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    boi paul slave to my Mistress 24/7 365 days a year.

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    #126 boi paul, Mar 29, 2019
    Met online a month later a Munch as of this good Friday 19 years it was always FLR From day one chastity was the next weekend first lockup 90days and been Living the lifestyle since became 24/7 slave 13 years ago when I retired. Love my Lady more and more by each day.
     
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    #127 Devoted Hubby, Apr 13, 2019
    Been together 41 years, married 36 in chastity 3years
     
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    #128 AprilC, Apr 15, 2019
    nicely expressed, you hear the intimacy
     
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    #129 lovetohearno, Apr 30, 2019
    Married for 30 years, chastity for 3 years. Discovered chastity because I was searching for solutions to ED caused by performance anxiety. Chastity takes the pressure off my performance allowing me to perform at a higher level in many other areas of our life, not just the bedroom. I would recommend chastity/orgasm denial to anyone dealing with performance anxiety.
     
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    Rectrix Long term member

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    #130 Rectrix, May 1, 2019
    Did chastity cure your ED?
     
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    #131 lovetohearno, May 1, 2019
    It’s greatly reduced but not gone 100%.
     
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    #132 Stef54321, May 14, 2019
    How do you feel about that, do neither of you miss the penetration sex? What do you have as a substitute ?
     
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    Peaches "kinky guy"

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    #133 Peaches, May 15, 2019
    Been together seven years. Married five years. We got pregnant a week or so after we officially got together. We have been friends for 12 years. I was dating my first wife when we met and there was just something about her that clicked. We were never together romantically and my current girlfriend rushed me into an engagement. I was young and dump. Seven years later I'm getting a divorce and we reconnect.

    Shortly after that, baby number one! Then baby 2 then baby 3! We really rushed into the relationship and didn't get to do the getting to know you phase, you know where all the weird kink stuff gets brought up. So couple the stress of three kids a husband who has more kinks than that old extension cord tossed in the back of the garage and her low labido and you get a really bad sex life. At least from my perspective.

    The complete asshole I am cheated on her. She found out and for some strange reason decided to give me another chance. I brought up Chastity because for starters I think it's kinky and love the control aspect. Secondly it will help me be more attentive and force sex to be on her schedule.
     
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    #134 SweetnessRules, May 18, 2019
    Married 30 years in August, FLR about 3 years, orgasm control about 18 months.
     
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    #135 Kelly64, May 18, 2019
    Been together 18 1/2 years, married for 16.
    Only recently tried chastity to stop my incessant masturbating.
     
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    #136 Andrew K, May 28, 2019
    We met in December 2013, fell in love June 2014 (while I was wearing my Neosteel). Married August 2016. Kink from day one. Locked by her a few months before we married. Extended periods of 24/7 ever since. Currently 24/7 since Dec 31.
     
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    #137 Mellen, May 31, 2019
    Together 34 years in chastity for last year
     
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    #138 OhDear!, Jun 2, 2019
    This August will be 18 years married. We've known each other since high school, dated on and off, and wed in early 20s. It has been an amazingly wonderful journey. We're new to chastity and still experimenting.
     
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    #139 amareine, Jun 5, 2019
    we've known each other since 26 years
    as i was often outside for my job, She was affraid that i can look outside as i did it to meet Her.
    no internet in 1993
    to quiet Het quiet
    i built a CB with what i found.
    1995 : internet and the CB2000
    and others more confortable after
     
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    dre8car Always Locked and Rarely Cum - Lori 8b

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    #140 dre8car, Jun 20, 2019
    I met my wife, in my avatar, in 1991. We got married a few years later. She rolled her eyes to male chastity when I suggested it about 2 years ago since she has nearly zero sex drive. I decided in Feb 2018 that if I was going to encourage her to be a key holder that I should be serious about it and got myself a PA. I've been locked most of 2019 in a Lori 8c however recently my wife has gotten serious about key management. The last time I had PIV was mid January 2019 for about 45 seconds until she jumped off. I rarely cum now.
     
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    #141 CuckeldBull, Jun 24, 2019
    Married 30yrs together 32. New to chastity as for health reasons her cuckolding days are over (Im sad about that!) Going caged to reduce my masturbations.
     
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    #142 Avir shah, Jun 26, 2019
    Been married long time. Chastity came about because I was masturbating way too much and giving no attention to her. She decided then to lock me up in chastity and now she is a very strict mistress and my keyholder. She leads the relationship. Ever since I am locked up, our relationship improved tremendously.
    She likes kinky bondage play.
     
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    #143 little minion, Jun 26, 2019
    Together 20 years married 16 we are a year into chastity it was my idea it hasn’t been serious and KH is still getting used to the vanilla switch but last 2 months progressing well at her own pace 39 days and no O
     
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    #144 TWDL, Jun 28, 2019
    Been together for 6 years. Married 1 week tomorrow!

    Still to bring chastity up with her, but I’ve onlu been into it for a short time.
     
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    #145 Flabuckeye28, Jun 29, 2019
    Married 37 years. Together 39 years.
     
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    #146 sbcarl, Jun 30, 2019
    Together 21 years, married for 18, with chastity of one form or another for me throughout.
     
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    #147 Mr.CagedSkittles, Jul 24, 2019
    My Mistress and I have been married 7 years. We have a 2 1/2 year old son. We started playing with chasity to add a new element to our sex lives. We got into chastiy for about a year and a half. But we have gotten serious with it this year. 24/7 locked. My Mistress started to embrace her inner KH/dom and about 2 weeks ago we started FLR, and she is loving it and I'm thinking what have I gotten my self in to? Lol I do love it though
     
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    #148 JohnK, Jul 29, 2019
    We've been married 29 years. Began chastity at my suggestion because I knew she was unhappy with my constant P leading to M.
    I've been locked pretty much 24/7 since December '18. My releases vary from weekly to a month. I wouldn't say we necessarily have a FLR, but sex is totally at her discretion. And she generally reaches climax before I am unlocked.
    I'm happy with our arrangement. Much improved over what we had a year ago.
     
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    #149 Jgood, Jul 29, 2019
    Dated for 5 years now married for 6
     
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    #150 Conrad3, Jul 29, 2019
    Married 32 years together 34 years been locked since July boy do I appreciate her more now
     
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