I had to go to Target, and my god, all the women shoppers were so fucking sexy in summer wear. They were showing cleavage, legs, even butt cheeks. Or they had tight clothing to show off their bodies. Do they just want to drive men nuts? Maybe one unconsious reason unlocked men masturbate to the point of nothing more to shoot is it makes going out in public easier. Especially in these times of #metoo. I indeed enjoy the feeling of being owned when I find myself in such situations as I was at Target.
I live in a city with 2 universities 3 teaching hospitals 4 if you count the dental one, and 1/2 dozen colleges and any warm sunny day it is a pleasure to be in town. My Lady is quite happy about anything that reminds me I'm locked both by and for her.
Similarly, my wife loves to point out when I'm ogling some gorgeous young woman in yoga pants or in a bikini by the pool. We were out at our country club recently, and there was no end to the young women in skimpy bikinis with their asses hanging out. We were with a group of people, including a couple of other men who were also vocal about their appreciation of the sites, and my wife was having the time of her life knowing I was sitting there with my tiny chastity cage constricting my tiny penis. She also loves to show me sexy instagrams and snapchats from friends of hers and/or celebrities just to tease and frustrate me in my cage.
My Lady has also pointed out to me that despite the eye candy Summer is also known as the Dry Season.
I do it all the time. I kinda feel bad about doing it. Like I'm some misogynistic asshole, or a pervert.
Know the feeling! Mind you the fact that I'm old enough to legally have a daughter in her mid 40's makes it seem wrong! My daughter is actually nearly 30 but you get my meaning! And anyway I don't care how good they look, I can guarantee that they won't be as much fun in the bedroom (or any room) as Mrs Chaste!
Well there is ogling and noticing ... a major difference if you ask me. Seeing is not leering. Some do their best to feel good about looking good and to some it just comes naturally and I just so happen to appreciate both. When one person can't look at another and think they look good and maybe even raise a smile without incurring wrath and disapproval then I think its time to give up.
There is no doubt there is plenty of eye candy out there. It is funny that my wife will sometimes say look at her, what you think. I say alright. I totally agree @Chaste J. . There is no harm looking, but I know where I belong and want to be. I'm her's and that's that. Many of us are more than satisfied with the love we have.
This is my favorite aspect of summer too, but does it count when you're thinking, "I wish my butt looked like that"?
In our town the college population is almost equal to the permanent residents. A park on the river belongs to the university and is almost always full of girls laying out in well stuffed bikinis. Trips to the grocery store or Wally World in the summer are an adventure and often result in getting the paddle when we get home when I look too much. But just because I'm on a diet doesn't mean I can't read the menu!
I am totally dedicated to my beautiful bride, but I have told her, since before we were married, that I would never fool around with another - and I haven't. But I also told her that the day I stopped looking at other beautiful women, and their fantastic bodies, that it would be time to call the embalmer... I would have passed and had just not laid down yet.
I agree with all this, but for me fall is even better/worse than summer. It's when all the knee-high boots come out!
When I am biking, I am sometimes not locked, and the "scenery" along the bike trails in California... well... focus is the name of the game. My wife doesn't really care, as she (correctly) knows that I love and am dedicated to her, and nothing would ever happen when I'm riding (how could it, really?)... but... the scenery...
and dont drop any litter and anything that migt make fire cos of the dreadful fires that they had last year.