Clear Punishment

Punishment when required and for genuine bad behaviour is now a fundamental part of our loving FLR. It was something Miss A was unsure about to begin with, but now we both view it as a quick and effective way to deal with issues. Whether it is across her lap or bent over the bed, it deflates my male ego and encourages me to do better. Afterwards we have cuddles and reconciliation.

 

Yes that to me is the best as long as not done in anger lesson is learned

 

It is never done in anger, always with love.

 

cuddles are nice.

 

Nanny has been spanking me more regularly of late. As a Loving Dominant, she had trouble with the notion of causing pain. No more. She gets completely aroused when I am up on all fours on my changing table, as She moves through Her collection of paddles and whips. My spankings are usually fairly short in duration; maybe 10 -15 minutes. I am always crying for mercy by the end, as Nanny holds my feet down to keep me from squirming.

Nanny then helps me down from the changing table towards the bed, where She has Her sissy slave service Her orally for up to an hour. I remain locked and naked between Her legs until She has had enough pleasure. Then, it's back on the changing table, to be put into fresh diapers & plastic panties, and dressed as Nanny wishes.

Nanny now wishes Her marks to last more than a few hours. My stamina is about to be tested

 

I don't think any physical punishment should be done in anger.
Other forms of punishment extended lock up etc are not a problem.

 

Every night. We have a checklist of tasks and chores to be done everyday and anything left undone or if I talk back or do not uphold my role in the house as housewife I am disciplined for it every evening before bed. 10 seats to the bum and ten to my berries!! I am stubborn and have a terrible memory so it usually takes a few weeks before the habit is broken or learned depending on the case. She always puts me in the frilliest humbling attire which goes a long way towards getting my mind in the right place.

 

Punish plays a role in our FLR to, if I misbehave or fail to fulfill my duties I will be punished, how is down to my madam.

 

If I break any of the rules or fail to complete my chores, I receive a true punishment spanking. Usually its over her knees and spanked with the paddle. Other times its on all fours and she administers the punishment using the leather strap. It definitely makes me be more focused going forward and thinking twice before acting.

 

It’s making you a better person. A good spanking can be very Good for you.

 

So true Mash! While we "usually" dislike the punishment, we know how good they are for us.

 

Congrats!!

 

We also have fun spankings and then the very serious hard, count them out whipping with the crop. I barely make it to 10!
The worst is when she tells me to unlock. Rejection is tough.