I found this Wall Street Journal link interesting as it relates to being held in chastity and trying NOT to think about the predicament you're in. Give it a read and share your comments! http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052748703478704574612052322122442.html
Yes, the article is also about a timely subject: Resolutions, but I thought about how we have to distract ourselves sometimes when we're really horny and trying not to think about that!