Calming erection attempts

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    I'm having to many frustrating prolonged erection attempts. Is there any way to calm these down? Will periodically draining the prostate help with this? I have tried ice but that's it so. I'm losing my mind ...
     
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    Ice, baseball statistics and squeezing the tip works for me.
     
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    I can't squeeze the tip it's locked up.. thanks tho have a good day bud
     
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    Don't think about your erection. Focus on something else and get used to the fact that you cannot have erections for a while
     
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    Baseball statistics, LOL!
     
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    yep, it's all about training the mind to think about something else. Not easy. Keep practicing....
     
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    enjoy the feeling......in time these will subside and you'll miss them
     
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    lockedUp24byKH Yes Dear...Right away.

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    A bit of lube around the basering.
    Have a pee.
    Distraction play angry birds or other just nothing that excites.
     
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    If I get one in the middle of the night that won't go away I'll just do a plank exercise for a minute and it goes away.
     
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    It sounds like the only answer is in the mind. Thanks everyone. You are all great people with a unique insight on a difficult and off the wall subject . Good night
     
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    If erection attempts, are really bothering you, you might need a different cage.

    When I had a larger cage (wore a big one while piercing was being healed), it allowed room to grow, and the more it did, the more it rugged on my balls. With a device that stifles the erection before it even starts, it doesn’t get to the point of pulling, because it can’t get hard to begin with.

    My cage now doesn’t allow for any hardness and even when I’m doing something hot(like going down on her), it stays the same.

    Many make the mistake of thinking they need x amount of room for growing, but it just forces the cage to pull. Even morning wood is nothing but a small ache at the most.
     
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    Cage definetly needs to fit a flaccid penis...
     
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    I like the failed erection attempts. Desperately straining in this prison. It reminds me of how pathetic manhood really is compared to the authority of women who hold the key.
     
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    If the cage allows it, using something like a strap on harness helps sometimes. You attach it to one side of the ring, wrap it around your waist and attach to other side of the ring then cinch it down. Stretch cord also works but attaching the ends to the ring presents problems.
     
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    Two parts. First, you need a device that fits well, see my comment in your other thread. Second, your body adjusts over time. It never goes completely away, but it happens less often, and you get used to it.
     
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    I’m a odd duck and even a small cage won’t stifel my erections. I had better luck with a longer cage. It’s important that the base ring isn’t too smut or you will have that acting as a cock ring and no mental willing the penis to shrink will have any impact. If you have to stand up and walk around, this may be the case if it also goes slightly numb or light pain the base ring is too big. Atleast that was the case for me
     
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    For me, even in my night tight cage, it doesn't go away, the erections keep on trying. During the daytime they don't get far, just that delicious tightness. At night the nocturnal "intrection" just grows behind the cage while head tries to escape out the top. It's just the way chastity is.
     
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    It has been said many times that if what ever device you are waering fits sufficiently snugly when flaccide that it will prmit normal bloodflow and not permit erections.

    I have discovered through experience that I can confirm this. Having for many years worn looser fitting devices I switched to the more snugly fitting ones over a year ago now and find them far more preferable to the alternatives.

    I suggest you at least try following this much stated piece of advice to alleviate your issue.
     
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    Does anyone use a strapon harness to help hold the device in place?
    I have found that when I do get erections at night, irregardless if cage length or size, the erection grows behind the cage and pushes it forward. The shorter the cage the tighter it pulls on the balls
    I’m wondering if holding the cage right to the body would stifel the errction before it takes off
     
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    My 8th grade English teacher was very hot... lol Then she was fired after some kids got her extreame personal pictures....
     
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    You just have to distract yourself with something else that does not give you erections... Simple as that... Remember... Chastity is acceptance... If you don´t embrace it you will not become what you want...
     
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