Art in CM: locked penis images & freedom

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    In a nutshell one way to make the link is by reference to the Lacanian Non-All. Inside any worldview/orientation, there is no experience that does not answer to the presuppositions of that orientation-in this case, that the Good Domme is right. However your final point in the spectrum reveals that at some level there is an awareness that that presupposition is Non-All. That is if the Domme is held to be abusive and therefore wrong. It is by analogy with the subjectivity involved in that “aha” moment that Zizek sees broader political freedom.-applied in his left wing perspective one would replace “Good Domme” in the above with “enjoyment in late capitalism” and the “aha” moment would come when one realises (on his view) the error and incompleteness in such a Non-All worldview. Something like that!
     
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    Translation: we can pick our dommes, but not our orientation to have a domme?
     
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    That would be a sensible reading of what I said, but Zizek I am pretty sure would argue that what I said doesn't do justice to (on his view) the "radical freedom" implied by the subjective position that judges between Good and Bad Dommes in my imperfect example. Conceivably he would argue I think that such a subjective position carries the implication that it could overturn (negative) even the a priori conditioning/shaping factors of a previous worldview-in the case of submissives, their submissive a priori perspective.

    Put differently that the subjective position that detects abuse implies the capacity to detect the void inherent in the incompleteness (Non-All) of the submissive orientation itself, even though for so long as one "inside" such an orientation (or indeed any orientation with respect to a social ordering-this isn't about submission per se) "submissive reality" appears as being "all there is". Begs many questions I know, but ultimately rests on (in his view) the ontological incompleteness of "reality" itself.

    To be clear (if possible with Zizek) he would happily acknowledge that such freedom may involve a loss of enjoyment and a loss of the sincerely felt authentic self: but at crunch evental moments he would argue that is the price of freedom etc etc. (I suppose analagous to replicants learning the deeply troubling fact that they are not human in Blade Runner-that's going to spoil any replicant's day!). I cannot stress enough how nothing in Zizek is specific to submission or chastity but rather he applies his theories to society at large; that being said CM is an interesting "crucible" to (try and) apply such theories to, however stretched the application may be. I also recognise the presumptiousness of any theorist trying to argue against one's authentic lived self, so please feel free to just think it's...a load of rubbish...in which case we can get back to whether images of locked penises in CM are art...!
     
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    Ah. Does this means he thinks social constructs are "real" in that they drive behaviour? Like we all start as a blank slate and can - in some way he finds radical - choose to reprogram ourselves?
     
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    Well...yes I would say he thinks social constructs are real in the sense that, allied to personal phantasy (unconscious fantasy) they structure and shape perception. There is however a need for the social aspect-we are not talking individual psychology here. There is also a key role of language which is why I asked about humiliation and verbal degradation as a kink.

    So for instance he refers frequently to the “Master Signifier” which “hegemonises a specific social field’ (my quotes not his). An example would be “FLR”: in a FLR everything that happens is stained by or has the form of the anamorphic perspective on the Real of...FLR, just as in Hollywood under the Hayes code although sexuality could not be depicted on screen everything that happened was permeated by the form of implied sexuality/sexual implications.

    Obviously another example for a MS could be “the evil outsider group, X”. Everything that happens is explained and gains meaning with that MS permeating all such meaning: every specific issue Y is then an issue Y “as caused by outsider group X” or “inflected by the presupposition that outsider group X is to blame”. By hegemonise the social field all that is meant is “tie the meaning of things that happen together in a unified way”.

    The link to reprogramming as you put it is that every individual in a social field hegemonised by a particular Master Signifer (MS) may come to recognise the arbitrariness of that MS-i.e how a different MS could just as well hegemonise the social field with a result being a different social ordering. Thus the Non-All (“there is no social issue that is not about the outsider group status of group X; the outsider group status of X is Non-All”).

    The twist comes when such an individual appreciates that they enjoy the comfort of the original MS through phantasy...and through the consequences of phantasy in reality-as the replicant in Blade Runner enjoys the phantasy (implanted) that they are human with superior status...it then takes the “aha” moment of the replicant discovery-namely that it is a phantasy and an arbitrary MS before a reprogramming can occur...but at cost of enjoyment and social acceptance perhaps give this whole scenario is a social construct. To begin with, the “rebel” “doesn’t have the votes” but once the messsage about the arbitrariness of the MS is out there that could change.

    Effectively CM and FLR/KH could be seen as alternative, opposite MS to those in mainstream society, generating enjoyment for us submissive males and dominant females alike. Still, on his theory, it is arbitrary, despite feelings to the contrast, just as the patriarchy is arbitrary in broader society.
     
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    Right. Perhaps because I have been reading the likes of Stephen Pinker, and because I developed my submissive fantasies in the 1970s(!) before internet and with no access to porn, I regard the cultural constructs as mostly "skins" or "post hoc narratives".

    They are arbitrary in the sense that other skins - relationship memes, I suppose - exist. However, those RMs are contingent on historical circumstances, and express a set of non-arbitrary hardwired dynamics.

    This is why - like a lot of religion - as a discourse, "mainstream" FLR/Femdom doesn't make sense in its own terms. It's rhetoric is shot full of paradoxes and contradictions.

