, the nitty gritty, the details that define the relationship!
     
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    What a wonderful source of experiences. Sir Guy is correct, details you care to share only enhance the stories.
     
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    I'd like to hear more :)
     
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    My wife and I have been together for 47 years and just started tease and denial, and admitted that she is the one in charge. She wishes that we had started this many years ago.
     
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