"It's not permanent, it's only "mostly" permanent."

Starting May 2018 I was locked with no removals at all up to November 2018, followed by a few days unlocked for travelling, then locked with no removals to May 2019, then three weeks out for travelling, then locked back since then with no removals. So two spells of 6 months locked, and one ongoing currently nearing 6 months. Emptying/relief is by regular milking (every month or two) and night leaking. For sports, my swimming and running are carried out while I stay locked.

 

That all sounds awesome.

Thanks for sharing.

 

Mrs Edge and I have always played long term when we play; while we usually talk about making it permanent while we're having sex, we've never actually discussed it seriously.

This time around is no different, except that I've been locked and denied continuously since March of 2018. Our bedroom talk now *always* mentions making it permanent, and the handful of times I've asked her about this in real life, she claims to be just fine with the idea.

I've written elsewhere that we use a Vixskin dildo in a good harness (Stormy Leather Terra Firma), and it's a fairly good replica of my own size and shape, so she doesn't feel like she's really missing out on anything. For the last few months, I've taken to heating it up beyond body temperature (between 110ºF and 120ºF), which gives her an exquisite feeling inside. Recently, she mentioned offhand that she didn't even remember what I felt like inside her (which gave me a "OMG, that's hot" moment).

So, while we haven't made any plans to make it permanent, it seems like we've grown into it and don't have any plans to change in the foreseeable future. I've only recently come to this realization, and haven't quite processed it all yet.

 

I’m out most weekends, this week though I have a blocked hair follicle so, until the swelling around it is gone... I’m out

 

I don't have any idea because I try not to direct things. Recently, I have a proper fitting device.

This year I've been mostly locked but my wife would give me HJ in response to my suggestions. I think she has learned to take advantage of it being up to her though. I'm reluctant to ask because I don't want to influence any outcome. I told her yesterday that it doesn't matter when or if I cum so long as she is happy. Fuck, I wanna cum badly though.

This summer I was unlocked for 2 months which I nutted everyday on my own. I've been locked now 77 days and counting since then. No breaks for any reason. Air travel, doctors appointment, sports and all the things people get anxious about I'm locked for.

Is it permanent, I don't know. It seems this is the new norm now for my asexual wife and I.

 

yes, that sounds mostly permanent. Hope you both continue to enjoy the lifestyle.

 

All is as it should be then!

 

I would say the only thing permanent, is the lifestyle. Cage wear is the normal from here on out. She lets me out about once a month to fool around. The last one was 3 months. I lock up after my fun is over and stay that way until she wants me to have some more pleasure.

That’s pretty much as complicated as it gets with us. She unlocked me for vacation, more than likely as a precaution to flying and not wanting to deal with missing a flight over my cage.

I actually feel a little weird not wearing it, luckily (or unluckily) that’s not something I have to worry much about or for very long.

 

I have been locked full-time for two years. I am released for edging and to fulfill her wishes. I don't get climaxes very often. Other than some doctor appointments and flying, I am always locked.

 

I average about once a week unlocked. My wife is all about piv. So I'm out for either sex, shaving, or special events/circumstances.

I'm not allowed to go anywhere alone unlocked. My device fits well enough I don't need to take it off to shower or urinate.

 

The only thing permanent is impermanence. Wow, that was deep, I'm going to order myself a bumper sticker with that on it.

 

You take tour cage off to pee ?? And ride motorbike ??
You don't sound to me like you know what chastity is.

 

Good thing we have such vigilant Gatekeepers to keep this community on track.

 

Our commitment to my submission is permanent. The cage, as an implement of that submission, is omnipresent. It comes off only when she wants to use the penis (every two or three weeks) and for lengthy (>40 miles) bike rides. I started it, but she's decided it's not ever coming off without her permission, which is rarely granted. She controls all erections, I am not permitted any free erections, ever. One way I look at it is nighttimes; I haven't been unlocked overnight since August.

 

I love the way you write, it gives me huge inspiration and exitement

 

Permanent chastity also means peace, coorperation, saving energy and thinking of others, and leads to more obidience and better a better half for your wife, so that is not too bad, I guess?

 

Yes it is a beautiful situation, that grows into real slavery one day. The more you yourself control, the more ego in your relationship and that might not be good for you both. Calming down is just to relax and don't decide but follow.

 

I am allowed out for timed shower and cleaning of cage 1x per week. I am also allowed out for monthly waxing. The lady there says it is cool and everything except i must take it off myself. So mistress says to take it off just before going there.
The only other time was medical, i was having surgery and it had to come off, so it was off when i went to hospital, but back on as soon as i was back home.. Other than that i been allowed 1x out to cum and that was last March.

 

agree with this, I am let out weekly for cleaning and shaving, and that’s it. Other wise I am locked 24/7.