    Effectively CM and FLR/KH could be seen as alternative, opposite MS to those in mainstream society, generating enjoyment for us submissive males and dominant females alike. Still, on his theory, it is arbitrary, despite feelings to the contrast, just as the patriarchy is arbitrary in broader society.​

    I think this is already happening, but not by post modern "Hey look the emperor isn't wearing any clothing" magic.

    Looking around me, all the relationships I see are hierarchical, and about half are vanilla(?) FLR. It's not a big step to imagine people being more open about the vanilla dynamic, in fact people mostly have been "She wears the trousers... I'd better check with her indoors" etc.

    It's also clear that about 20% of people are actively kinky (see Irish sex survey). So as some women become more comfortable being in charge (thanks to Feminism), we'll see kinky dynamics tending to align with relationship ones and becoming explicitly linked, which gives you your kinky FLRs as actually quite normal.

    If you accept that Millers have sold 1M chastity devices, since the developed world has a population of 500M men, that gives you something like 1 in 500 men locked as a baseline.

    However, what this doesn't give you is Chastity & FLR visibility. For us to have our Berlin Wall moment there'd have to be more awareness among young people who were still at the dating and courting stage: in other words C&FLR would need a "scene" more like the Gay scene than the BDSM scene.

    Now here's a question: why are those of us who are happily settled so keen on this?
     
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    That might be a good question for a separate thread. This one has already been seriously derailed regarding the question of art. That's not a complaint, as it's been a good read; just an observation.
     
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    Very interesting topic. And yes, the KH or dominant is not free. It's just an illusion.

    People think that being the possessor you have all the power, all the freedom, but that is just not so. At a micro level: A KH cannot be a KH without a key. It means she has to possess something to gain her title, and retain it. It's relative to Master-slave theory from Gothic literature - the Master cannot exist without the slave, and as such, the slave has power over the Master. Therefore, the key and key-giver both have power over the KH. That is not freedom. - Responsibility never was. ;)
     
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    HEY...I have power!! Yay...not feeling so powerful this very second though.
     
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    Haha! Don't get too excited. There is a reason why D/s is called a 'power exchange'. We were talking about freedom above, which is different to power. Yes, a Domme most certainly doesn't have all the power, you do have power too, as you should - but each power is different, complimentary. You impact on your Domme as much as she impacts on you. Equal and opposite force - It's physics....lol.
     
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    Got it. I don't think my personal view is too different from yours in that Zizek is trying to overcome the limitations of seeing language/conscious thinking in concepts as vehicles for preserving the German Idealist vision of "freedom" based on Ideal Notions-the snag is that once philosophy figured out that making freedom dependent on language it gets sucked into the vortex of the incompleteness of all representations (they all leave a point of invisibility behind which is unrepresented), we find contemporary philosophy condemned to assert itself through it's self-negation. Almost like...submissive males....

    That is the link back to art...every representation be it linguistic or artistic leaves something out. Perhaps FLR/C is the "invisible left out" of mainstream discourse and art at the moment?
     
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    Thanks and noted. I've tried to bring it back to art in my post just made above. That being said, all posts gratefully received!
     
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    FLR is there if you look. Chastity has started appearing, mainly in comedy.

    (This is the journal/blog section, so I don't think staying on topic matters so much, by the way. But it's up to you...)
     
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    Yes Miss Veronica, there is definitely a power exchange. I quite literally signed (by contract) all of my rights and about 90% of control over any and all aspects of my life. Yes Madame “E” is a long distance from me...but I voluntarily gave her more ammunition to use to make certain I follow all of her rules. I’d be a liar if I said I didn’t falter or test things sometimes, because I do. She swiftly and always calmly reminds me of my position, her absolute control over me...mind, body, soul and lifestyle! She holds business information, banking information, has more pictures than I care to admit to. She is always kind, considerate, sometimes merciful and always balanced and calm. When I misbehave I am told what I did wrong, she indicates the punishment (which normally fits the crime) then it’s done. I WILL do as told, the punishment will be carried out and served.
    So...yes, power exchange for sure! At this point the only things I control is my daily schedule, mostly what I am allowed to eat, most of my spending, my attire, physical appearance and a few other things. Remember, I am also a married male of 32 years now! What Madame doesn’t control...my wife does!! Lol...
    I hope you are very well Miss Veronica!
     
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    I do have questions but I don't want to hijack the op's thread. Perhaps I'll start a journal thread for general questions and answers. ;)
     
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    I am an open book Miss Veronica! I will answer ANY question or questions you may have. I have been properly trained in doing as asked and instructed. Especially when approached by a Lady. My Madame will NOT tolerate my being inconsiderate or rude to any Lady. So, please write me any way you wish. I will respond the same day as questioned.
    I hope to hear from you!
     
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    I think this is very true. Power relationships are still relationships. Even a Roman mistress had to manage her chattel slave, and if she mistreated him past certain point would likely lose him.

    However, day-to-day, it's the scopes that matter, not the big picture. In certain scopes the dominant has as much freedom as she wants, and more than she would get in a normal relationship.

