Nighttime Erections

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    So I’m on day 3 of chastity. I have a Holy Trainer v2. First night was fine, but last night in the middle of the night I got a huge erection and it was painful. It took a while for it to go down. I know nighttime erections can be an issue. Any tips on dealing with them? Will they eventually not be as strong? Last night had me re-thinking this chastity thing...
     
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    It does get easier, eventually, sometimes....

    I usually get up, walk it off, get a glass of water, think disgusting thoughts, etc.
     
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    Mine occur at about same time every night, whether in cage or not. I just learned to appreciate the tight feeling of one in a cage.
     
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    The right cage stops the erection from being painful. Although they're can be very sudden causing friction burns as the lower part of the base ring gets pulled along the balls. It's rarely a problem since I started putting some vaseline there before going to sleep.
     
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    the annoying thing about the HT is the single ring they give you so you can't try a slightly larger size. I got the burning and painful feeling the first few nights but got used to it. So used to it that I went to a tighter ring but that came off after one night, it was brutal.
    I find doing as many push ups as you can sends the blood away from your genitals and helps calm it down
     
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    Thanks everyone. It’s been fine all day today. We will see how tonight goes! I’ll try the get up and walk it off technique...hopefully that will work
     
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    Painful yes and very enjoyable at the same time love being hard, balls stretched to the max in my CB6k small and you then know being caged is so correct.
     
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    Nighttime erections might become a kind "of love and hate" for you once wearing the cage more permanently. I love the stretching and tensioned feelings during night time, which makes me tremendously aware of being caged. However once it becomes realy becomes uncomfortable, I solve it easily by goint for a pee...
     
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    when i was wearing the CB night and day
    for the night erections :
    i wake up and pee, the back to sleep
    after about 10 following nights with cb, no more erections
    but only one night without it, and that comes back next night with it
     
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    I think that it gets better, at least for some men. Your dick may become conditioned not to have as strong an erection. Or you might become used to the tight sensation in the cage. My husband had to take off the cage a couple of nights at the beginning, but soon became used to it and now actually enjoys the sensation.
     
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    It gets better, your body will become used to it over time, good luck on your journey!
     
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    As long as device is properly fitting, you will find after 4-5 nights, your body gets used to it. It actually gets quite pleasant having it be hugged all night. If I have been out for a few days, and start back in, it takes my body a few days again to get used to it.
     
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    Last night was another intense erection, but I was able to get up, walk around and it subsided...it’s a pretty unique sensation for sure!
     
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    It will get better. The painful erections really turned my wife on. My cage cage will not come off without cutting and my wife flatly refused to remove it. She would check for circulation and there was never any issues so I was forced to suffer and endure the pain. My suggestion is to ask your wife to refuse removal as long as there are no circulation issues. Since you’ve already made it this far you will probably be fine.
     
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    your body will learn that this is the new normal and not wake you up after a while. it was pretty savage for me to get used to my chinese knockoff birdcage device. i ended up opening up the base ring between 45 and 50. 1.86" ended up being perfect. a TINY amount meant a lot of difference in comfort. vs discomfort and sleepless nights.

    granted i have a steel cage. when i got my lori 2A cage, the same held true. new cage new learning curve. im not slowly adjusting it again as i had to angle the tube away from the base ring as i was having my pens "kink" like a hose being pinched, when fully erect. this would cause blood to not flow back as quickly as it should, and the cage became a cock ring of sorts. angled the tube upward a little and the problem went away. my balls can now slide out of the cage gap so i plan on adjusting it back slowly to see where i hit the sweet spot of discomfort at night vs security of slipping off.

    ditch the plastic cage and get a steel one. It also shows less as the plastic ones dont hang low, whereas steel ones have gravity pulling them down. if you have a dremmel you can adjust the steel cage tooo.
     
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    If you have testicular pain or what feels like it, the back ring is too small. If you have erections just pulling/pushing the cage or the head throbbing from cage contact you'll be ok and get used to it.
     
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    Yes it’s just pulling the cage and the head throbbing. I believe the ring is the right size. No problems during the day
     
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    For me it means I need to pee. I get up and pee and I normally calm down. I need to hurry up and go back to sleep and not think about sex though or I'll keep myself up.
     
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    When it was really hurting in the past I would apply some lidocaine to my balls. That would ease the burning sensation. My head trying to push thru the cage was another story. Now I rarely need lidocaine but I still have pain from my head trying to push past the cage. I'm glad that at least my wife benifits from my pain.

    I can't begin to express the feelings I experienced the first night I woke her and asked her to remove the cage. I was in some pretty bad pain. She inspected things and said she sees no problem and she was really happy to see me in pain. It really turned her on. She also said it's not real chastity if she releases me when I want.
     
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    I use to have night erections but in time (months passed) they stopped or should i say its quite rare in these days. But if that intolerable pain wakes me up at night it usually goes away after pee. You will get use to it. It is part of been chaste ;)
     
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    I concur that after a while, you basically stop having erections. When I was first working myself up to permanently locked, I stopped having them. But, as others have said, unfortunately, if you take it off, they will come back. That is what happened while I was in that break in period.

    Since I went permanent, I have had so few I can't remember. Also, they were weak ones.
    So if you are in it for the long haul, there is a pretty good chance you will not have a problem.
     
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    I got them for the first week or so but now my erections feel weak and puny in the cage now and my Wife ordered me to sleep without my cage for one night two nights ago and my erections were weak and puny out of the cage
     
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    It's better to always wear the cage at night, your body learns to not have erections less often, usually then only because you need a pee.
     
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    I just had my first one and I thought my balls were going to get cut off. I took a pee, sitting down lol, and things settled down. A little lube by my balls and I was good. So peeing helped me
     
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    I have a Behind Barz belt and nigttime erections are wonderful. Because the penis is always forced down and held close to the body, there is no pain or discomfort at All. After a while it feels like someone is holding me in a in a firm grip and it feels awesom. Much Better than whithout the belt and erect, as far as I remember :)
     
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