Hi all. My name is Dave , living in Germany. I got started with chastity awhile ago, the reason is, is that my wife is going through menopaus now since 3 years. During this time we had no Sex or any Type of snuggling or anything because she was afraid I would want to have PIV Sex, as that is very painfull for her. As a result she would always push me away anytime I got near her. I always locked myself secretly anytime I left the house that way i Could not do anything stupid. At home I would masturbate secretly everyday, I had migranes all the time, was about to ask for a divorce but I love my wife so much. We have been together for 20 years . I then told her about my cage and asked her if she would lock me und keep the Key. At first she was not sure, so we agreed to try it for 2 weeks. Well, she now Loves it and keeps me locked 24/7 since june 16 2019. The only orgasms I become are ruined orgasms. Well guess what, I now no longer have migranes, we have snuggled more since we started chastity than we had in the last 3 years . Chastity has saved our marraige and I have not felt so good in years. I must add, that I have always helped her with the household and cooking. We both a Work 40 hour week so it is normal for me that she always becomes my help with the household. Have a great day Dave
Welcome and what a wonderful story! It certainly sounds like the two of you have found something that works for you both. Congratulations.
Hi, welcome and glad things are working out for you as well as you are feeling better. My wife still loves sex but about every two weeks and I would want it daily. Similar to you I jerked off daily sometimes a couple times a day. I was always grouchy with a short temper. Also similar to you the cuddling went away even though she loves it. I would always get hard and then she felt pressured to have sex even when I did not ask. When she was finally in the mood I was not.. I Ibrought up the idea and she did not like it. She thought it was mean, she is not dominant and did not want me to be submissive. I explained and asked her to try. She still does not really like discussing the cage but likes it. I am no longer grouchy and am always in the mood when she is ready. If I do not put it on after sex she reminds that I need to wear it. Like you we are both so much happier.