Is it physically unhealthy to restrict ejaculations?

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    Well said Madam.
     
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    I feel like the prostate cancer issue should be a myth busters episode...
     
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    Some years ago, I read a paper (online) of a mentally unstable patient living in a "supervised" (I understood that as an institution) environment. For a number of reasons the patient had not ejaculated for quite sometime - the paper wasn't clear on the duration, but it seemed to indicate it was months or years. The poor guy wasn't even having nocturnal emissions.
    He ended up in the Facilities medical station complaining of testicular / prostate pain.
    The Dr. quickly diagnosed the problem and attempted to have the patient masturbate in the nearest restroom. What happened next is pretty disturbing, so........be advised.
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    .The medical staff found the guy screaming in the restroom, with a spaghetti like substance hanging outside his urethra. The short version is, they ended up performing surgery on the guy, but, he ended up basically a eunuch. This wasn't some fantasy story website I got this from, but from what I understood as a consequence of what not to do as far as abstinence.
     
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    I saw something maybe that also posted by a doctor about the patient who didn’t ever relieve himself he was a mental patient and they said the same thing I think I may of read the same paper but I was under the impression he did not ever clear himself out for reasons due to his mental conditions .
    I wonder how long that was to get to a point like that?
     
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    Not that I am an expert, but the NHS happily perform vasectomy operations so as far the medical world goes there is no concern.

    But it is easy enough to milk without erection or orgasm if you so wish to "clear the pipes"
     
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    Indeed they do and was instructed many years ago myself. But let's all be very clear about this, ejaculate is not something that builds over time, being stored up and putting extreme pressure on the gonads. That's a myth! Yes a male can get very frustrated if his emotional and physical sex needs are not met, but that's more down to high testosterone doing cranky things to the part of the brain that controls sexual desire, the limbic system. It's the brain that causes and is affected by constrained sexual pleasure. The manifestation being.... 'my balls are turning blue'. Total crap! It's all in the mind/brain, not the cock and balls. Most intelligent Mistresses wouldn't fall for such poppy cock.
     
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    Precisely. And that is the question I have........would society be better off if, in general, men were not allowed ejaculations?
     
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    In the abstract perhaps but the reality is you aren't likely to cage 3.5 billion men, although I'm sure the Chinese would happily ramp up device production. What does better or worse mean and for whom? Are we talking increasing the population of "submissive" men? If so, I think there are a fair number of women who have no interest in having a submissive male partner despite advertised benefits of regular massages, toenail painting, and house cleaning.

    Or are you suggesting that if we had more chaste men, we would have fewer "problems" in the world? If Hitler had been denied orgasms, would the Holocaust never had happened?
     
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    Thank you Adam,

    I am indeed suggesting the latter: more chaste men would be better for society. I would not go so far as to say Hitler could have been curbed by a CB6000, but in general, if men were commonly taught sexual restraint as a societal norm, we'd be better off.
     
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    I have read that for a healthy prostate, it i
    It is best to release him at least once a month. I am lucky. Ever 7 to 10 days for me and i have to let her know when day7 arrives. Like i said: 7 to 10 days. I just dont know what day or how. Keeps it exciting.
     
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    Well, here’s my experience: back in my 30s after we had 3 daughters and decided not to conceive again I got aggravated with using rubbers. When to unwrap? The very sound of being unsealed and the having to roll it on just got to me. I got a vasectomy. My right testicle kept hurting and the epidydimous (sperm manifold) stayed swollen and tender. Follow up appointments with the urologist produced his opinion that my sperm making process did not stop as he originally said it would.
    I hired a different surgeon to do microsurgery to hook the vasdefferens back. The swelling went away. Swimmers were confirmed in my ejaculate.
    That said, I also get a congested (burning) feeling in my prostate from time to time. I milk myself with an anal hook. My wife just cannot seem to find my prostate.
     
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    Well I asked my doctor and the answer was an infatic no ... it is not not necessary to ejaculate at all ...that put a smile on my wife's face lol
     
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    Your doctor might be correct. It is, however, like saying that no one need ever cough. There are people who cannot cough due to lack of vocal chord control or nerve damage who live a happy life depending entirely on the cilliated epithelial cells lining their air passages.
    Sometimes it feels good to cough as it eliminates the rattle in your throat.
    Likewise, squeezing the prostate gland like the sponge-like tissue it is serves to deeply express any materials contained therein.
     
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    I was hoping, that I needed the odd spill, my Goddess has always told me it's not necessary......but I hoped I could make a reasonable argument for an orgasm....I am getting so frustrated......but I think it's in my head not my groin.
     
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    Rebecca,

    I sure know how you feel. I sort of wish it were the case that a "spill" was needed too. But I am afraid your keyholder is correct. It's interesting how some people just intuitively know the truth....your keyholder does.
     
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    I have had the topic of this thread on my mind.
    I got interrupted while posting yesterday. I omitted that both before my vasectomy and after my vasovastomy I have had prostatitis 3 times. The first thing the doctor did each time was express my prostate rectally. This is a painful procedure that immediately diminishes the conjestion and thus the pain of prostatitis. Follow up antibiotics finish the job.
    My using the anal hook to express my prostate when I feel that old conjestion is the answer for me. This is not a pleasurable thing to do, but it does deeply squeeze the prostate gland and the burning conjestion is gone. I only do this about every 6 weeks or so.
    I did some research and found a device online that would accomplish the same thing:

    http://www.shopkinkytoys.com/the-red-prostate-hook.aspx
     
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    I bought one at Walmart on clearance for $5. Was sold in the sporting goods section as a massage tool.
     
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    I notice that you can ejaculate in a cage if you are propely teased and the excitation is at the top.
    It had already happens to me to ejaculate flascid after a long chastity period. And it was while my mistress was masturbating.
     
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    You can't stop nocturnal emissions.
     
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    And it is complete and utter bollocks!
     
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    Sounds like bollocks to me as well.

    The internet is full of so-called science.....a lot of it is bollocks. I should know, I have planted some of it myself.
     
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    There is a lot of jews and christian priests who don't masturbate.
     
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    I bet they bloody well do! Celibate, my arse!

    Catholic preists have been involved in more sex candals than I had hot dinners!
     
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    Oh Ye of little faith. :)
     
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    Re: the celibacy of clergy

    In the United States a child is FAR more likely (nearly 29x) to be sexually abused by a public school teacher than a Catholic priest.

    “Analyzing the data from a survey by the American Association of University Women Educational Foundation, statistics professor Charol Shakeshaft estimates that between 1991 and 2000, roughly 290,000 students were subjected to physical and sexual abuse by teachers or other school personnel. In her report for the U.S. Department of Education, Shakeshaft says that about one in every ten American children has been sexually abused in some way at school. Compare that with Catholic priests. A study by the U.S conference of Catholic Bishops said that 10,667 allegations of sexual abuse of children had been made between 1950 and 2002.” — P.168 From the well researched book "Godless", by Ann Coulter

    Why don't people know this? Think of who controls the news......
     
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