Just my lock!

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    Hi. I guess I should have done this intro first.

    Its just me and my locked cage. Self locked 24 7 365, since 12-31-17. Not into kink. No P, no M, and no O. Just pure and sweet complete denial. No kh. Wife with multiple health issues.

    Chastity is my gift to her. She never has to worry about me asking for anything. She still wonders but I remind her I can't. Well, I can ask, I just can't get. I don't want to ask. I love being locked.

    It is absolute bliss to be in a cage. It has improved my state of mind, especially with my anxiety disorder I was diagnosed with. My mind and body feel so good by always having the constant unfulfilled need, I do not want anything to stop that feeling. That would be so disappointing.

    Doctor has inspected and approves of me locked in a chastity cage. She urged me to continue to stay locked as she has seen improvement over the period of my locking, and agrees that my disorder has been helped by it.

    So now I am under doctor's orders that I am to remain locked 24 7. She will discuss how my progress is going on subsequent visits. Now that's a prescription I can live with.
     
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    That's great, sounds perfect
     
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    MD or therapist? Seems like an anxiety issue would require some sort of discussions to come to terms with how to manage your needs. Or are there drugs that help? In any case, glad you were brave enough to involve your medical support.
     
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    Welcome and receive my respect
     
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    Thanks. Yes I am on a med to help with anxiety. So is 50% of the USA. My doctor did initially want me to see a therapist, because I went thru feelings that concerned her. However, in my effort to help myself, I did research, and that's when I learned about chastity cages. I thought, why not, lets give it a go. My situation rapidly improved. My cage was the biggest thing that helped me get thru a tough spot. So now she doesn't talk much of me seeing a therapist anymore, when she saw the drastic improvement after I locked myself permanently. So that's why she said keep it on and locked and was super happy that found something that worked.
     
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    Hello and welcome I am no medical doctor but I did suffer with anxiety in the past and what I know is that any distraction will give your mind break and help you relax more. BTW the doctor probably though well it is not hurting you and you are getting some pleasure from it, well why not.
    Can you keep us informed on your progress.
     
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    Who holds your keys?
     
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    glad to hear it's working so well for you. I think chastity can change a lot about someone's life and it sounds like it has for you.
     
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    Or, how do you ensure you stay locked 24/7/365 since you are a self locker? Us fellow self-lockers are always looking for good ideas on this topic.
     
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    #12 Guest 4328, Apr 21, 2019
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    Spider203, much of my anxiety comes from genetics, as it does for many. But, the particular issues mentioned in my initial post, meant I had to somehow alter the way I viewed my personal needs. This is something that was increasing the magnitude of my anxiety. Chastity became freedom from that. So it was more than a distraction, it was the alternative, a solution. The pleasurable aspect of it was not fully realized until I went full time. My doctor is pleased because there is something that is actually working that helps me.

    Moe5, don't have a kh. I guess I hold my own, but I never let myself have them. Lol. I unlock myself only to shave and clean and I am back in.

    Oscar, I want to be in my cage always. I wouldn't even need a lock, really. For me, it is about attitude. If you want to self lock because you can't find someone to be your kh, then you first need to know exactly how wonderful it is to be in a cage. I have no desire to be out of my cage, so it would be difficult for me to give advice on methods of securing oneself.
     
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    I am delighted that you are getting a benefit from male chastity I did not mean to sound condescending. If there is anything we can do you just let me know.
     
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    Maybe you should give the keys to your doctor?
     
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