does you cage really prevent you from cumming?

which version of the bracelet are you talking about? the first one ( for me ) almost sent me the hosptial ER,
and it was around the head. I still see the scars after a decade.

 

I agree. That was the first thing my wife told me when we became serious with my chastity. If I ever was given the opportunity to orgasm, ruined or not, she was to be present. And I had better have her approval first.

It makes all the struggle so worth while. Especially since she and I enjoys sex and intamacy on a much greater level.

 

I have never managed relief, although my device is fairly extreme. I don't think it would be pleasant.

How pleasant was it for you?

 

The KTB I have I would not want to get hard in. It would probably pierce the skin. The teeth are sharp.

 

There is a picture of the one my KH uses on me in the gallery feel free to go take a look it has a lot of spikes but no bladed edges that can cause damage, my KH wants to help me be better and train me not damage me.
My KH Loves me and would be beside themselves if they ever caused me serious physical damage or harm, they would see it as their failure to protect me.

 

Can I orgasm in my cage? Depends on the cage.

I had several that have gotten pretty close, close enough that I knew if I kept it up I would have spilled. From shaking my cage up and down or using a vibrating toy, I could tell that it was possible.

Then came my current device. It uses a piercing to attach myself to the cage. It is fixed, meaning the prong is part of the cage with my penis attached. It is also pretty much totally enclosed. It allows no room for growth. I’ve tried quite a few times, for review and experimental reasons of course, and pretty much a fail. Tried the cage jacking, tried the vibrating wand, even the shower head. Get riled up, but couldn’t finish. The wand especially was a no go because the only place I could feel it was on the tip which rattled my prong which hurt too much to feel good.

I think if I really worked at it, spent more than a few hours watching porn and vibrating it, it would eventually happen. I am a firm believer though, that if I have to work for hours and hours to cum in my cage, my cage did it’s job.

 

As I’ve said, I get a spanking for even touching my device other than to wipe after peeing once it’s locked. Only my Wife gets to use a vibrator on me, I wouldn’t dream of trying to cum

 

It's more the keyholder than the cage that ensures chastity.

 

I must be the exception to the rule; no matter how hard my keyholder tries, I just can't cum from a vibrator on my cock. while being fisted, anally fucked with a dildo even a vibrator up there is a different story.

 

In our marriage, the cage is about keeping me from wanking. It works!
I have come in my cage when my KH rides on it, or teases me with a vibe.
But that is another story.

 

Agree so true thank you

 

It's a tool to make you devote yourself to your partner, in exactly the same way as a wedding ring does. Yes it's a physical barrier, but while it can be easily defeated, it's more that just that, it's a constant reminder of your devotion to her. And that is it's power.

 

I have never even tried because the first day I met Mistress in person for my interview, Number one rule that night was chastity, We talked about rules, what She was looking for, wanting someone who felt honored to serve. the end of the night She handed me a box and said If you want to serve Me you wear this and it was a cb2000 no more playing with it, Its mine, that was 20 years ago still in chastity, always honoring Her rules no playing with Her Property. I made a Vow to Her at my collaring and Wedding to serve and obey follow rules.

 

I can cum, with great effort, in my steel micro cage. I'm allowed one ejaculation every 4-8 weeks, and it takes a build-up of at least 3-4 weeks before I can manage it. Locked up is also the only way I'm allowed to cum now. Several years of training with my keyholder, and over a decade with my wife have almost removed my need to cum, but they view it as a maintenance thing that must be done. Removing the desire and need for it is what keeps me from being able to cum, more than the cage. I will say though, that the conditioning has been more about removing the desire for conventional masturbation and/or penetrative sex that's been the key for me. I still desire the relief, but am turned off by what we consider the "dirty habits" that I used to use to get off, if that makes sense. I no longer like cumming, but I do suffer from the frustration of not cumming.

 

Then it sounds like the device is doing its job.

 

the KTB device I'm talking about is in this clip: https://www.xnxx.com/video-yxvv6c/ktbchastity

 

Agree, this is the way it is for me as well. Our vibrator has a pad lock on it too.

 

That would be a Hard No for me and a hard limit as would it be for my KH, we chose a ktb that would cause significant pain but little damage as my heath and wellbeing count to my KH after all they do love me a great deal as I love and worship them and in their words "why would I want to damage what is mine so I cant use it for long periods?!?"

 

I find that it is more my promise to my keyholder that ensures I do not cheat in any way.

Besides I can't see what positive thing i could get out of cheating. Whereas cheating would be a a negative thing being a betrayal and let down for us both.

Neither of us want us to give up over 2 years denial, practically a year of no erections and almost 6 months of porn avoidance for one few second rather shallow orgasm followed by a significant drop.

 

I can cum locked with cage + spikes ( CB6000)... question:
what can you say about cumming in Full belt?

 

I have nothing to offer re full belts as I have never tried one.

They don't look as though I could ride a motorbike comfortably
and
I hate the idea of how potenitally difficult it might be to keep the strap/cable whatever that passes over the anus clean especially without being in your own bathroom.

I don't believe that there are many issues regarding security ....pierced or not.

 

It's been a year locked for me. So far, I have not had an orgasm when in my cage. My Wife(KH) has tried hard to get me to cum by teasing me while locked. She will either have me dry hump her or the bed to make me cum, but nothing so far. She has also had me to the edge many times by just sucking on my balls. She will taunt me by asking how close I am to a orgasm. Many times, I think it will be any second, but it just never happens. If my Wife makes me cum while caged, that would be fine, but I don't want to unless she makes me. Part of MC for me is knowing that only my Wife has the power to let me cum when she wants to have it happen.

 

Yep.

I can too, in my full belt but their is no release, i mean i cum but no satisfaction.

 

any cage can be circumvented wth a vibrator, imagination, and some manual stimulation.
a estim can bring anyone to orgasm when the power s jacked up. i struggle with keeping myself from misbehaving. now i lift weights when the urge strikes. i will be n tip top shape soon with the way things are going.