Orgasm allowed how often ?

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    Lady Kat asked me this question today after i was begging for an orgasm. " how often are the males on this site allowed to cum ? "
    I replied some are a week, some are a very long time but i would guess the average is about a month. Either by piv, ruined, milking, pegging or masturbation.
    Am i wrong in my estimation ?
     
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    Mine usually are every week or two, longest was eighteen days, then wife us ready for next to be out. Then she will want me out for a while before lick up again. With that said, we gave committed to locktober and NOvember, so I may be in for 2 months this time. Good luck.
     
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    How often am I allowed to cum? Never.

    Still, the device needs to be removed a few times a year for medical exams, etc. And, accidents do happen.

    :rolleyes:
     
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    Milked every week , ruined monthly , pegged as she thinks fit does not always end with release , full orgasm ? what's that ?
     
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    I am not sure that milking by manipulation of the prostate counts as cumming.
     
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    Agree , if done right more just a release of fluid, so possibly does not count , ruined may be along a similar line,
     
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    It was about every two weeks just for a milking . That was before Locktober . Who knows now. My orgasms have been longer in between times. Right now 7 weeks is the longest .
     
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    It’s changed over time. It use to be weekly, than monthly, now I don’t know when my next orgasm will be two maybe three a year. Things change.
     
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    from what i've read
    between 4 and 6 weeks
    from what the urolog said : no necessary : it will "go out" alone in wet dreams

    my Queen, after She'd played, authorizes me to finish myself about once a month
    sometimes 2 weeks, sometimes 6 weeks, depends of Her desires
     
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    1st of each month (Except this October) I get a "free" day
     
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    It just depends on what my mistress wants.

    Normally my orgasms are based on my behaviour. But there is no guaranteed orgasm for me.
     
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    We average about four times per year.
     
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    I am generally allowed to look at porn and orgasm on Sunday nights. However, during Locktober, I am not permitted erections.
     
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    I was allowed out for masturbation about 5 months ago. Before that it was milking which doesn't count. No need to ask her as if i ask then she is determine to make me go longer without one. Longest is 2 yrs
     
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    Once a week in 2017, less than 3 a month in 2018, and we’re at 22 in 10 months so far in 2019. But always under her control.

    There’s no schedule though. She gave me 6 in January and none for three months. My keyholding wife has become excellent at perfect ruins. She prefers them.

    It’s been a slow steady descent into denial and delirium.
     
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    Never.

    That is, never *intentionally.* After four to six weeks I'll have a "spillover" in the cage, which Mrs Edge finds both amusing and hot. But those are involuntary, and I'm expected to hold back if I feel one coming (heh) on.

    But I'll also admit that we both find the idea of "never" pretty exciting and it's not for everyone.
     
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    Average so far is 1 every 2 weeks. There's no set time it's when she allows. Longest without is 3 weeks. I like to keep a record of days locked, PIV, Ruins and also her orgasms. She has more than me.
     
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    My princess and I started this adventure on September 1, 2018. In that time I have been allowed to have 7 orgasms / ejaculations. Currently I'm at 166 days since my last one.
     
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    Mine is allowed to cum exactly when and how I want it. He himself has no desire to cum, so it is often done by me when I want to punish him or when he needs to have a clear head for a specific situation and he's in subspace too much.

    So far we've got a record of 6 weeks denial, my next plan is to up it to 8 weeks.
     
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    Sounds like us. I don’t want orgasms to become a punishment. So I try to keep a level head and not get so deep in subspace that I’m not a friend and partner. My wife sometimes just feels the need to express that power over me. And lets me know that she won’t break me and I’ll be ok after just one orgasm. I haven’t broken headspace in years though. Even after a single orgasm.

    Having her be in full control is wonderful. The denial ends up being a gift. She knows it. Orgasms are a break from the heady frustration and delirium.
     
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    Mine were approx every 4-6 weeks, till my love was finally conviced about my changing behaviour after my last full one. Now, she likes to ruin my orgasms and she became an expert in that. Honestly, I am not any more looking forward to my orgasms but looking forward to what is coming i.s.o. cumming....
     
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    I’m not. I am only allowed anal stimulation and anal orgasms at my madams permission.
     
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    I am pending my first real device within the next few days. My KH to be has suggested I won’t get any only milked; if it comes out of its cage ever I will apparently be blindfolded so I never see it erect again but appreciate this could all be in the realms of fantasy: I will know more over the non cumming weeks!
     
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    Good luck ,but you will need to come out once a week for cleaning and inspection . Especially with a new cage and first lock up. Her job is to inspect . You can not even touch while cleaning . Wash cloth, or some other type of bath cloth.
     
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