How long Should i be locked

If you are not self locking, surely only your KH should decide that!

 

Depending on how long your last period ending 2/20/2019 lasted......try perhaps one more week than the previous period and see how it goes.

 

If you are self-locking the question isn't how long but how you are doing it. The thrill comes from not knowing.

 

What do you do with your key? Is it on an inconvenient place? I find that helps.

 

Put your keys in an envelope and post (mail) them back to yourself 2nd class so you know you’re locked for a least a couple of days with no hope of release.

 

And pray they don’t get lost!

 

Makes it more exciting. You never know if the keys will come back !

 

Here is an idea. On the day you decide you can unlock, take your key and set it in front of you. Turn off phone, TV, radio, etc. Dead silence. Set a timer for 30 minutes. For that 30 minutes, focus on the key. Look at it. Touch it. Think about it. Look at your cage. Think about how good you feel at that moment. How good it feels to be locked in chastity. Think about the potential consequence of unlocking. Ask yourself, how long will it take for my mind and body to feel as good as I feel right now, should I choose to give in? Days, weeks, months? Is it really worth it? What if I just kept it on? This great feeling would never go away. At the end of the 30 minutes, its your call. Should you wisely (IMO) decide to leave it on, choose a new date and time goal. When the new date arrives, do the same for 25 minutes. If you choose to stay locked again, repeat the process, knocking 5 minutes off the time. If you do this, it is quite possible that you will continue to stay locked because you become unwilling to trade the incredible constant feeling that comes from being locked and denied. This is why after 14 months, I am still locked! I think about that feeling every waking moment. I am locked in chastity in my dreams too. I can't stop thinking about how good it feels. It's 24 7 pleasure without even trying. Just saying, that for me at least, this has become the great irony for me. Circumstances meant I had to find a way to deal. I found chastity. It was my choice. It became my obsession. I am in full on self locked enforced chastity. Who knew that giving myself over to a locked cage would be infinitely more sustainable pleasure than the O. I would be in pleasure mode 25 8, but it only lasts 24 7. You will never know the power of the force unless you step over to the chaste side!

 

if you go on emalock thingy then we can vote and give you lots of days.

 

I dont really understand self locking because it is just as easy to do self unlocking. ?.

 

And there in lies the rub (pun intended).

 

@sissy chrissie please I wont add no days if you dont want me to tho.

 

OK, from your profile I assume that you live alone. If that's the case, the next question is are you handy with common power tools. Yes? Good. Now on to the solution!
I used a smaller version of this project for self bondage some time ago.
You will need to build a wooden box with a hinged top and a hasp that can be locked. It needs to be large enough to hold a 1 gallon milk jug, small enough to fit in your freezer and have a hole in it that the keys can easily fall through when the ice melts.
Once you are locked up, first put your Key(s) on a string that will suspend them in the center of the jug.
Do the same with the box lock key(s)
Fill the jug with water, hang the keys in the jug and freeze. With the jug frozen, put it in the box and secure the lock. Place box back in the freezer.
Now obviously this will not 100% enforce your chastity, but it will give an opportunity to evaluate if you really want out or just experiencing a momentary moment of weakness.
To make it even more interesting, leave room for insulation between the jug and the box.

 

Sorry I misread your profile. I'm glad you have the will power, mine is strong too. I've been chaste with and without a cage. Chastity is not just about being locked, it's also a state of mind for me. No O since sometime in mid October, don't remember the exact date. We both prefer the "flat" look of being tucked, but the cage is an interesting change. Even the smallest cage leaves a hump in tight jeans or dresses. Just whatever you choose, enjoy the journey.