8 years playing around with chastity. It turned serious really fast Friday. I had been thinking

I have experienced the same thing. We went 5.5 years of playing around, to 121 days
a year ago last August. There was a change in Her whole attitude. Just like someone
flipped a switch. It was something that She worked through herself and just decided to
go this way after I got a full belt, which She said she would like me to have.

It has shown me another side of Her that I had never seen. She wasn't mean and paid
a lot of attention to me. I would say we are probably more intimate now than before.

Well I have to say that is very true. She told me after those days She wanted to see how
serious I really was. At first I wasn't sure how I felt. After a couple of weeks I just became
mesmerized by the way She approached things. She has always had my heart and now
has everything. If she really means this you will be in for quite a ride. Enjoy.

 

Maybe she’s gonna roll you right through Locktober

 

You do like to live dangerously

 

..., said no guy, EVER!"

 

I think you should find a couple of "Locktober" caption images, and then email/sms them to her, with a comment from yourself, eg:
"Look, others seem to be doing it for a month or so"
or "I don't think I could do this... What do you think?".

It's important that you send them by a media that you then can't delete, you don't want to be able to chicken out after sending it.

Then, when she's taken on the challenge for you, show her a "NOvember" caption...

We await your updates

 

You already know the excitement that you can have from being locked up. Now your entering the next level where you also have the excitement of not knowing when you’ll be released. This is an exciting time where your feelings and emotions will be tested. When you feel that you’ve had enough and you want the cage off and your lovely wife says “No” the mental aspect of Chastity becomes reality. Your no longer in control. I’m sure that you’ve already discussed this with your wife otherwise why would you have given her the book.

Your a very very lucky man to have a wife that’ll give you what you want.
Have you ever heard the words “Be carful what you wish for “

Enjoy your new and exciting journey @Chris1982 it'll be incredible and exciting.

 

We did the loctober thing right away, it was kind of a hot idea and she was looking forward to it.

I’m not sure if it changed for her, me, or both, but it sputtered out.

Me: I guess knowing that I won’t be getting anywhere takes away from me spinning my wheels trying to get there.
Her: She wasn’t a fan of being under an obligation. It took more control away from her since it removes the options.

Since then we go longer than a month quite regularly, but it’s on her terms, I never know, and if she feels like ending a lock up, that’s just what will happen. I think I like this way too, it removes the certainty that nothing is going to change. Hope and optimism keep rejuvenating the thrill.

 

I am confused. How many lori's have you had?

 

Sorry I was referring to mcfeely. He has a history of being somewhat reluctant to cage up, but somewhat curious enough to hang out here.

 

That's too bad. She makes good devices, but I have always suggested people go with as light a model as possible, because they tend to be heavy.

The 12A seems like a tough design. What problems did you have with it?

 

I think you need a really loose ball sack for that device to work, and even then, the sizing is tricky.

Don't give up hope, there are designs that work. I can attest to that!

What are you wearing now?

 

One of my kh’s pet peeves...losing a ball sack lol!

 

I hate recommending these guys since their customer service is so terrible, it takes 4 months to get a device and oncebyouborder it, you just sit and wait for it to arrive. But rigid chastity makes a beautiful and functional chastity device if you are pierced.

I have the model 05, and the only reason to unlock it is to groom underneath, or she wants it out. I could probably orgasm with a powerful wand and 45 min to an hour of time, but that would be a lot more f work and not impetuous.