How do you handle PIV sex when unlocked

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  1. epsi-trepsi
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    Hi all

    The Best thing for my wife and KH is normal missionary sex without any implements. She does not want to abide from this but does not mind chastity.

    Any ideas How to handle this? I have been locked for several weeks but when I am unlocked I cum very easily and will most likely cum from the sex
     
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    Welcome
    If this is what she likes and wants than that could be it. Early on in our relationship- long before any thing, I left a vibrator in a bedroom drawer and when she found it and asked about it I just said that I thought maybe sometime we could try it out.
    Shortly thereafter it was gone from our “
    communal” drawer and in her drawer. Later on she said she had tried it and soon after toys started showing up in our sex times. We’ve never been great communicators when it comes to our sexual desires. Open communication is always best but not always easiest
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    You could try a regular Trojan, unlubricated, red package I believe. If I remember correctly, they were pretty thick, and would keep u from cumming so soon. There is a desensitizing spray as well if that isn’t too much “stuff”, just make sure you use a condom, or she will get numb too.

    I understand she may not want a full compliment of toys, but buy a Doxi or a hitachi wand...her reservations will more than likely fly out the window once used. It’s funny, just this morning I was showing her the different settings on a vibe I got as a free gift for buying so much, and she said “that’s no doxi”, it seems all others will now fall short.

    Good luck
     
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    I am allowed PIV, I just can't cum in her pussy. That is impossible because I'm only allowed ruined orgasms.
     
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    Mrs Edge and I were never big on toys, but we did have a few discussions about using a vibe or dildo. Eventually, she got tired of me using my hands, so we bought an inexpensive harness so I could wear it. That led to buying a much better quality set (Vixskin didlo with a Stormy Leather Terra Firma harness).

    Since her preferred way is missionary with me on top, this has worked out very well; she now gets a rush from feeling my cage bump against her ass, and that has led to longer - much , much longer - term lockups.
     
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    I was so lucky

    My ex preferred strapon sex
    So most was with her wearing it.
    Next was anal and that became 90% of when I penetrated her.
    The remaining 10% I had to cum and clean up.

    I miss sex with her so much
     
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    What does she want? That's all that matters. If she wants PIV and wants you to cum, then so be it. If she wants PIV and doesn't want you to cum then you're going to have to exercise some control and/or pull out before peaking, or go with Nic's suggestion.
     
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    We haven't had PIV sex yet this year! She loves riding her strapon! Mrs Chaste doesn't like the loss of interest after I cum and apparently orgasms aren't good for me! "It's for your own good" she says.
     
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    You're truly impressive and make me feel like a slut, since I've actually had over a dozen erections this year and was permitted to finish five times!
     
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    My goddess and I have unprotected PIV sex twice a day most days, usually I just use my own judgment and I’m the one doing the thrusting so it’s possible for me to keep going for a while as long as I can slow and stop for a moment when I need to. It does get harder and harder the longer I go between orgasms and the most I have managed without any kind of ruined O or leaking is about a month. The more you practice at self control the easier it gets, but it’s easy to accidentally blow your load without permission sometimes. If you can control yourself you should be able to keep doing it.
     
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    Not in my case, absolutely no self control at all!!! :)
     
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    @epsi-trepsi you can get numbing cream for premature ejucalation cream called emla smoother this on your penis and then a condom and you won't feel a thing!
    Hugs
    Lucy x
     
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    Happilymarriednerd Sph messages welcome

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    I wear a sleeve usually.
     
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    A few years ago I was done pretty quick. It takes practice but now I can out last my wife she usually kicks me off when she is satisfied. If she wants me to orgasm she knows what buttons to push.
     
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    After being locked for a while I'll cum within seconds when having PIV. Hell after being locked I can cum just from playing with my nipples... We've now started using stud 100 (numbing spray) and then putting a condom over my penis. It completely numbs me down so I can't feel anything. She then has her fun and tells me when she's finished.

    I don't think any amount of practice would stop me cumming after a long time locked up, so numbing cream/spray all the way.
     
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    Bratty Boi Chastened Psychologically getting off by NOT getting off!

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    I would thoroughly recommend "Stud 100", which is a Lidocaine cock numbing spray that will desensitise the glan
    s and upper shaft, making it much harder to cum. And wear a condom as well, or a cock sheath.

    Or buy condoms that contain a small amount of delay cream.
     
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