Chastity roadblock, UGH!

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    could be both. maybe consider some surgical gauze between offending area of device and flesh...?
     
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    Very good idea, I think I will try that. Thanks.
     
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    @BKwife For extended use over weeks rather than days, the capture ring needs to be stainless steel, quite thick and a complete ring. This, with the correct length cage, is the best bet for long term chastity.
    subbie will also need to get used to it, so.... slowly increase the time he is caged... dont rush things.
     
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    quite right. certainly no longer than five, six weeks to start with. seven, but that's pushing it...
     
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    Uh, no. With a new device, the trial period should be something like:
    1. 1 day
    2. 3 days
    3. 1 week
    4. 1 month
    If after those you find no problems, then you can start with longer continuous lock ups.

    Starting at 5 weeks is pure nonsense.
     
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    of course. i'm simply having a little Friday fun. : )
     
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    Good evening Ms BKwife,
    If you have not bought the expensive model, I have an idea.
    I have this stainless steel one in small from eBay, it is comfortable but it did pinch at the hinge where the lock goes. The fit was a little loose there and could rock just a bit side to side causing a pinch. I hook a very small hair tie rubber band (or any very small rubber band) over each side of the ring top before assembling the device and once the lock is in place, pull the bands into the gap on each side. Works great no pinch!
    [​IMG]
     
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    We've got a cheap Chinese cage, which actually works pretty well and is comfortable.

    I was going swimming (in the sea) with it for the first time and didn't fancy the lock's chances of surviving, so replaced it with two zip ties. The way these ran pulled the two parts of the cage together and prevented what little movement the lock allowed. The BIG surprise is that this has made a noticeable difference to comfort levels.

    It might be worth a try using something to take all movement out from between the parts and see if that makes any difference.

    Good luck and I'll be interested to hear what the solution is!
     
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    Thanks for the info. I did put some rubber o-rings in the post that the locks go through. That took out some of the sliding movement. You can see what I did in the picture in my BKwife gallery.
     
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    metal cages are better
     
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    in my experience, it is very hard to find the right device that will
    1. Not pinch when you move
    2. Allow you to pee without creating a shower
    3. Allow for thorough cleaning
    4. Not allow you to pull out backwards
    5. Not rub and make you sore
    6. Not start to smell like a urinal after a couple of days
    7. Prevent erections
    8. Prevent masturbation

    When you find your device, please let me know.

    In my experience
    Holly Trainer 2
    1. Yes
    2. Yes
    3. No
    4. No
    5. Yes
    6. No
    7. Yes
    8. Yes (Excepting 4)

    Securo Cage 1
    1. Yes
    2. No
    3. Yes
    4. Yes
    5. Yes
    6. Yes
    7. No
    8. No

    Looker 2 (With P.A. lock) (Almost there)
    1. No
    2. No
    3. Yes
    4. Yes
    5. Yes
    6. Yes
    7. Yes
    8. Yes
     
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    Thanks for your post. Very easy to read and understand.
     
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    A properly fitted Contender from Male Chastity Now fits all but one. 4 (pullout) is possible though it would be unpleasant unless completely soft. For me, this is also the least important factor.

    Add the PA option, and the Contender hits every one.

    There may be an asterisk by easy peeing. It’s possible but seated is still the safer route.

    Huge upgrade from a pretty good Chinese device.
     
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    I use Monistat's Chafing Refief Power Gel (Drugstore Feminine aisle) under the rings and this relieves a lot of discomfort.

    I also found that shaving the caged area before putting the cage on gets rid of hairs that get caught in the parts as you put them on.
     
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    We are having a similar issue right now. My guy’s got a bit of a sore/pinch/chaffing mark on the bottom of his dick that’s a little sore and irritated so leaving the cage off for a few days.

    I’m planning to moisturize it for him, to hopefully get it back on in a day or two, however it doesn’t bother me all too much because he knows that he doesn’t need a cage to be in a chaste lifestyle. He still knows I’m in control and listens/participates just like he would with the cage on. He also knows he’s of course not to touch himself even if the cage is on
     
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    We are waiting for postman to deliver piggys 4 shiny new cages!. Wish us luck that something fits like a glove.
     
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    Good luck
     
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    I had an issue with the first Chinese lock as well. It’s one where the tip is very open. I got pinched a lot and had to get a different one with a cap on the end. Then I had to modify it by using a carbide router to cut a slit similar to a CB6000 or Holy Trainer in order for it to work in every day life, urinals... etc. never get pinched anymore.
     
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    Hello BKwife,
    If I may...I’ve tried so many cages it’s crazy. For me...just one chaste slaves experience, the best cages I’ve ever been fortunate to be locked in are custom cages. They are costly and take weeks to get, BUT once in your hand there is NO reason (maybe medical) to ever remove it unless it pleases you to do so.
    Just sharing.
    Thank You!
    “O”
     
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    Goddess P and me just had the same problem. 10 days into my first 14 day lock down , she had to take it off after inspection. I was interested to know if you tried the Vaseline on Gigaman and if you did does it work ? I have to find a fix because I feel like I let her down. Not a happy sub at the moment
     
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    Well with 4 to choose from...the odds are good that at least one fits :)
     
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    I know how you feel BKwife. It seems that after about a week some kind of sore or irritation happens that forces me to take it off after a while.
     
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    Never tried vaseline. Need to
     
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