FLM without Cuckolding

Pretty sure cuckolding is the exception, not the rule.

 

We use chastity just for the chastity. Wife has no interest in other men.

 

My wife is my keyholder only. I can't say she has NO interest in cuckolding. We both have INTEREST, but that's all it's been... a fantasy to get us both hot and bothered

 

Same here

 

yep, pretty sure that cuckoldry is not common in chastity. It's at the far end of the scale (and I don't mean that in a pejorative sense, just that it goes further than most people wish to).

 

The purpose of my chastity is to help me stop masturbating and become more emotionally available, more attentive and affectionate, more trainable and very submissive, and to help her assert her control and lead our marriage to more loving intimacy.. Cuckolding was never discussed except to dismiss it as something she is not interested in.

 

Perfect Rectrix. That's exactly the same for us. We discussed cuckolding after I brought it up and she dismissed it quickly.
Amazing how wearing a device changes the way you are. It's all for the better!!

 

It’s not for us.

 

Just a fantasy for me that my Wife does not share

 

Cuckolding is a fantasy for both of us but may never become a reality. It does add an interesting element and when done correctly become on of the biggest teases in our lifestyle. We will go out to a club and my wife will dance with other guys and rub and grind with them while I watch from afar. I will feel my cage as my cock swells and pushes against the bars as she has the time of her life. But that is the extent of her actions and when we get home she will take me to bed and as I pleasure her will describe how big they were and what they said. I don’t think she will ever go thru with it, but we do know a couple that lives in that lifestyle. We have even witnessed it, but my wife believes that is crossing a boundary beyond our comfort. It’s one thing to control my orgasms and be her pleasure tool at times, but to rub it in my face she feels is wrong. What we have is between us.

 

Well, I guess this where we are the minority
The Queen loves the idea of keeping me in a cage while she is satisfied by other men... for me it's pretty much the ultimate in submission (which I guess is why it is so exciting). And while this hasn't quite happened yet, she likes to tell me how I will have to go down on her after watching other men cum in her while I remain caged.
We hadn't quite gotten into chastity when she had her last boyfriend (though orgasm control was a thing:. I wasn't allowed to have sex with her or masturbate for about a week leading up to her dates). Of course, I broke the rules and now the rest is history.

 

Same here. Couldn’t have said it any better

 

Plenty. Mine certainly

 

We are a purely monogamous married couple, Wife has no extramarital interests.

 

Still, to add a wrinkle to the kink, I think it is good that your wife knows she has the option to cuckold you, even if she doesn't exercise that option. My wife likely won"t cuck me, but she likes having the power to. She likes the submission of it, not actual sex with other guys.

 

I'd love to hear this story.

 

I agree with other answers here -- most Female Led Relationships don't involve cuckolding. Mine does, though, and I absolutely love it. I am glad that my wife doesn't ever lock me up when she is engaging in sex with another man though. I'm afraid I'd get so hard that I'd injure myself. Chastity play is really a sideline kink for us.

 

I believe that in a true FLR it is her absolute right to choose if she needs or wants other men to satisfy her while her partner is in chastity. And even if he is not in chastity. But especially if he is in chastity -- think about it. His behaviour is so much better in chastity but it can be really tricky to get full satisfaction from hands and mouth only. That shouldn't be my problem.

I intend to exercise that right to the fullest extent if I ever feel the need to.

 

It's not for us either, but we aren't really in a FLR outside of the bedroom. She's not a big fan of PIV and doesn't like to share, which works for me because I'm not into cuckolding.

 

I talked to my Wife about her needs being met by other men after she said the one thing she missed since making me chaste was the feeling of us having a simultaneous orgasm. She is aware that the idea wasn’t a hard limit for me and she appreciates that, but monogamy is hard wired into her. She is utterly uninterested in having sex with anyone else.

 

I agree. If she is in charge then she can do whatever she wants. If she can't choose to play with another man then she is not really in charge.