Is it physically unhealthy to restrict ejaculations?

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    For some reason I have this idea that my sub’s plumbing needs to be cleared every so often. Milking and pegging only move a small amount, and so I’ve had my subby perform supervised masturbation, just to clear out the ‘backup.’ But of course that allows for an orgasm.

    I honestly don’t know if I need to do this. Blue balls, which I guess is different, go away with a bit of time, as I’ve been told. And I’m sure semen eventually gets resorbed, probably slowly. There is a study that reports a decreased incidence of prostate cancer in men who ejaculate more, but is there any bonafide health risk or issues that anyone has experienced from not ejaculating for extended periods?
     
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    I think the studies show correlation but not causation. I’d bet that unhealthy men ejaculate less so that makes someone conclude that higher numbers of ejaculations=better health.

    If you buy quality electrosex equipment, you can do a good milking without orgasm.
     
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    There is no science to suggest restricting ejaculation has any harmful effect on the male's health. Unless of course You consider his mental health at being denied. This is more the case if the subject is highly sexed. In general, the myth regarding regular 'clearing out' is something generated by males who want sexual release, especially if they are regularly aroused by the sheer dominance of their Mistress. Mine relished in her own cruelty to me, and quite frankly, I relished her cruelty. It just kind of took our lifestyle to an amazing level. Not for everyone of course, not many males can take their Mistresses having sex/orgasm as they please, while being denied themselves. I can only say, Her confidence and energy rose considerably the more independently dominant She became. Everyone has their thing in this game.
     
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    I had a feeling this was an old wives’ tale. I think I read it from an FLR website actually. Good to know though this is most likely myth. Thank you!
     
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    You are welcome Ma'am M.
     
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    There's absolutely no need to actively make a guy ejaculate, because if his body needs to he will have a 'wet dream' in the night. No orgasm, stimulation, or even awareness of dreaming required, even when in chastity. You can't stop it, there's no need to do anything for it.
     
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    I sure hope it’s not unhealthy. I want to live for a long long time and Stay Locked for it. I can’t see my Wife / Mistress allowing me more orgasms in the future. Less is a better Bet.
     
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    Shhhhh, don’t tell anyone, but I believe it’s a story someone suggested to get a finger in their bum lol. “But honey, if I’m not milked it could lead to cancer, so if we want to keep on doing chastity, you need to stick your finger in there every few weeks”

    No doubt it relieves some pressure, same as a ruined O, but doubt it’s necessary for health reasons. Our bodies are quite handy at taking care of itself, and in fact if you are not careful when doing it, prostate massage can actually be harmful, especially if done a lot and too hard.

    By all means keep doing it if you both enjoy it, your not killing him if you choose not to.
     
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    There are a few reasons to believe it could cause issues and even more reasons to believe it would not. The problem is there has not been a long term study on the health issues associated with male chastity and probably never will be. That's sad because there is a lot more value to society with that study than a lot of other things that get funded and there are quite a few myths regarding chastity that could use dispelling. (penis shrinkage being another)
     
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    well I hope not. :(
     
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    So I’ve done more research and, as everyone has stated, I have found no literature to back up the myth either. And like @Jessica Alexander stated, the study about prostate cancer and ejaculation shows correlation, but does not establish any sort of causative relationship.

    Conclusion? I have no reason to give subs supervised masturbation for ‘chamber’ releases. And orgasm denial periods will be effectively lengthened ;) Thanks all.
     
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    Short answer is NO! I work in healthcare, which has included sexual health.

    Firstly, the cause or causes of prostate cancer are unknown. There are no medical studies that show any correlation between the amount of ejaculations, or the lack of ejaculations, and the likelihood of prostate cancer.

    Secondly, Seminal fluid is secreted from the Prostate Glabd during defectation. Excrement passing through the bowels presses down against the prostate, causing it to expell yellowy seminal fluid that leaves the penis and into the toley bowl. (Look inside a white toilet bowl immediately after male defectation and chances are you will see a yellowy fluid running down the toilet bowl that is thicker than urine.)

    Any medical study would have to involve a long term study (possibly decades) involving one group of men refraining from ejaculating and another group of men ejaculating at least once a week. And then monitoring their prostate health into old age. And even then, the study may be circumstantial.
     
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    Furthermore, Semen is a binary fluid; i.e. made up of two parts.

    Semen is made up of fluid secreted by the Prostate Gland AND fluid from the Seminal Vesicles.
     
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    Jessica has it spot on: correlation, not causation.

    Deny him with impunity. It won't harm him at all....
     
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    Thank you; I also have come to the same conclusion.

