Who Would You Tell

Real life for us has been walking naked except cage hand in hand with my beautiful queen at motorcycle rallies. Kansas probably 4 years now. Two years in Kentucky showing my cage also.
Countless hours of discussions had about the cage with others at the rallies.
It’s to the point others that have met us before now bring their rally virgin friends looking for us to see the shock on their faces.
Sometimes they wanna run off, sometimes it sparks interest and they may be there for an hour talking.

 

i have shown my chastity belt to a few folk several potential new customers who had come to behindbarz workshop where i undressed from my normal day clothing to show them what i was wearing underneath. I also went to a show they were putting on at a Manchester Leathermen market and was also asked to strip off in front of the crowd to show them what i was locked in underneath. I have hopefully not offended anyone by doing this as i was always asked if i minded showing them what it actually looked like in real life.

 

My best friend knows a certain amount and one of my wife's friends knows a certain amount. I've never showed anyone.

 

My lover and partner only. To me this is a very personal thing that I would be sharing with them. Part of what I want in a future partner is that they respect me and we decide mutually before telling anyone else.

I’m pretty introverted so don’t have the desire to be in public like previous posters. I think it’s great that they feel comfortable enough to do that. I would enjoy seeing a couple in public like that if I ever came across it.

 

Well Goddess P told her sister one day when her sister was upset with her husband as to the reason we have a great marriage . I was totally in shock when she did . Then showed her the paddle , flogers and crops she has. Then I was a little embarrassed ,but if Goddess P told me to show her the cage , I would have had no choice but to do as I am told. Thank God she didn't !
A girl friend of hers knows now to, but that wasn't as bad because if she ever comes to visit us here in Florida we would all be in bed together and I was told that while she is visiting that I would have a slave partner . WOW!!!!!.
I Don't think I would like any others to know. Would like to keep it as our little thing . Lol . Kinda late now . Everybody knows on this site .

 

For U/s it was our Mothers both our Fathers passed on years earlier so She had them both come to dinner.
(We had moved so much in my years in the Army once I retired I was happy to hook up with family lost)
Mitress worked

 

nobody.

It's a risky one. Once the genie is out of the bottle there's no getting it back in. You don't always know how people will react, and some you may trust to be discreet could easily run off and tell everyone. So stay safe, keep it between yourself and your partner is my view.

 

Something that personal is probably best not advertised. If asked I would not deny it, but by the same token I wouldn't volunteer it either.

Just my $0.02 worth...

 

Guilty on all counts. Brother and both sons as well as one daughter in law, a few close friends outside of the lifestyle know. Belonging to a private club it is often part of a conversation with strangers sometimes accompanied with a 'show and tell'. We have been to a couple of local munches and it is discussed there as well.

We don't put it out for all to see in public, but we don't hide it. Kitten always wears her key on a necklace and will answer questions when asked about it. At the munch last night I was collared and had to walk through the main part of the restaurant a couple of times. Don't know if anyone noticed.

 

Were we living in a different world....I'd tell everyone. Hell, I'd have it put on my driver's license that way people that would search me as a matter of doing their jobs wouldn't freak out. Being in chastity would be no different than wearing a wedding ring.

 

This is where I am too, I wish it wasn't the case but it is. There's so much societal pressure to be the stereotypical male, and paradoxically it's one of the reasons I'm caged, to limit that bullshit in my relationship with my wife and enable a calmer, more giving intimacy. I couldn't possibly let real world colleagues and friends know, they'd totally not understand, and might even take advantage. I'd love to do something anonymous, a beach or a resort or a club, but my wife is still much too private for that.

 

My best friend didn't seem interested at all and didn't really say anything. A few weeks later he asked if she has a boyfriend LOL... But that's it. I don't know about her friend.

 

At this moment I won't tell any close friends or family members... the way they've always respond to kink related subjects tells me enough to keep it to myself.

I have a few close online friends that i've meet through the years on irc, fora etc that i've been face2face camming and calling with. Some of them know and some don't.

The ones who know are active in the kink scene or where open minded in other sex related subjects that we've stumbled upon the subject. Never searched for a reason to tell / push the subject.

 

In the early days we would read articles about fem dom and chastity etc. We would each highlight things that intrigued us and make comments.

Here is an excerpt.

Article...after all, male chastity should be about drawing you closer together by means of a sexy secret that you share.

Key holder comment. "So it is our secret and ours alone? What if I want to let someone in on our secret? Will you be allowed to share it with anyone? I would think it would be fine on a forum for you, but for me, in person over a dinner out with friends would work.

 

I would show or tell anyone my wife wants me to share with. I'm probably more willing to share than she is, at this point, but we are really just getting started. I find myself very turned on by the idea of others (especially women) finding out.

 

My wifes BFF knows, our roommate knows. My wifes cousin and an old friend from high school who I see on occasion knows.

 

So far, nobody knows.
I treat it as an open secret. If someone notices it and wants to talk about it, I'll happily give them the informations, they ask.

I would tell a future partner, what i'm into though.

 

MY gf turned a fantasy into a reality when she explained her key to her best friend... not had an open conversation with the best friend about it yet, but am thinking it's probably coming.

GF is getting more and more 'playful' with the key in company and we;ve agreed that she tells anyone who asks, and has a real conversation with anyone who then shows more of an interest once they've been told

Right now that feels both hot and right for us, but it is a risk as many here have said

 

I've told about 6 people, but most of them just brushed it off as "you do you". I don't have a proper keyholder, but my friends are very kink friendly and don't mind talking about it when I am struggling and so on. I think it is very much a "know your audience"

 

I don't think anyone knows except my Wife(KH) and I...I haven't told any of my friends and I don't think my Wife has told anyone...Yet...
I would be O.K. with my Wife telling her girlfriends or Sisters(4 of them)...But we have never talked to anyone about our sex lives, so it really doesn't come up. A few of my Wife's friends have asked about her new key around her neck, she just tells them it the key to her heart...