I joined CM more than a year ago. I was at the stage of experimentation with chastity devices, FLR, cross dressing and many of the other aspects of chastity. I wanted to learn from others, especially KHs, to get a better understanding and learn on how to approach it and intrograte it into my life and bring benefit to my KH and wife. I didn’t want to go through an introduction of myself unless it was going to be something that became a part of our lives. I am very happy to report that thanks to the information, suggestions and encouragement shown to myself and others that the permanentness of chastity has finally come into existence. My story is similar to many. I have a successful career, a few kids and a wonderful wife. I became aware of my subservient desires early on and tried to find various ways to explore them. My fantasy forever was to be seduced into a cult of some kind, a secret society if you will. But my brain would never let me harm myself either mentally or physically. If it was going to be anything, it needed to involve my partner. I made a few of the typical mistakes (overly discussed it, tried to force it upon my KH) but ultimately thank you to many here who will never know as I read their posts in secret I have come out now with the beginnings of a wonderful expression of my love for my KH and more importantly something that brings joy to my life. Thank you to many here. You have been appreciated.
Welcome, @Sylophine. What a good intro! Congrats on your success. It is not a journey for the faint-hearted.
Thank you. I have now been locked for a month now. She determines my release, she determines what she wants. I found the best advice from my reading was to accept what the KH wants from the chastity and be satisfied. My constant discussing or pestering some would call it and thinking about what others are doing and hoping that I could get it were never going to make me happy. Pushing an agenda was never going to work out and I needed to realize that. I am happy now with what I have. Under lock and key, great sex and explosive sensations. I hope others find joy in what they have.
Welcome, yes it is not what we think it is, especially when control of our release if any is no longer ours to determine. Welcome and enjoy the experience, you will hopefully get a lot more out of your relationship now.