so im new at this and i dont know what's normal and what's not. i was able to go 6 days so far and at the end i tried to sleep with it on. I was soooo ramped up it was almost horny hypertension. My prostate tingled in a pleasure pain mix and i was up till around 4 in the morning wide awake. gave in and spanked on out. I fell asleep instantly. I know i failed but i want to try again. should i be milking more often? i think i have a higher then average libido as well so maybe im producing more juices then the average chaste. thanks in advance all comments
If you wake up hard during the night it's normally because you need to pee. Go do that, and you'll become flaccid again and will be able to get back to sleep. Keep trying, it does take time for both your body and mind to get used to it. For anything, the first few times is always more exciting. After a while, when you're used to wearing it longer term, you can go days (and nights) with hardly noticing that you're wearing it.
maybe higher than average libido or lower than average willpower? Horniness is a fact of life in chastity. You have to develop coping mechanisms. Think of something different. Do something physical (not easy when in bed, admittedly). Read a book. good luck
oh snap! Lol your probably right. As long as this is just the normal learning process I'm ok with it. I need to get back on the horse...and lock up the horse c#%& to give it another go. would your recommend just trying to sleep with it right away so im not fighting too battles of horniness and sleeping caged?
If you don't have a keyholder, you need to put your key somewhere where you don't have to rely solely on your willpower. The glove box of your car works decently well. At work is even better. Basically, you need to create a situation where your key is an inconvenient enough of a location that your desire to remain chaste can beat back your desire to have an orgasm.
I understand. is it normal for your prostate area to feel like its on fire? also I was reading about freezing it in a large block of Ice too.
Maybe you need a few weeks of wearing it only out of bed so that you get used to the cage. But once you start sleeping in it, you have to keep at it to get used to it and even 1 night out of the cage can be a setback to getting trained to wearing it at night. Maybe for the first week of night time use, master bate at bedtime then lock cage on. Then do a week of master bating every other night and then go to 24/7 use with no orgasms. You will need to keep the key in an inconvenient place to avoid temptations during weak times. The first 30 days is the hardest but after that it starts feeling like a point of pride and you will be reluctant to spoil what you’ve invested 30 days in.
lol I was feeling that at 6 days! I have gone almost two and half weeks on the honor system. that's as far as I could do so far. but life is about pushing limits
Or try staying locked and only allow yourself anal pleasure by dildo. You will either get a good milking or achieve the the holy grail of an anal orgasm. The closest I ever got was something similar to a ruined orgasm but I was wore out by then and relieved a bit.
Perhaps you should check with your doctor that all is well in the prostrate area. Many males have troubles there.
i guess i should. when i give in all is well again. so i figured it was just build up. But if it's new to the pros on here I'll check it out