PIV

So far She is repelled by the idea of cuckolding me, but i do wish she had a bull to fuck Her the way She deserves to be.

 

My beautiful wife/KH decided on no more PIV a couple of years ago. I bring her orgasm with my mouth/hands/vibrator most nights, and I am allowed to masturbate in her presence 3-4 times/year. (I'm done for 2019)

She has on occasion wished out loud for a large cock, but so far we have not done cuckolding, and I doubt we will.

 

Anytime I am allowed to take Viagra, I get PIV, I'm just not allowed to cum.

 

Since PIV has stopped, intimacy increased significantly, as have love making opportunities. The pleasure and satisfaction from these moments is incredible and better than ever before as everything is focused on Her pleasure.

 

My KH/Wife always considered PIV as a marital duty and since we practice the chastity lifestyle feels relieved of it having vanished, lol
Only rarely,once,twice a year ,sometimes because of a whim of her,sometimes as a VERY special gift for me, she surprises me with PIV , accomplishing the side effect of never letting me forget about it!

 

My wife has always loved PIV and for years was frustrated that I did not initiate it. I knew I was submissive and needed her to lead (and of course I was also masturbating a lot). Now that I am chaste, and she is older, she both needs it less and withholds it as a special treat, permitting every 8 weeks or so. Even then it may just be a tease, only allowing the glans inside, no thrusting allowed, reinforcing the futility of my erection as she uses her wand to give herself full moaning multiple orgasms while I wait vainly for permission to enter and have to witness the repeated drawn out power and superiority of her female orgasm. If she permits entire entry she is always on top, she likes to ride, to use him in a way that assures her satisfaction. Even then I am expected not to emit unless permission is given; that last happened in December 2018.

 

It really helps knowing we are not alone

 

My wife loves having multiple orgasms with a big cock deep inside her. Since my penis is quite small and cums very very quickly, PIV sex with me is not at all satisfying for her and is not allowed. At all. Ever again.

 

That's my situation. My cock is too small to satisfy her anymore, so I please her with my mouth and hands. She has occasionally mentioned that she misses having a big cock, but that's as far as it's gone. I doubt we would ever do cuckolding.

 

My wife allows me to please her with my tongue and fingers, and when she says "I need a cock in me" I know to reach for the huge dildo. Sometimes I ask, "Oh, do you mean mine?" just to hear her reiterate "No, of course not. Why would I want that tiny thing?! I want a real cock!" She has always been up for at least a little bit of cuckold fantasy and role play, but outside of the bedroom she would say that will never happen. But more and more lately she initiates that all on her own and insists that it would be wonderful to finally experience sex with a real man.

 

Once all the ego and social norms were stripped away, had an open and nonjudgmental conversation about needs, wants, and desires, we had a very good understanding.

Once she knew she could tell me anything and not worry about my feelings or sense of masculinity, she was free to share that:
Yes I was pretty small
No she really didn’t feel much
Yes she still wants sex
No she didn’t really do it for the same reasons as me, more for intimacy and to give pleasure
Yes if left to her she could do away with piv with me but enjoys that connection.

Another thing we discussed was me on top. I remember when we started all this she looked up submissive men, chastity, FLR, and got on top and said I guess I’ll be on top from now on. I didn’t really think about it much but she kept at it. When I questioned her later about it she said it just didn’t feel right if I was on top of her anymore. Then it also was brought up that due to my size, is about the only way she gets anything out of it(basically grinding her clit on it). Every once in awhile she’ll say “ok you can get on top” but almost exclusively it’s because she wants me to cum and that takes care of it within seconds.

Things change when I wear the harness and take her with the strap on. She surrenders to what normal is and loses herself in the moment.

 

Just out of curiosity, how small are you? Not trying to be malicious or judgemental....just wondering.

 

No worries, the online version of me is fairly open hahaha. Three and a half inches(hard), a good length reference is a standard lighter(much thicker though lol).

 

With our last PIV sex happening over a year ago, I think it's safe to say we're done with it for good. We've been married five years now (and together fifteen), and altogether you can probably count the number of times we've had PIV sex on one hand. For us, the issue actually goes beyond kink. She's unbelievably tight (about one finger's width and even that is pushing it), so sex is usually quite painful for her. On the other hand, I have a tendency to cum before I can even get halfway inside of her, which obviously doesn't make PIV very enticing.

Luckily, chastity/denial is my biggest kink, so we have a pretty good thing going. After we both turned 30 earlier this year, it seemed like a good time to cut out PIV from our marriage and leave it as "that thing we did a few times in our 20s". Of course, I'm okay with her doing it with other men should she ever become comfortable with a cuckolding dynamic.

 

I would say it's uncommon, however that can change quickly. Historically when I'm allowed an orgasm it is via PIV and when I'm allowed one we have tended to employ the dog off the leash mentality. My suspicion will be the next time this happens will be Thanksgiving with the last time it happened is in August. In between she seems quite happy with a bit of foreplay, a bit of oral and completion with the wand. She has really taken to analingus in this last phase which I find highly erotic. Every once in awhile she'll have me numb up and put on a condom if she wants to experience penetration without me having an orgasm.

 

We are going on 35 days of no PIV which is a long time for us. The drought has been a combination of circumstances. Since the last time, I’ve had only one orgasm, which was very ruined and very humiliating and under very kinky circumstances. I really don’t know what I want next. She doesn’t like to admit to liking controlling me, and I wish we could bond over the things I endure for her more. She’s admitted she likes the control, but also admit she doesn’t like acknowledging being “unfair” or “‘mean” or having double standards”. Sometimes, I’ve raised idea of MB, and she mostly says that she likes “things the way they are”.

 

salting my fries.

 

Alright..... what is ‘salting my fries’?

 

Oh geez, I haven’t *masturbated* to completion in well over a year.

It’s hot fun when my sex drive is high and we are engaged in various misadventures, and its tedious when we real life creeps in and we aren’t connecting as much. We finally had “sex” last night, and nothing even close to PIV took place. Usually after 5 weeks, she either has had enough of denial or feels pity, but not this time. I’m glad we at least connected.

I can’t sit hear and say she “loves” denial. But she’s gotten accustomed to the control, with occasional sadism.

 

I always liked "punching the monkey" no idea why, just makes me smile typing it now.

 

That sounds a little rough. My monkey likes a firm spanking. Lol.

 

PIV is rare for us for a variety of reasons:

1. Unless she is on top of me, I rarely finish. She takes that personal. For her to be on top hurts her legs and hands.

2. She now has cuckolding fetish. I take her with Oral and a large dildo. She is way more interested in that than having me in her. She will usually grab my chastised member, and talk about cuckolding me as she cums.

3. She said the only time she plans on letting me out is to try to please her occasionally, but at least 3 months (unless necessary of course), so I better learn to get it right.