Hello to all who share our common interests! My wife is amazing; I'm always trying to make her happy. Enough said! I've been watching and learning a lot from this forum for some time. I'm very grateful for this forum and to all who participate! Thank you! What both fascinates and frustrates (like chastity!) me is the mixing of fantasy and reality that exists, not just in this collection of forums, but throughout the internet. It's like playing poker in that sometimes you know who is bluffing and sometimes you don't. Sometimes I, and I assume others, want to see fantasy to fuel our spirit. Other times we want reality because we are learning from what we read. I thank Lucy and other administrators for creating a verified women-only forum; I feel this forum has a higher percentage of reality. I wonder how many couples have pushed their limits of reality as a result of someone else's fantasy, or a group of users' collective fantasies?
Welcome. Yes indeed, this forum has its fantasists, like everywhere else. They're usually easy to spot.
I haven't seen anything here that is beyond reality. There are individuals here who I suspect are fantasizing, but mainly about things that are achievable.
We are very lucky really to be able to incorporate our fantasies, or elements of our fantasies into our everyday lives! Some are fairly "full on" and others are a little more "gentle". Real life sometimes gets in the way for most people at some time or another! But however you "do chastity and FLR" it's great to be able to share with a wonderful woman!
Hello and Welcome I think no one can really be sure who is a fantasiser and who is not unless you personally know another member. The stuff, or at least most of it, I read on here is all within the realms of the doable. I mean it's not as if a sissy were claiming that their Wife performed a sex change operation on them after she Googled how to
Thanks to all for making some great points! I agree that most of the activities on these forums are doable. I myself have participated in some activities that might not be believable to many. Perhaps, then, mixing what is reality for some and fantasy for others biases the norm to be more courageous!
Since our journeys are just as unique as we all are there is no doubt that some peoples reality are other peoples fantasies. I have often thought of the origins of what we all have come up with. It still amazes me that when you think you have seen it all, there is always something else. When I started this I had no real direction to go in, it was just trying to show her she would always be the only one for me. After about 5 years her 'fantasy' became my reality. She has shown me how much She loves and cares for me. It has become our journey as she has said herself. It has become a time of not just adventure, but a better understanding of ourselves and each other. Our sharing with each other here helps all of us to see even with the diversity we have, we are all closer than many of those in what they call the 'normal' life. I'm sure there are many that have lived other's fantasies. And I'm sure there are those that have found that their fantasy was not what they were looking for. As it has been said before, If you can dream it, it's probably very possible.