Accidental outing, hospital, 40 days.

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    Unexpected trip to the doctor with outing, CT scan, emergency surgery, and now she won’t unlock me without a note from said, surprised, doctor. At least I had clean underwear.

    It has been forty days. She is protecting me from myself with a lock. For a long time.

    I’m in the market for a new keyholder. Contact me and I will send you my professionally prepared resume with references. I can restore your yacht, fix your helicopter, and remodel your house. I do quality work.

    Please.
     
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    First, I hope you got the medical attention and care you needed, and your surgery was successful.

    Second, I’ve had a CT scan. I kinda had fun laying there because they let me see the image form.

    A few months ago, I was accidentally outed by a doctor during an examination I didn’t expect to lower my underwear.

    My cage was shown to the male doctor and female assistant taking notes. I was covered up quickly and no one said a thing. I don’t think it interrupted the level of my care.

    I felt really shocked and chagrined at the time. I wasn’t ashamed as much as concerned I forced my kink on someone. I had another doctor take a step back when they saw my Prince Albert piercing. It was not a positive experience.

    But in the end I shed my worry about it. Mostly because everything proceeded without comment or change in tone.

    Not being unlocked without a note from a doctor is a very concerning thing in a medical emergency situation. Not having the trust to manage chastity during emergency surgery should be deflating.

    Do you have an emergency key? It could have been sealed and signed by your keyholder. Taping one to paper currency is a method I’ve seen work - you could even make the denomination expensive as a deterrent.

    You have a valid concern if this could have changed the medical imaging method, in case an MRI was desired. Though I do think CT scans are used because they are faster to conduct.

    I’m not available to be your keyholder.

    Though I think I could be a good one, but I’m not needing home remodeling at the moment. :)

    Good luck finding a new keyholder with enough respect for your well being.

    We bought an IglooHome Smart KeyBox. This logs access and I can be given pins with different time windows / frequency of access. It’s Bluetooth only and works very well. It wouldn’t have worked in your situation for an emergency.

    Carrying a sealed key, one way or another, is probably the best way to handle emergencies. Though I admit I’ve become lazy and just keep it at home.
     
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    My post is intended to be humorous, there should be no concern, thank you.

    The appointment was a surprise. I actually forgot I was locked until he said, “Drop em.” Oh, oh. He was very professional. I apologized for exposing it to him.

    I was able to remove it before going to emergency, so no problem for the image.

    My keyholder is very loving. She will not remove it. She wants no undue stress applied to the area. She knows about temptation. She wants everything to work when this is done.

    She doesn’t allow complaining or whining. So I vented a little here. I will refrain in the future.
     
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    Actually, my doctor probably admired the quality of the MCN cage construction.
     
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    I suppose the helicopter and yacht repair did make me wonder. ;)
     
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    You’re allowed to vent!
    But I’d love to hear more details.
     
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    I too wear a cage without an emergency key and have always wondered how I would feel if a trip to the doctors would reveal it. But I take the view that it's my choice to be locked by Mistress so they have to accept that, as I have to accept their choices in life. I now also wear a Turian collar to which Mistress holds the only key.
     
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    :cool:

    I knew you were joking, but I am curious about what the medical staff said, and about what you told them.
     
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    He was very professional, I apologized for exposing him to it and nothing else was said. I’ve been seeing him for thirty years.
     
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    Actually, this is true. I also restore sports cars and build motorcycles.
     
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    Thanks. Not much more to tell. It all caught me, and my doctor by surprise!
     
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    Ok. Now I’m interested!
    I just need to get said vehicles. :)
     
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    Sorry for being too earnestly supportive there! :)

    I do forget I’m wearing my MaleChastityNow devices many times. They tend to become part of you!

    It’s good you have a long term relationship with your doctor. That’s great.

    I wonder if you feel you’ve broken the ice with your doctor and now can keep it on for full physicals, etc. I mean you’ve known each other for so long, and if this cage is going to be on you consistently, perhaps seeing how you’re resting in the device might be good.

    Of course I’m pushing my own desires and daydreams.
     
