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  1. Happilymarriednerd
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    This morning I wake up and start cleaning the house as I have the day off. My wife comes home from the gym and says don't worry about the rest of the chores, be ready for me when I get out of the shower. This means I'm to get naked. I do and wait for her in bed. She gets out of the shower and sees me waiting patiently and laughs. "No, I have something else in mind. Go kneel at the couch." I do that while she puts on pajama pants and one of my t-shirts. She says "Put your hands down and be quiet. You get to be my foot rest today." I get on my hands and knees and situate my myself. She goes in the kitchen and makes herself a bowl of cereal, comes out and sits down, plops her feet right on my back and turns on the TV. I'm pretty turned on at this point and she settles on this Teen Mom show and just starts watching. After 5 minutes this is no longer fun. I start to say, "So..." She shushes me and says, "I said no talking. I'll tell you when you're done." She says it with a tone of seriousness I've learned not to question.

    I fucking knelt there for over an hour and a half of listening to that show while she watched it, paused it to talk to her mom, then played Candy Crush on her phone, all the while completely ignoring me. I felt a big rush of anger about 30 minutes in but I fought it off. For the last 20 minutes she wasn't even in the room. I'm just in there bored out of my mind. She finally comes in the room, slaps my butt and says "Good boy. Go get dressed."

    I get up and go get my clothes on. I come out and she's acting like nothing happened and starts talking about how we should go see a movie or something. We ended up not going but it's been a normal day since. I have the strangest boner right now...
     
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    Sounds absolutely lovely to me <3 Not that something like that is directly pleasurable, but the interaction of domination is quite hot and distinct. Good for her!
     
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    She should have kicked you in the face when you complained. So ungrateful! : )
     
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    What a lovely little scenario ^^
    I have to admit, i have a huge thing for "non-explicit" demonstrations of dominance in every-day situations.
    But yeah, regarding the TV show, bad choices have been made o_O

    And the morale of the story? Furniture doesn't talk...ever ;)
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    I am probably the minority, but I am not in the least interested in having the person I love take me for granted. Being used as a toy is one thing, but being used as a piece of furniture would hurt my feelings. At least it would unless I told her it was something I enjoyed. I’m game for trying new things, but any extreme I would expect some agreement first.

    I’ve seen pics online of similar situations. I’ve never understood them. A person makes a terrible footstool, and surely isn’t any fun for the footstool. Most people have a table next to the couch, so it doesn’t even alleviate a practical need.

    My wife is free to do lots of stuff, but she appreciates what I do, and would never act mean or indifferent.

    I am certainly glad you started to at least enjoy it.
     
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    A couple weeks back, my wife handcuffed me to the bed. She said she'd be back in an hour or two. "Here, you can watch something on TV". She flipped on something called 'say yes to the dress' and walked out. Pure torture. I did dig the creativity though.
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    If it would have been “sweet home Alabama” I would have used my safe word!!!
     
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    This is one of those things that sound like a good idea until they actually happen! ^^
     
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    If you don't already gender bend, maybe "say yes to the dress" was a hint! Lol
     
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    Your wife tried dominating you in a new way. You didn't like it at the time, but you got an erection afterwards. I'd say that it's worth trying again.
     
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    #11 Kinkeypup, Jan 22, 2019
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    If this happened to me, I would feel like an object, not a human being. It sounds somewhat silly, like just doing something without not really having a reason for doing it. A bit tryhard and cliched. It smells of behaviorism, detached from the cognitive life of an living organism. Much like Pavlovs dogs.

    Of course just my opinion. There might be other reasons. Like fun. Or as some people might say: A useful tool. Personally, I consider myself more important to the world then as a footstool, regardless of d/s roles.

    Hit that!
     
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    She’s a complex woman...
     
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    It sounds like she may be exploring boundaries for both of you. It might not happen again, but be prepared for something else unexpected.
     
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    not furniture per se but my mistress often sits on my face and lick her ass while on the phone chatting to her friends.
     
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    I wasn't a huge fan of it, but it definately put me in my place. My wife has an amazing knack for being strict but kind ever since she found her groove in our chastity journey, so while this was happening I never felt bad, it just got really boring. I do like humiliation so I'm guessing this was a testing of the waters to see if I liked it. I think if this comes around again it'll be because she enjoys it and/or she feels I need to be humbled. Either way she's my Goddess so I'm happy to serve her any way she desires.
     
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    I love this. I sometimes get to have my face sat one when she's edging me. As far her playing or chatting on her phone, she usually has me rub her feet or sometimes I get to worship her pussy. A few times she's started watching porn when she's decided she wants an orgasm. This is probably one of my favorite things because I get to give my Goddess an orgasm, I get to kiss her beautiful pussy, I get to feel super submissive, plus I get to be humiliated by her when she talks about how much bigger the guys dick is than mine. A win, win, win, win.
     
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    One of the things some have discovered about being in chastity is that focus is shifted from the needs of the man to the needs of the woman. Some find this shift, and the resulting desire on the part of the man to do anything to please his woman, one of the great rewards of being locked. The whole process develops selflessness in the man. In this case, if she was getting off on using you as a stool, good for her! If she was getting off by trying something new for your benefit, good for her! In any case, lucky you.
     
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    It's funny that a couple guys would be offended by this. It gives me a slight tingly feeling. I'm sure that I wouldn't like it because it would bother my back, but the dom-sub dynamic is appealing to me, and I wouldn't be offended at all.
     
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    Objectification... it's a thing :p
     
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    Really? And what type of shoe should she be wearing for kicking him in the face? Just curious.
     
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