if i’m not using it should i make it permanent

You should do what makes you happy.

 

How can you be sure that you'll never use it or have a need for it?

I know it is very thrilling to fantasize about permanent chastity but real life isn't a fantasy.

You might be best to find a kh that will keep you lock on long-term commitments first. Maybe of a full year or more...

 

Permanent is a big word. I’d agree that you should have some time unlocked. Who knows maybe someday you’ll find that special someone in your life that wants to keep you hard all the time. Being Permanently Locked than would really suck.

 

Are you a virgin by choice, because you can’t find someone or just asexual?

 

Forever is a long time, and sex is more then just what traditional society defines it as. Intimacy can be two people rubbing softly their intimate parts without emission. So picture laying down and having a person just slowly touching you lightly and without strings, and having the back of your hairs raise up or that funny feeling in your head you get as they touch you nicely.

You aren't broken, you are just a person who needs to feel a bit more safe and secure with the partners of your choice to feel whole and complete. If your feel great, that is ok too, realize self love is also very important, so take the time to explore your body. You are young, and have lots of time ahead of you .... enjoy life!

 

I dont know what you shud do but the person that ask you that dont sound very nice to me.

 

There is no such thing as true permanence with a device. But bolting it on in a way that would be very very inconvenient to remove might be exactly what you need. You are on this forum so obviously you enjoy being locked up...

I say go for it, make it 'permanent'. If 5 years or 25 years from now you non-vanila partner wants you released, there is always a way.

By being a permanent chaste virgin you would be something special.

 

Why not just go for indefinite denial that way there is no commitment to permanence but takes the I might use it sometime pressure off too.

Permanently locked well thats a discussion on its own withsome people having differing views on what constitutes being permanently locked.

 

I think you should do what you want but permanently is a long time- and true there’s always a way if you change your mind. More than a few of the boys here have discussed inescapable devices which you could try first.
Maybe put the key in a secure place so the urge can’t win out. I would thinkabout treating any rashes and such so I would want some sort of out if necessary

 

Many of us here are locked essentially 24/7, as am I. I am allowed an erection and orgasm once every month or two, and the frequency seems to be decreasing. But, my beautiful wife/KH and I have been married for 37 years, and have 6 kids. Long-term, more or less permanent chastity is something we have realistically talked about. It might happen someday, and under the right circumstances, I might go along with it. But that's me. I seriously doubt its a good idea for a 23 year old. Whereas, 24/7 chastity might be a good thing.

In summary, 24/7 chastity and permanent chastity are 2 different things, and they means different things to different people depending on their point in life, their relationship, and many other things.