Age of Discovery

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    Breathe Be true to yourself

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    How old were you and your partner when you discovered and/or implemented chastity?
     
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    I remember seeing a cb-2000 in an article from Maxim magazine when I was about 18. It said to run if your girl wanted to put you in one. I wanted one instantly! I was 19, almost 20 when I ended up getting one with my then girlfriend. Years later, I introduced my wife to it within a couple months of dating and she was into it right away. I have been locked more than not since that first device.
     
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    34. I remember it well. Like @corsac it was the cb-2000. In my case, my girlfriend/mistress "suggested" I buy one. It was downhill from there..... ;)
     
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    50 for me. But truth be told, when I was a high testosterone teen, I would get up to all sorts of things in my room (instead of studying) that involved constraining my cock with underwear, rope, and the like ;)
     
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    We were 52! Both wish we'd discovered chastity earlier. Great way to live, locked 24/7 and orgasms (for me) few and far between!
     
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    I was 31 and she was 29, we've only been doing this for a little over 3 years. I feel like I've learned a very valuable lifetimes worth of information over that time. I only wish we'd discovered this sooner but I'm sure this will be our way of life for years to come :)
     
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    Discovered it probably around 14? From the movie Robinhood men in tights. There is chastity in that movie, female. But it led me to the internet to learn more. Implemented it probably around 31 the first time I showed wife.
     
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    I was 37 and she was 36 when we first tried chastity.
     
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    I think I was 36 when I bought my first cage a few years ago, and since then time locked has only increased finding better specifics for the cage, making it more comfortable over time to stay locked. But compared to others I'm not yet into very long locked stints also live doesn't allow it to be atm either, but we can try for more can't we :)
     
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    My then wife and I were both 40 when both learned about it whilst browsing the net together. Altairboy being our first specifically chastity related site.
     
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    I think I started seeing it and taking notice of it in porn maybe 4 years ago. I got one not long after and ordered completely the wrong device that was completely impractical and ill fitting. I've been into it ever since.
    I would have been 30-31. It does seem fairly consistent with most posters here. Perhaps a dirty thirties thing lol
     
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    I discovered it at age 24 and thought it was revolting. Then I eventually rediscovered it at 25 and bought my first cage.
     
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    43 when I discovered, 45 when implemented. No partner at this time.
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    34 when i heard of a device and I thought it would be hot if my then wife would hold the key and turn not having sex into a sex game.

    I never asked her and we parted ways.

    At 42, fresh off of divorce, I asked my then girlfriend if she would hold the key. I had researched and knew all about them but had yet to wear one. When we were serious I bought one and asked her, figured I would start this relationship open about what I wanted.

    She was 34 and had never heard of it before
     
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    It was last year. My Wife enjoyed it for a bit, but for some reason lost interest in keeping me locked. She recently has been bringing it up in conversation again. Let's see where this goes...
     
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    I'd known about and hidden my submissive penis-bindage fantasies my whole life, and like @skD describes engaged in a lot of overnight penis tying and/or masturbation over the years. But I suppressed that as best I could while driving an alpha successful career and acting the alpha husband and father while masturbating the whole time, often to dominant woman fantasies. When our youngest left for college when I was in my mid-50s I began to admit my need for my wife to control my orgasms. Then I acknowledged my desire to give up this alpha role and accept her female leadership of our marriage. Finally, after a few years I asked her to accept the key and use the cage to take control of the unauthorized erections that were interfering with my submission and the attainment of the intimacy we desire.
     
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    We were in our late 50s when we started. Better late than never!
     
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    Mr M Find yourself, find peace; find others, find joy.

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    Both were 36. Discovery and implimentaion a few months apart.
     
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    I was about 45 when I got my first device - a CB6000. I wish I had discovered it earlier in life,. I remember reading someone's blog who was going to lock himself in his cage, throw away the keys and pour superglue into the lock.
     
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    Breathe Be true to yourself

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    I discovered chastity in My early 20s but didn't give much thought to it, given the fact it had no place in My previous relationship at the time.

    Last year, the interest randomly hit Me like a ton of bricks. I was 29 and he was 34 when I brought physical chastity into our dynamic.

    Actually glad it didn't come on sooner, since it seems our established D/s relationship has been instrumental in our success so far. That establishment took time, but the wait has been more than worthwhile. :)
     
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