What I want

Well okay then. And then there are those who are just interested in reading. Just maybe not the above. But I’m assuming that’s not directed at everyone, just the people bugging you.

 

Curls up at your feet like a good pet at the end of the evening....

 

Yes....worn out from serving and pampering all day long....

You can look down with satisfaction that I'm worn out from serving and spoiling you and there is no more to give for today.

 

Ask not what your domme can do for you. Ask what you can do for your Domme.

My wife works full time as one of those Evil HR people. She has been on a business trip the last few days. There are a few things expected of me without being told, like clean the house (basic adult stuff.)

She is also time poor, so I try to run errands on her behalf, even if they only save her 5 minutes, its 5 minutes she could spend relaxing or focusing on more important things.

 

The first line of her post shows that this message was originally posted on, and intended for, the members of FetLife. I hope that on the whole we are a little better behaved here.

When I read this, I took it as part of Lucy's continued attempt to spend some of her precious time educating us undeserving subs on how NOT to treat a dominant woman.

 

Ms Lucy. You know what I want?

I want to please the one I serve. Her pleasure brings me pleasure. Her happiness makes me happy.

So, I want someone who understands that if she takes care of someone who is devoted she’ll be treated like a queen. Sadly like the jerks You run across, some of us run across women who don’t respect themselves let alone others. And that makes things difficult.

So not to hijack your thread, but you deserve to be treated well. And when you find that real one or ones, treat them well as they’re as real as a wonderful Domme.

 

If I was there, it would be my honor to be there when you arrived and hand you your beverage of choice and while I took your coat and bags you sat in your comfy chair so that I could return and remove your shoes to give your feet a much needed massage while I asked and listened to how your day went then maybe move up to your shoulders and gave them the same before I went off and finished getting dinner ready for you. Then dinner is followed up with a body massage before a nice relaxing bath.

 

Wow! I am so glad I already have a Benevolent Beauty to please, a Goddess who finds me worthy even as She denies me.

 

Sorry to hear that. That's tough.

Would you rather have a partner who doesn't work, but is at home waiting to pamper you? Or would you rather have a partner who brings in money so that you could take a less stressful job?

 

I guess it's possible to find a partner who works, but has enough flexibility to be there for you

 

Well I don’t think there is any doubt as to what your wants and desires are

Nothing better than a lady that knows what she wants. I can’t imagine you will find it too hard to get people to submit to your will (hopefully they don’t enjoy it or at least let you know they enjoy it too much

 

That's really the essence of it, submitting means serving the one you submit to. So if you are truly submissive you place your Domme before yourself, and don't focus on all you want to have done to you. That's just topping from the bottom.

That what you want to have may be done to you if you please your mistress well enough, IF she's in the mood for it.

My rule is ' subs don't ask' because I am in charge. If they don't want that, they should be Doms.

 

Actually--and I mean absolutely no disrespect here--I can figure out what L-u-c-y doesn't want. It's not quite so clear to me what she does want.

Once again, I mean no disrespect at all.

 

its easy, she just wants what ever she wants and doesn’t expect to hear anything other than yes lol.

I imagine: She isn’t after dick pics, people wanting to send pics of submission etc, she expects people to give her respect and do what she demands as she makes a demand (should she have to voice a need), not tell her what you’d like her to do or want or how you suffered in her service.
A Mistress excepts servitude not have to ask for it or feel they are giving your desire more thought than her own and certainly not have to listen (read) about how much pleasure you get from your submission lol.

maybe I’m wrong lol

 

Very true @MRS.Lilith
During my journey so far I have come to realise exactly what you have said.

Regarding the post. There is no excuse for rudeness. I think however that kind of reply was probably what they were looking for and they will get off on it.

"Get on your knees and get your act together you greedy, needy, self absorbed slobs!"

This could be wank material for the writer.

I would suggest politely ignore. Or Equally rude but short and sharp "F you" without references to herself, what she does or Femdom porno words. Perhaps easier said than done if your constantly bombarded with crap and this was her offloading and hopefully making herself feel better.

I have seen @L-u-c-y post of similar material she receives and it can't be nice but she has a unique way of dealing with it in her post or thread whatever you call it.

 

I mean no disrespect to Mistress Lucy or others who are of a similar persuasion in aiming to get out of life everything that they can by whatever means is at their disposal i just feel a little sorry that there are some poor souls as well as the ones this rant may have been aimed at originally who may get the idea that every potential mistress thinks like this

 

This hits home with me. We really aren't into findom but I'm a part-time musician and about a year ago, she started demanding all the gig money. I actually thought it was cool. We are married so our assets are blended anyway so it's symbolic.
The second part is what really resonates. I commit the sub sin of asking too often 'what do you want'? Sometimes she replies 'just be nice'. It makes sense.

 

I thnk it is great that you have taken the time to spell this out to those that have not been aware of your posts for very long and expecially for the hard of understanding.... and the pathetic losers who will not doubt continue to bother you.

I imagine that anyone on CM that has read only a few of your posts would be aware of what you would expect from someone that you had permitted the opportunity to serve you. So clearly this post is not so much directed at CM members but more of a declaration and explanationof way you feel they way you do about the people that have clearly not bothered to try and understand a little about before sending their ridiculous often pathetic requests.


I would like to suggest that what you might benefit from is someone willing to go through your stuff...not personal stuff obviously.. and delete all that does not make the grade... I think you would then find yourself with a lot more timeto persue those thins that do inteest you and be considerably less offended by those males that ought not to be allowed access to the internet without the supervision of a responsible adult.