Do you miss your chastity when you are not in it?

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    #1 ChristinaTS, Jan 28, 2019
    The times when I am not in my chastity I feel like something is missing. It is like it has become a part of me. Am I the only one that feels this way?
     
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    #2 Billus, Jan 28, 2019
    One aspect of wearing a cage that's not discussed much is the comfort it brings. I don't mean 'comfortable', although that's obviously very important as well. But I'm referring to comfort like the sense of being hugged. To be locked is to be held, as if having a warm hand around your genitals. Once you get over the initial excitement of wearing a cage, it then becomes reassuring in a way that may be difficult to explain. Taking the cage off then means losing that feeling of assurance.
     
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    #3 ChristinaTS, Jan 28, 2019
    That is very well said and I could not agree more.
     
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    #4 lockedUp24byKH, Jan 28, 2019
    Ooohh I can relate.

    Right now the weather is bitter cold so I'm free from it but there is always that "I'm missing something feeling" it naws at you untill your caged again and once more you breath a sigh.
     
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    #5 Penney, Jan 28, 2019
    Oh you are not alone. My panties feel empty without a cage.
     
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    #6 b_quark, Jan 28, 2019
    Oh, I absolutely do miss it. It's been several weeks since my wife last had me locked. We take a break sometimes if I'm traveling a lot, etc. I get to the point where I'm dropping hints or outright asking my wife to please lock me up again. In a way it's a fun part of our game, because I don't know when she might all of a sudden demand that I go back into chastity for weeks at a time. The last time this happened I had just masturbated and ruined my own orgasm at her command. I was extremely aroused still, and chastity was the last thing on my mind... and then she told me to lock it up immediately. And that was the longest period of chastity I've enjoyed to date (almost 40 days).
     
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    #7 Susanstoy91, Jan 28, 2019
    Just went a few days without my cage and I missed it a lot. A few T&D sessions during that time, but it's just not the same. Was locked back up Sunday and all is good in our world again.
     
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    #8 Chaste J., Jan 28, 2019
    I can't remember if I'd miss it! :) I'm absolutely sure I would. Actually it's quite scarry just thinking about it.
     
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    #9 SCChastityhubby, Jan 28, 2019
    Yes missing it
     
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    #10 Robinoh, Jan 28, 2019
    I definitely miss it. It feels like part of me is missing. The world isn’t right when I’m unlocked.
     
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    #11 HeavyFeather, Jan 28, 2019
    Yes. I don’t feel right with out it on. I’ve been wearing it for over year and I can not imagine having control of a penis again.
     
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    #12 Fuhr84, Jan 28, 2019
    Not at all... I absolutely love being free
     
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    #13 lockit, Jan 28, 2019
    Very well put I could not agree more.
     
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    #14 lockit, Jan 28, 2019
    I have very mixed feelings. When I am free I do enjoy the freedom.
    When I think the time to be locked is getting closer I feel exicited.
    I feel excited and nervous. Every time the phone rings or a text alert I think this it.

    When I have been locked for a few days half of me wants to stay locked and the other half wants freedom.
    I have said it before chastity is a love hate thing for me.
    So yes I miss my chastity. I also miss my freedom.
     
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    #15 EbonyToeAddict, Jan 28, 2019
    I definitely do.
     
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    #16 cshorts, Jan 28, 2019
    I've been 24x7 since early Oct 2018, except when my KH wants me unlocked for play (and then or another time once a week for hygiene / shaving). Saturday was the first time we kept it off longer -- overnight -- because I had a swollen testicle and couldn't get it through the ring. I really missed the device. It felt weird to be flopping around (and to pee standing up!), and discomfiting that I was getting unrestrained erections. I have nothing against my erections (no dysmorphia), but I've gotten use to them being confined and very incomplete except when my KH wants it to play with.

    As someone (@Rectrix ?) said above, it's become *comforting* to be enclosed.
     
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    #18 muizeken 007, Jan 28, 2019
    how it should be lucky guy
     
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    #19 KatlynAshe, Jan 29, 2019
    I'm at the one month mark and I absolutely feel weird without my belt on. Still having some trouble with sleeping, but I love the feeling of the metal and the hug around my penis. It all feels so right. Without my belt I feel nakid and my penis feels like an angry dragon trying to do all kinds of things it shouldn't.
     
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    #20 Kept4her, Jan 29, 2019
    I find comfort in chastity as much as the frustrations once I am excited. I do miss it when out of my device, however that isn't very often. Yet give me 3-4 days and I am missing it.
     
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    #21 Kylara, Jan 29, 2019
    I agree a lot with all said, it is a reminder of the power of my lady but also a kind of permanent sexual arousal. it is here, around your precious, you can't forget it completly as your body is fighting it when you have erections.

    When not wearing it you feel like your penis is a wild guy that does what he wants and to be chaste and free is a lot more harder thant being encaged. You quickly love the feeling of it around your cock.
     
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    #22 SCChastityhubby, Jan 29, 2019
    My cb6000s was off for a two days and woke up horny this morning and reapplied it as not to cum without in the wife’s presence. Feel much more secure and have a warm comfortable feeling all over
     
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    #23 Jail Bird, Jan 29, 2019
    Yes.Strange but true. We all think about being released but once we are we want back in our devices. My panties look funny without the cage showing through. I still sit to pee but it's different.
     
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    #24 RangerCuck, Jan 29, 2019
    Add me to the collection of those who feel "weird" without my cage. I literally feel naked without it (well, part of me does).
     
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    #25 ChristinaTS, Jan 29, 2019
    Loved you're reference to how your penis feels hehe.
     
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