does you cage really prevent you from cumming?

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    I've cum in my cage when Mistress Keyholder was teasing me. Her finger nails can fit between the bars and She knows the sensitive places to stroke. Couldn't achieve an erection, but ejaculated. It wasn't great and felt quite unfulfilling. However afterwards She said, "no reason to unlock that for a while, is there?" which immediately made me start twitching again.

    I guess to answer the question - no. With enough stimulation it is possible, even without an erection
     
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    We are very new at caging, but we did see whether he could cum without being uncaged. We used on of my vibrators. It has a tapered end on one side that can fit between the gaps in his metal cage, and a blunt end on the other side that can send vibrations through the entire cage. He was able to cum after great effort, but he said that it was unsatisfying. This might be a way for us to clear his fluids without his having a full orgasm and without even having to uncage him.
     
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    I agree, it is not satisfying or fulfilling and not something I would ever initiate
     
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    I think that is the point. A man needs to clear the tubes occasionally, but that not the same as having a pleasurable orgasm.
    As I understand it, prostate massage is another good way to clear the tubes.

    I can actually have an orgasm from anal sex. Its a gratifying release in my head and it does not include any ejaculate from my penis.

    My ultimate goal is to have an anal orgasm including penile discharge whilst still being in chastity and without any penile stimulation.

    This, for me, is the ultimate submission. A true sissygasm.
     
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    My body does that automagically: I still get wet dreams occasionally. All I'm left with is a mess that I have to clean up and I forget the dream that caused it in the first place.
     
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    The old conundrum! i could wank off and cum in my cage. But it wont be a proper orgasm it is more a ruined milking, and then there is the guilt of wasting all that built up hornyness.
    i have small blunt spikes (not really spikes at all) which make it uncomfortable for me to wank, that helps.
    i have no will power which is why i’m in chastity.

    Once you learn you can cum it ruins the cage experience, don’t try it.
     
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    My wife tried a little experiment one night when her girl friend/lover was over. I was placed in a stockade and my wife had her middle finger all the way in my ass and was giving me a slow prostate massage. Her girl friend held a hitachi vibrator on the cage and kept playing with the speed and location. After 10-15 minutes of outright torture, the kept it on and I shot a load thru my cage that landed a good 3 feet in front of me. They were both shocked and the pleasure that racked my body was incredible. I keep begging for them to do me that way again.
     
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    When I got a CB6000 I found that I could straight away orgasm my stroking my frenum with a well-lubed cotton bud or even the tip of my little finger. A Steelworkxx Steelheart with PA retainer seemed to be the perfect solution but after about a week in it I managed to orgasm by vigorously shaking the tube and with practice I can do both on a daily basis - but at least that's better than my normal 3-4 times a day and if I was in a relationship I'd save myself for her.

    The only unbeatable solution for me is a full belt. I have a Neosteel which I'm overweight for at the moment, and a Chinese 'Y' belt that I've mentioned elsewhere, and not got anywhere close to an orgasm in either.
     
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    Caged orgasms are terrible... I hate them so much
     
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    As others have said, it's about the meaning of being put in chastity and staying chaste until allowed by your KeyHolder. Having said that, I have had spontaneous orgasms due to over excitement whilst pleasuring my Wife.
     
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    In other cages, I have been able to with little effort with the Hitachi, but that was the only way. My wife is very sensitive and will never use anything as aggressive as the Hitachi, so we got rid of it. Now I don't have the option to use it, and there's no way for me without it.
     
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    I've had a couple of full orgasms whilst caged, it does help me if i've gone a long while between but Mistress doesn't often allow me an orgasm even caged, I am severely punished if i do have one, currently averaging maybe 1 or 2 a year (not keeping a log) Mistress's aim is to torture me with pleasure but she really doesnt want me to come ever again
     
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    With great frustration with a vibrator against my cage I managed to cum once but it took a long time and a lot of effort with no satisfaction at all, a ruined orgasm as people have mentioned which I feel is true. Then the guilt feeling of wasting her cum.
    I glad I did it in a way as the feeling of not cumming far out ways the feeling of a ruined orgasm and I will never try again ever.
     
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    I can in the looker 2 with not a lot of effort although I tend not to, its definitely a ruined shit orgasm. I have a full belt that pushes the cock back between my legs and thats impossible to cum via manipulation. My keyholders knows this but she still prefers the looker 2. She simply said well now I don't have to ever let you out. (Thankfully she does tho lol)
     
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    I tried once in a fit of insanity. I failed and was rewarded with very sore balls. Haven't tried since.
     
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    With my Bijou, the head is untouchable. Stroking the shaft does nothing. M’Lady hasn’t tried yet
     
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    Yes I can cum if I want to. But the cage reminds me not to.
     
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    #69 LadyL, Dec 6, 2019
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    @subslave l, so you have been pushing your boundaries? That is a punishable offense. We will talk later.
     
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    Yes, M’Lady
     
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    My MaleChastityNow Kali’s Tooth Bracelet (KTB) in 2009-2010 timeframe made my erection and orgasm incredibly painful, but I still came. I tried to calm down and my body wouldn’t stop. I would have thought the pain would have made me go soft.

    Nope. Stupid dick.

    It just got harder and harder. My eyes were wide and I was relieved after it was over. But my penis wouldn’t go soft until it had its spurts.

    I’ve stopped being such a pain slut in the decade since my penis won that battle.
     
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    I did the same in my Steelworxx Steelheart. I thought it was impenetrable. I got friction and came. It felt awful but I was deflated.

    I can get a tighter fit in an open style cage with a fixed pin, like my MCN Contender. No friction. No movement. No room to expand. It works for me.

    I just need to guard my little magic spot on the underside when I’m that small and snug.
     
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    I don't honestly know if my cage could or does keep me from orgasming, but I've never orgasmed in any of my cages over the past 2 1/2 years of being locked no matter what happened. I've never tried a vibrator and don't intend to unless Ms K/H wants to try, but I'm not expecting that to happen. So, as long as I'm caged, I expect that I'll not be getting any orgasms unless Ms K/H decides I deserve one.
     
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    Over the past 6 weeks or so I've discovered that it's quite easy for me to orgasm in my MCN Contender steel, open bar cage. Stroking on the frenum gets me to swell up, pressing thru the bars, and then it's pretty easy to stroke / jiggle to orgasm.

    Blech. I don't want to cum except when my KH instructs me too -- I enjoy the submission and denial. But the stimulation is a rush-- I love edging. So I've been indulging in the edging, and haven't learned perfect control - sometimes I go a bit too far and spurt, much to my disappointment. I love my Contender (completely comfortable for 24x7 wear), but I'm thinking maybe I need to switch back to my A2xx device with an enclosed tube so I can't play like this.
     
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