Can't figure out ring size, falls off or hurts too much

Maybe try a cage with an anatomical ring? The smaller ring might be the right circumference, but the gap for your testicles might be too small.

 

I had the same problem with my jailbird cage from Mature Metal. .
I cured the problem by squeezing the ring that goes around my balls and the ring that goes around the base of my cock closer together . that left no room for my balls to slip through .
You might google jailbird cock cage to see what I mean .

 

It takes some getting used to wearing a cage for most men. Try a few hours a day, gradually extending the time, with the 44 mm ring. You should be able to slip the finger in while flacid but not if you are trying to get hard. Sleeping caged is another story. Nocturnal erection attempts WILL wake you up for a while but it does get better.

 

I had the same problems for at least 15 years. My MM cage was actually working until my boys got a little bit smaller due to low T therapy, so nothing I did would keep at least one of them from painfully squeezing out. So I finally decided to go with a PA piercing and I couldn’t be happier. I started with the PA-5000 just as a proof of concept, and now I’ve got a 3D printed device that I absolutely LOOOOOOVE!!!! I’m still working out the geometry of the PA pin, but it’s been phenomenal.

 

I've thought about getting a piercing because I've heard a lot say they enjoy theirs, just still indecisive about it[/QUOTE]

I will say that the pain of getting it done, for me, was negligible. The hours and days following it were a different story all together. If you research it, I would definitely focus on the after care(seems to be less bogus info out there about that) vs the actual procedure. I started at an 8 gauge and wished I went with a 6 instead. When I was healed, I went back to the piercer to go up a size, a process that involves using a tapered piece of metal to gently stretch you up to the next size. Learned a hard lesson there. Buy your own taper, LUBE IT UP!!!!!! The piercer did not. That was an agonizing 10 minute battle. I’ve since gone up to a 2gauge and I’m pretty happy with it. Still toying with the idea of going to a 0. But I can’t recommend it highly enough. Buy a Vagisil wash and plenty of cans of saline spray to keep it clean. Don’t use any kind of regular soap. I also had to wear a pad for a few days for cushioning and for light bleeding. But as I think Socrates said, “the juice is worth the squeeze “.