Locked and Working at work?

Maybe you should go outside and cool down! LOL

 

I stay too busy to look at porn.

 

Your not alone, I work from home a lot and after being locked I can barely focus, especially after a couple days, we are relatively new to the Chastity scene, I would say this is my first real lockup because I asked to Orgasm a couple days ago, and she just smiled and said "No" that was the first time she told me no and it was amazing, each day since has been exponentially more frustrating and I have gotten less and less done work wise because of it!! I think she is warming up to the idea of me being locked more, she is realizing how I act after a couple days and seems to really like watching me squirm while she has multiple O's and just edges me today is day 9 for me and I'm in heaven!

 

concentrate

 

After the 2nd week of denial it got a lot easier. Put the phone someplace you can’t get to it easily. Lock the computer. Take yourself out of the situation that allows you easy access.

 

Eventually your chaste state will become the new normal! You will be able to go about your daily business and function as well as anyone else! You are just in the fortunate state of having a constant physical reminder of your place in your relationship with your better half! Enjoy it, you are truly blessed!

 

Dude, here's a thought. Stop the porn, bro. Oscar and Chaste J are right. You have been here a while. Chastity can be something cool, it doesn't have to be torture. If you stop the porn, keep it in the cage, and embrace chastity as the only way, you will be all right. Hey, the lingerie thing, is it for you? Here is a crazy thought. If it is for you, stop looking at the hot chicks in the ad and focus on what they are wearing. Instead of drooling over them, ask yourself if what they are wearing would look good on you. I can't believe I just wrote that. But the porn thing just takes your mind in the wrong direction. You are better off in lingerie, it will bring you balance. Again, I can't believe I just wrote that.

 

My wife banned porn. Easy. End of story

 

As a guy with a high desire drive I can relate. Not a lot of advice I can give apart from maybe trying some parental software for porn control.
Very few free options for parental control software out there so be prepared to pay.

 

Good control over what you look at on your computer is give your Key Holder your logon and you can’t erase your history. It works and doesn’t cost anything except the odd tanning for going somewhere I shouldn’t.

 

I actually found the opposite. After the initial few days I found I was a lot more focused at work.

 

For the first year of wearing a device I felt it all the time and couldn’t focus or sleep well. Now I have been doing it for four years it is just what we do. It is still amazing, I would never want to go back to not being kept chaste by my wife, but the over the top arousal does go away.

That said even writing this and thinking about being kept chaste is arousing. My Wife doesn’t mess around with this chaste state and wouldn’t put up with me being distracted all the time.

 

This is my experience also.

 

You can’t play with it so why punish yourself by making it hard. Chastity is mostly in our mind anyway. Let’s get back to work.

 

Yep...... exactly

 

I been in chasity for 4 years now. Perm no release only for sex which is about once a month. My wife told me to wear her panties one day and i did for a laugh. A few days later i had a shower went in my underwear draw and she had thown all my boxes away and replaced them with about 30 pair of knickers. I was completely turned on. Now i only wear panties and its compliments the cage she says. Im i lucky or unlucky. Not even 1 pair of boxers. She states if i ever buy boxers she would have no sex as its now a massive turn off for her.

 

It seems like youve lost touch with the point of chastity! Being locked is to help teach you to curb your desires and to solely focus on your KH and your KH only.

 

Just give up the porn.

 

I also have this problem :/ in the end I think it's a mind over matter kind of thing. Just need to fight through it and concentrate!
And if its work you're avoiding, just remember that watching porn isn't going to pay the bills .

 

I don’t necessarily disagree with you, but one thing I have learnt being a member of the Mansion is that the way chastity is used is different for each and every one of us. If someone wants to use the idea of chastity as a fantasy that turns them on then that is fine. I do feel sorry for the rampant fantasists because they never discover the deeper side of being chaste, but each to their own.

 

Not looking at porn makes life easier and anyway my wife doesn't want me to look at it. Gave porn up years ago and I'm glad I did. Being a househusband and wife working I've got plenty of opportunity to do it; but I will not do it. Gradually the desire to look at porn greatly subsides. Porn can be so addictive

 

Wife doesn't care. she just smiles knowing she controls my orgasm and the more frustrated I am the better her pleasure will be.

 

i give up the porn and become gamer...you should try my way..

 

Same here. Where I work no phones allowed in the area. And the network is really locked down on porn and other sites.