I've been locked in chastity for a few days now, the ball ring really starts to hurt when sleeping. It's a Bon4m plus device (some edges could be rounder) I've read some oils work? Which ones are best? Thanks
Your main choices will be between oils and cream/lotions. Oils, usually petroleum based (baby oil gel is popular) last a long time, and remain slippery all day. However, they tend to stain your underwear, and require a thorough cleaning because they tend to trap oils, urine, and sweat, so will get a funky smell. Lotions (I prefer the thick Gold Bond unscented) wear off more quickly, and may need to be reapplied during the day. However, they are much easier to clean, usually with just a hot shower and a lot of soap. They also trap urine, sweat, etc., but since they wash out easily, you stay cleaner. If you are new to wearing a device, you might want to start with oil until your body adapts to wearing it, and then switch to lotions.
i use nothing, just keeping my clitty and surrounding areas shaved smooth works for me and i have been locked for almost a 1 year now.
Thanks! I used some beard oil only thing I could find that helped abit and still smelled good after a day!
I use a regular Lubridern lotion and that works well for me. I notice when I travel to dry climates though I had to reapply every few hours. So in dry locations I use either baby oil or a silicone lube. Some of this is also just your body getting used to the cage. In my experience I can run "dry" during the day depending on my activity level. At night though I wake to the burning if I forget to lubricate.
I bought a bon4m and needed more than lotion or oil. I needed a dremel to remove all of the sharp edges. Even after all of that, still very uncomfortable.
It really depends on the device you have I think! I have a steel design with open bars! Usually just a bit of baby oil in the very tip of my penis helps me slip through the ring after my balls! Any extra lube just makes the ring slip! With this design I preferred a dry run so to speak! I also have to steal 2 style design which does require some lube in his much harder clean yeah it is inescapable! Guess which one Michelle prefers! I guess it's part of the fun trying different things seeing what works best for you!
I prefer lotion or moisturiser, it’s all down to to your preference and skin type I think, and as mentioned keeping hair free is a big help to.
Fractionated Coconut Oil is my oil of choice. Its is pretty amazing stuff. You can do anything with it, yes anything. The food grade coconut oil is even edible. You can soften your skin, cook dinner, and whatever else you can think of. Slick so getting into your cage is easy.
I will order some thanks! Atm mine just hurts abit at night time, where the ball ring is rubbing, just have to wake up in the middle of the night to rub some oil in! I think its the design of the Chastity tbh. When im up and about i have no issues, even being able to lift weights and run at the gym fine!
JO silicone lubricant available online. A few small drops lasts all day and night. It doesn’t get sticky or wear off like water based lubricants or lotions. I have been in permanent chastity in a metal cage for over 3 years without any issues whatsoever. It’s a bit spendy but well worth it. I once was shipped the wrong kind and they let me keep it and quickly sent me the correct kind.