    Trivial example, the other night I snored, so my wife sent me to sleep on the floor of my home office (just across the hall from the bedroom). There was no argument or discussion, or guilt on her part. She just said, "Giles, go to your cell" an I did. The same thing happened when I was nagging her over punishment schedules - she's "helping" me loose weight. She just sent me to my "cell" and left me there overnight.

    Yes, she only has this freedom as long as she does it through bdsm channels. However, you only have freedom to pick your TV show if you use the remote control, so that's a trivial objection.
     
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    I’ve been mulling over the point made here and elsewhere on CM threads that there is a non-arbitrary core of one’s selfhood e.g. a submissive sexual orientation. For instance (from an earlier post on this thread):

    The philosophical equivalent of such invariant hard wiring is the Idea or Thing-In-Itself.

    Schopenhauer in the World as Will and Representation claims that it is possible to have cognition of the Idea-but only when one completely suppresses one’s individual will.

    In italics below is an extract from section 34 of the World as Will and Representation and I claim that the words I have underlined
    describe the non arbitrary (for locked submissive males) Idea, the Thing-In-Itself of freely submitting (through “strength of mind”) to be locked in chastity.

    What is philosophically interesting is that the images of locked penises represent not merely the Will-Less cognitive state of the lockee but also of the necessary subjective state of the viewer of art (who may well be not hard wired as submissive) if he/she can temporarily, aesthetically through “strength of mind” cancel his/her own will and engage aesthetically with the image in the manner of Schopenhauer’s aesthetic theory in section 34 set out below.

    The overall claim is that the images of locked penises represent by way of their content what is required subjectively for any art work to be appreciated aesthetically-the cancellation of the viewer’s will.

    Extract from section 34 of Schopenhauer’s World as Will and Representation

    When elevated by strength of mind to stop viewing things in the ordinary
    way, no longer led by the forms of the principle of sufficient reason to pursue
    merely the relations between things (which in the end always aims at their
    relation to our own will), if we stop considering the Where, When, Why
    and Wherefore of things but simply and exclusively consider the What,
    if we do not allow our consciousness to become engrossed by abstract
    thinking, concepts of reason; but if, instead of all this, we devote the entire
    power of our mind to intuition and immerse ourselves in this entirely,
    letting the whole of consciousness be filled with peaceful contemplation
    of the natural object that is directly present, a landscape, a tree, a cliff,
    a building, or whatever it might be, and, according to a suggestive figure
    of speech, we lose ourselves in this object completely, i.e. we forget our
    individuality, our will, and continue to exist only as pure subject, the clear
    mirror of the object, so that it is as if the object anyone to perceive it, and we can no longer separate the intuited from the intuition as the two have become one, and the whole of consciousness is completely filled and engrossed by a single intuitive image – if, therefore, the object is in this manner removed from any relation to things outside of itself, and the subject is removed from any relation to the will, then what we thus cognize is no longer the individual thing as such, but rather the Idea, the eternal form, the immediate objecthood of the will at this

    level: and this is precisely how someone gripped by this intuition is at the
    same time no longer an individual: the individual has lost himself in this
    very intuition: rather, he is the pure, will-less, painless, timeless subject of
    cognition.

     
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    It sounds very much like recognizing the object (in this case, locked penises) as archetypes (in a Jungian sense).
     
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    I’m not very familiar with Jung but a quick look at the wiki on archetypes suggests some affinity between Idea and archetypes as such. That being said the Thing In Itself is precisely for Schopenhauer the Will in so far as it is NOT an object for a subject and I’m not sure Jung has an equivalent.
     
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    An archetype is descended from the concept of Plato's solids (as the Wiki page says), but perhaps a better concept would be symbol. An archetype is associated with the idea that it stands for a universal concept. Certainly a cage and a penis separately illustrate very strong ideas in the minds of most people. Combining them can only reinforce the idea of containing the essence of the life force. It sounds very much to me at least like the Thing In Itself, just formulated slightly differently. If art is the representation of concepts, a gallery of caged penises would have to be regarded as such. I'm certain we don't disagree, but perhaps the path we take to any underlying premises is to be treated as "different journeys, same destination".
     
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    Thanks for the extra information about archetypes. I’d put it like this: at the level of objective representation of the Will (which is all we ever have in the phenomenal world), or put differently, at the level of talking about Plato’s Ideas, we agree.

    That being said, the Thing-In-Itself is the Will in so far as it is not an object for any subject (not represented, in other words), and therefore we can neither agree nor disagree about it.

    So one might say that by these lights the Thing-In-Itself is the source of freedom, and another might say it is the source of necessity. Ergo what we say about or how we represent the Thing-In-Itself (including in art) is arbitrary, but perhaps the Thing-In-Itself is not arbitrary, and we get an inkling of that possibility when we contemplate an art work selflessly.
     
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    In terms of philosophy, I always associate chastity with the ancient Stoics. In terms of aesthetics, I think of Georges Bataille: "
    The need to go astray, to be destroyed, is an extremely private, distant, passionate, turbulent truth.”
     
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    We philosophical art critics hang together.
     
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