P.A. I m terrified

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    #1 Colton27, Dec 29, 2019
    Less than 24 hours after getting my lockup time extended, Beth casually brings up p.a.s over popcorn and Netix. This scares me. First it was thirty days, then sixty, now 90. I think she has something more long term in mind, which I would be OK with. If it makes her happy, I will do it, but I am terrified of needles. Especially there. Honestly, how bad is it?
     
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    #2 andy66, Dec 29, 2019
    Not as bad as your mind working overtime! Thinking about it is worse than the actual event. A good piercer will make it a fairly painless experience.
     
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    #3 Colton27, Dec 29, 2019
    Would it be closer to a blood draw, or dental filling, pain -wise?
     
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    #4 andy66, Dec 29, 2019
    I felt what I thought was the receiving tube going in my urethra , my eyes were closed and he had actually done it; I honestly felt nothing of any consequence due to the numbing spray. A bit of blood in the first 24 hours and stingy for the first 10 days when I went for a pee and that was it. 9 months on I am at a 5mm piercing and that is what I wanted.
     
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    #5 fabricator, Dec 29, 2019
    I did mine myself. Not as bad as one would think. I started at 10 ga. It did bleed more than I expected. 24 hrs or so. Stretch to 2 ga after healing,and worked my way up over time.. For me this was harder than the piercing.
     
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    #6 I LOVE my Choice!, Dec 29, 2019
    Hey there!!!

    Only you can conquer your fear.....

    It WILL pinch. You're going to get a needle pushed through your penis!!!

    BUT.....

    The skin there is THIN.

    YES.... It IS your penis!!!! But it's not going through the 'meat' nor the sensitive parts.

    You will feel something without a doubt.

    We can only give you the advice on what we felt.

    WATER.... Drink LOTS.... What was more painful for me was the first urination! THAT stung WAAAAAYYYYYY more than the piercing itself!!!! So drink LOTS before and after to help reduce the sting a bit.

    Urine is good as it is sterile and it helps the piercing heal quickly

    I feel once you get over the "They're gonna stick a needle in my dick FFS" thoughts, it really isn't a bad procedure at all!!!!

    Reputable piercers KNOW what they're doing. Trust them.

    And is She wants it...... Well then!!!!!

    Enjoy it, because you will give her pleasure from your wee(sic) bit of pain!!!!

    Go for it and good luck

    Kindest regards

    J.
     
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    #7 Alana, Dec 29, 2019
    Wow, she sure jumped on board fast.
    Congratulations!
     
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    #8 Peaches, Dec 29, 2019
    Yes. It's going to hurt a bit. Yes it's going to bleed a bit.

    Find a reputable professional to do the job. The initial pain is over in a few seconds. The healing part is just a little uncomfortable but gets better as the weeks go on.

    I have never regretted my pa for one second.
     
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    #9 Peter Rabbit, Dec 29, 2019
    my experience exactly mirrors your advice. The anticipation was worse than the event.my wife watched and was impressed by my willpower to go through with it. But it wasn’t bad at all.

    Do it. Read Elayne Angel’s website and/or book The Piercing Bible.
     
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    #10 remyruff, Dec 29, 2019
    Most everywhere you ask the consensus is, it's no big deal.
    I fully concur with that. 4 years ago was pierced 8 gauge.
    The whole anticipation thing is the pits, for me the worst was waiting to go in.
    Next meet the guy, nice guy with lots tats, we looked at jewelry, I was calm already and the actual procedure was nothing worse then a pinch and the recovery is a bit bothersome.
    Its the single best step to make chastity more escape/cheat prove.
    The options of devices for a PA are impressive. Ideally you have a budget of around 400 to 700 dollars for a great custom device. I have two fine examples and I respect them like I would no other chastity cage by their effectiveness.
    To give another person the power to impale you penis through a metal spike and lock it by means of cheat free locking system is a rush.
    Sounds like your Lady is getting a taste for that power dynamic.
    Congratulations, you seem to have found the perfect match.
     
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    #11 Jessica Alexander, Dec 29, 2019
    Don’t look at the needle. Just keep your eyes closed.
     
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    #12 Rectrix, Dec 29, 2019
    You're a very lucky man. As you know the biggest issue discussed at CM is lack of investment by wives in enforcing chsstity. Almost no one complains about their PA.
     
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    #13 tomf_22033, Dec 29, 2019
    Good luck.
    My biggest fear with a PA is the hole and how it will affect peeing.

    But I’m with you, I hate needles. That said, when I got my Dydoe I wasn’t prepared for how painful that was. Omg that hurt. So a PA should be nothing compared to it.

    Btw it’s funny but I hate needles but love piercings. So when I get more I’ll just suck it up.

    My suggestion to you is to focus on breathing and it’ll be over before you know it.

    So I’m looking forward to hearing how it went.
     
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    #14 Colton27, Dec 29, 2019
    My better half will be there and she has a soothing effect.
     
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    #15 Colton27, Dec 29, 2019
    I know. I really am lucky.
     
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    #16 Colton27, Dec 29, 2019
    Thanks! I feel a little better now.
     
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    #17 I LOVE my Choice!, Dec 29, 2019
    You got this dude!!!!!!
     
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    #18 Mistress Sara's Boy, Dec 29, 2019
    Good luck with it!

    I have had mine for nearly 10 years and love it to this day.

    I had a fear of needles, the PA got me over it. The urethra guide tube was the worst part for me, the piercing itself was almost nothing.

    Drink lots of fluids and use a good saline spray to wash it often the first month or two.

    Do NOT go into a PA device too soon, I waited 4 months and gauged up from a 10 to an 8 at my 2 month mark. Slow and steady win this race.
     
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    #19 Colton27, Dec 29, 2019
    Thanks!
     
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    #20 jb123, Dec 30, 2019
    Had mine done a year and a half ago. Three seconds of pain then it over. You'll be fine.
     
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    #21 Colton27, Dec 30, 2019
    That's what I was hoping. So much preferable to a lingering, agonizing pain.
     
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    #22 Skyhigh, Dec 30, 2019
    Don't think so much. Brain kills everything. If she wants it, she must have it. It's over very quick, seconds, and it doesnt hurt that much. A small sacrifice for your keyholder. And a wonderful jewel :)
     
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    #23 Hungry_Pete, Dec 30, 2019
    I did my PA myself many years ago. It wasn't so bad.
    You will have it easier than I did with a pro doing it quickly.

    Make sure the piercing is far enough down the urethra so it doesn't end up being
    a very tiny strip of skin between the new hole and the pee hole. I did ok on that
    but really should have gone another 1/8" or so down.

    It's really her penis anyway, so whatever she decides to do with it, it's a good idea
    to be supportive of what she wants and help get these things done.

    Sounds like she wants to lock it up long term which will be pretty exciting for both of you.

    I'm curious..... does she or is she going to cuck you?
     
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    #24 613CuckLock, Dec 30, 2019
    Enjoy the excitement leading up to this. I remember it. Plus it's really cool to see a ring in your penis.

    I agree with everyone. It's really not that bad and it's fast. Less than a second and it's done. Mine's at 2 gauge now. They stretch fairly easily but don't rush it.
     
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    #25 elias, Dec 30, 2019
    If my Love would require such I would immediately follow her instruction!
     
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