Cock banding with wife

Less than two weeks prior, June 9th, it was a month earlier. Now on June 22 it's been 13 weeks. I cal bullshit.

 

Roger that, i just read through this whole post, and i sense some fiction here, however, the caveat would be that if ANYONE is thinking about hard play then know what your doing first. If the OP is genuine i really do feel for him, but i also sense BS when he says he cant feel anything from a anal stimulation, they are two different nerves therefore the 'O' is different. Its a shame that if this is fiction that so many wonderful members gave up their time to post advice, but on the flipside it shows how much a great community there is here, BRAVO to all the previous members who gave solid and sound advice to seek professional opinions, i applaud you!

 

Dr Cage - I'm with you on this one.

 

Agree the story rings very false. Both "John" and "Karen" have such similar writing styles; e.g. "orgamase" anyone? Also the timeline and level of banding seems to be a variable feast and got worse after all the advice to Back Off!!!

However, the photos would suggest someone has done themself serious damage so all the advice is probably useful. Whatever the real circumstances.

 

let me chip in..... as mentioned earlier on in this thread I have experience with banding going approx 3 years back. Sessions lasted max 90 min,- with 2 bands, - and With regular intervals I managed to stay numb. Rebanding when the feeling returned.... I stopped at one point, when I found other ways of keeping myself from cheating (and long lasting for her) - mainly because I was afraid of being caught up in a subspace that I could not control. More wants more if you are horny as hell, - and Yes banding has this powerful addictive side too. In my blurred mindset - I was tempted to push beyond the defined limits, and fortunately I did not go along my desires. Soon after I stopped banding - I had a full recovery. Total with no buts...it took about a month...


Today I will not recommend banding for more than 40 minutes (for those of You who can't resist the fantasy) and only as part of a foreplay - 2 bands max! And no less than 7 days apart, And never do it when You are alone, and sleepy!
You will still get that submissive no-pleasure-for-me feeling with the 40 minute session, and the fact that the band(s) has to be cut before each PIV-session and inflicts a lot of pain when it does come of - only ads to your submissive all-for-her mindset. If You are a bit like me- You will not feel anything for approx 3-5 hours, - and expect full recovery within day or two. BUT YOU MAY NOT be like me....

BUT DEAR FRIENDS - I AM GRATEFUL THAT I QUIT BANDING ALLTOGETHER! It remains a dangerous game especially if you are not that young anymore, - and there are so many options to feed that craving subspace of yours. Banding does not have to part of your routine to be an all-for-her toy....

numbing lotions, in combination with sleeves or pullover strapons is as humiliating and subspaced as can be... Just to mention one approach.

As for this thread - I am thinking BULLSHIT too, sorry to say... Way too many of the "facts" does not seem to match reality. But the thread shows that this is in fact a powerful fantasy - but a fantasy it should remain... No woman demands it, it is all in your head...

cheers

BTW - I moved the thread away from introduction, as it surpassed the concept of introduction.

 

As I mentioned in my last post I was banding every fourth day ,but I became frustrated as the feeling started to return ,and I love the the feeling of being flaccid and my turn on is to make it permanently flaccid, one thing I have noticed is on day two after a banding ,erections are weak but below the band position is still sexually arousing to touch , Have now gone down to three days , Thank all those who offer kind words on safety ,but I don’t want to stop its my turn on

 

Any updates?

 

Good advice!

 

I'm going to say No thanks to this whole idea, way to chancy for permanent damage.