    However, since you are in healthcare, I wanted to point out that there is indeed a medical study looking at this issue. It is a 2016 prospective study which looked at ejaculation and prostate cancer. It included 30k+ men over about a two decade period. They did report decreased low grade prostate cancer rates in those who had increased ejaculations. Of course, as others here have pointed out, this is not causative, but it is a correlation. And this study is frought with all the usual confounding factors like recall bias, etc, so I’m not putting too much weight on this. It does build upon earlier smaller studies that showed similar but inconsistent results.

    And as far as causes of prostate cancer, we do know some of them, or at least some risk factors, which includes race and genetic mutations like BRCA.

    And finally don’t forget the other important component of semen: sperm, which hopefully will not see the light of day for you anytime soon :)
     
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    I would be interested in reading that paper, if you can provude a link to it.
     
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    Thank you! The full paper can be found here...

    https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5040619/

    I read through the summary and it is all fairly speculative, as I suspected it would be. It makes no definitive conclusions and even states that Prostate Cancer is:

    "...a disease for which relatively little is understood about etiology (causes) generally and knowledge of modifiable risk factors is particularly scant..."

    And goes on to say:

    "...Additional work on the underlying biological mechanisms should be undertaken to corroborate these findings given the potential for residual confounding...".

    Men who can sustain an erection and can ejaculate tend to have better health and a healthier lifestyle than men who suffer from impotence, because impotence can be related to blood circulatory problems and heart diseases caused by an unhealthy diet, a lack of exercise, overweight, a smoker and a drinker, etc.

    A heathier lifestyle that is low on red meat and diary products, higher on fruit and vegetables, non-smoking, non-alcohol, regular exercise, keeping one's weight in the correct BMI category, etc. can increase one's overall health, including cancer prevention.
     
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    Coincidentally, Viagra (sildenafil) was originally intended to be a medication for sufferers of Angina. It was developed to widen the blood vessles and arteries of people suffering from Angina.

    However, during the clinical trials, male patients reported a curious side effect of being able to achieve and sustain an erection when hitherto they could not.

    Pfizer, the pharmaceutical company, then realised they had a great treatment for impotence caused by blood circulatory problems.
     
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    Lest we forget, 10% of men who are PSA tested, are positive for follow on prostate diagnosis. In general, older men are likely to be in this category are more susceptible to human diseases. Old age does that to you. The best way to keep ahead of issues, get tested annually or at the onset of any symptoms. Ejaculation denial is not a major component, drink, diet, drugs are likely to be more in the causation, but healthy lifers can also get these issues. MEN! Don't ignore changes.
     
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    Agreed!

    I have had several cancer scares and sought medical advice on all three occasions, which thankfully were all false alarms and were benign medical conditions. One was a testicular cancer scare aged 17, a throat cancer scare aged 21, and a bowel cancer scare aged 39.
     
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    Glad you're ok fella. These things are sent to try us, all the more reason to embrace our fears and enjoy our lives.
     
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    This thread should send shivers through every sub male here.
     
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    I'm sort of stuck. I have had a few times when I've gone 3 months or so, that what comes out is very jelly like and amber coloured. This bothers my wife and my keyholder. The amount is pretty small too, but I read that the body absorbs quite a bit when it's not expelled. I've also had a vasectomy, which changes the content and appearance anyhow. I've also never had a wet dream in my life.

    My problem is that I've had Crohn's disease for 30 years or more (It's in remission, due to drug treatments I get.) and there has been several surgeries and much damage. As far as the surgeries, I had most of my small intestine removed 23 years ago. After that, and damage through the system, I found that ejaculating more than maybe 2-3 times a month would make me weak and foggy headed. We figure it's a lack of ability to absorb/replenish what is lost during an ejaculation. This is part of how I got into denial, and then chastity. Problem 2 is that there is a lot of damage in the bowel, and prostate milking is out of the question. The report in this thread, if it's the same one I read, requires a serious number of ejaculations to show an improvement in prostate cancer reduction. I simply can't do that.

    Right now, I get a very quick ejaculation, administered manually, about every 2-3 months. Having done tantric for years, i'm really good at dropping the orgasm, and just ejaculating. We are experimenting with e-stim, that doesn't involve the alien anal probe, and will see how that goes. We've had luck un-locked, but my keyholder is very anti erection, so we're trying for locked e-stim ejaculating. If we can manage that. it's likely my long term solution.
     
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    "Is it physically unhealthy to restrict ejaculations ? "


    With the state of the world and the ever increasing world population, I would have thought it would be far more unhealthy to allow ejaculations
     
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