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    I to had a surprise outing at hospital once, I was having uvab light therapy for my skin, it’s like a powerful vertical sun bed, after getting our the sun bed ( you go in naked)
    I slipped putting my sock on and fell back through the curtain and ended up flat on my back naked in front of the nurse, I looked at her and her eyes were fixed on my pink cb2000, it took several long seconds to scramble up and get back behind the curtain to get dressed.
     
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    I am very fortunate that she supports me and gives me plenty of time for my interests. That is, after my house work is done.
     
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    I have a question about having a MRI. Why would you have to remove your cage to have one done? Just curious.
     
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    An MRI is a large enclosed donut shaped magnet. The magnets rotate around you, creating a magnetic field.

    You lay on a table and the operator moves the table into the hole. They require you to remove all metal that can be removed for the procedure. Anything external. Doesn’t matter if it is magnetic or not.
     
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    I found this fun quote from “scienceabc.com”

    When you enter the scan room with an active MRI machine wearing, say, a pair of earrings, then the earrings will instantly become magnetized and will try to align/orient itself with respect to the wildly powerful MRI magnet. This is precisely what you want to avoid.

    Metallic things can be pulled towards the magnet with such great force that the metal can crack open or rip through weak, soft surfaces. When it comes to a metallic object being pulled towards a powerful magnet, human skin is extremely soft and thus very easy to wound. Imagine having an earring ripped out of your ear in a split-second!
    So, imagine, if you dare, it’s not an earring but a cage locked around your precious genitals.

    If you have a limited imagination, see this video from IFLscience:

    https://www.iflscience.com/health-and-medicine/how-dangerous-are-magnetic-items-near-mri-machine/

    The forces shown in this video are, ahem, “not subtle”.
     
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    So, did you blush so hard to get more pink than you CB-2000? :p

    I loved my old smoke-grey one. Other than the pinchy spacer and the relative bulk, I liked its round cage bars and the feel.
    I forgot the driver handle for my GlansArmor and just had the driver bit, couldn’t get the cage off, and had to scramble under the covers before my massage therapist came in. She caught me on my hands and knees under the linen cover. I don’t think I showed.

    Perhaps she thought I was having a leg cramp when she asked me to turn over to start face up instead. I was shocked. I thought she wanted a better look.

    There was a longish pause and I said “I’m good” and I had my first nude massage in chastity.

    Nothing actually happened, though I fantasized about being discovered. Coincidently she later started using a heavier blanket but it’s probably because it’s cold. ;)
     
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    I think I pretty much matched it! The most awkward thing was that I had to have 3 sessions a week, for 10 weeks and that happened on week 3. The next time I went when I was behind the curtain the nurse reminded me to put my sock over my thing, before she had always told me to put it over my bits! ( you have to cover your penis and balls due to the increased risk of cancer from the uva light, they tell you to bring a sock with you) the next session, it was the other nurse on duty and the first thing she did when I walked into the room was look straight at my groin, and stare for several seconds!
    madam and I love my pink cb2000, don’t use a spacer as I have the points of intrigue fitted.
     
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    I had foot surgery of all things last year. Was only wearing a PA ring at the time. Nurse asked if I was wearing any jewelry and I said yes. She sort of looked puzzled after looking at my ears and hands. Then I kinda looked down at my crotch, trying to be subtle...and she still didn’t get it. My wife was pretty amused tho. But really...remove it for foot surgery? WTF
     
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    I wore my PA ring to my urology appointment and also to all of my Brazilian laser treatments. After the laser treatments, I’m planning to get a tattoo there.
     
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    I remember my very first visit to my current Doc. During my first physical exam, she had me strip down to my shorts and jump on the exam table thing. When she got around to it she yanked down my boxers and said "Oh" with a shocked voice when she saw I was totally shaved. She just stood there for a second and then finished the exam.

    I still find it sort of funny.
     
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    I was too shy to wear my PA ring to my urologist. Was there any discussion of it? I’m curious
     
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    Really?
    I’ve been shaved for decades and never had anyone say anything.
    The last time I went to the Dr I had to remove my pants for her to check something. It was the first time I’ve worn panties to a Dr since it’s all I have now. She didn’t say anything but I did see a small smile.

    Now I’ve been totally open with my Dr that I’m bisexual and kinky. So I suspect that helps. It also helps that she’s really cool.
     
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