How bad is a PA?

i have worn both a Curved barbell and a Captive Bead ring and find the CBR to be much more comfortable.

 

I think the ones that "take a year" were not doing good after care. On the other hand, I just remembered that it would hurt occasionally if i bumped it wrong for the first couple of weeks.

 

LOL. Why would u think that? Go from a 12, to 10, to 8 and then to a cage. It takes time if you are going to let things happen on their own without rushing it. I get that males get excited to get that cage locked on, but my best advice is that its not a race! Take a deep breath and enjoy the journey.

 

I agree but getting pierced at a 12 seems small. I was pierced at a 6ga the first week of May and had no issues. I was able to start switching my jewelry out without issue first week of July.

 

PA is easy. Pierce at 10 gauge, stretch to 8. Go home, bleed for a day or two. Soak in warm sea salt solution twice a day.

After 12 weeks, you can start to stretch larger. Stretch to 6, soak it again. Wait a month, stretch to 4, soak. Now you are getting somewhere.

I stretched mine to 2 gauge, then let it rest for about 12 months before I started using it to attach a device.

The piercing makes it real. No way to escape without detection.

 

Oh I forgot to mention...you are putting a hole in your dick. Peeing normal is drippy at best(for me) and when you do cum...you have two holes now, it comes out of both of them.

FYI, cause I hadn’t thought of the cum thing till I saw it the first time.

 

Good advice.

I learned the hard way going back into my cheap Chinese device a little too early.

I was one day back in a steel device with vertical bars at the tip and my curve barbell bead would not fit through. When I woke up in the morning with morning wood and needing to take a leak I sat down to relieve myself. What happened was EXCRUCIATING pain.

See, the morning erection caused the jewelry to pinch close my Urethra inside a the cage and when I started to Urinate the pressure caused the flow to go to the only other escape route......MY PIERCING!!!

I had to force myself to stop peeing and jumped up in a panic as it felt the end of my dick was on fire.

I ran to Mrs. B and woke her up and asked for my key.

She handed it to me and I pulled off my cage portion to inspect the damage.

The Urine flow had stretched the piercing slightly and was bleeding (not like when I was first pieced but enough to make me worry)

I told her I need to be cage free a bit longer to heal properly. She agreed.

Don't go back into the cage too early. And If you do go back into a cage, make sure your jewelry has enough wiggle room. This one is working quite well until my Custom Rigid Chastity device arrives (Hopefully in the next two weeks.)

 

I have got both ears, both nipples, my frenum and now my PA.
I had myself psyched out getting the PA. It was actually the least painful of them all. But at the same time it bled the most. 2 nights in a row. The erections in underwear to sleep caused pressure on the piercing and significant bleeding.
Make sure you got a couple of your wife’s pads to catch the blood from making a mess everywhere.
My piercer said she only uses 14g for the initial. Healing has been super easy. 2 weeks and it is not sticking at all when you slide it through the hole anytime in the day.
I will still be waiting until the month mark to change into the 12g ring I have for the next size. That of course is dependent on it healing as well as it seems to be going so far.
You got the rest of your life to enjoy the jewelry. Don’t F it up now by trying to hurry it up to the next size.

 

Well a PA will definitely not come off. I'm not sure how plastic will fare after many months, let alone years. Im in stainless steel, and it's very easy to keep clean and shows no sign of wear.

 

@LatexMiss after my request for you to have yours done I think this would be a good opportunity to tell others of your experience on the matter.
Also, I will say that all people are different. They react and heal at different stages.
One persons ‘breezy’ piercing could be ‘horrific’ for someone else.
LP

 

It's worth considering a Frenum piercing, which is what I have. I frequently slipped thru the base ring of a regular ball-trap device, so I looked at various piercings. The frenum has minimal pain and doesn't alter the urethra, which was important to me. Check my gallery for pics. Works well for me

 

make the belt more securded.... so the littel prinsoner cant escape and cause trouble..... haha

 

"Little Prisoner,"

Is that what we're calling it now?

 

lol... maybe baby

 

And what do you mean by "little?"

 

IveI been told that they usually migrate out of.thentissue and don't work.

 

that's usually if you don't take care of it and stretch it too fast.

 

Depends on the person I guess

 

Try the penicap

 

Try the penicap.

 

We tried the Holy Trainer (v1 short) early on. She didn’t like how funky it got. She has a very sensitive nose. We tried the captured bead ring with a steel cable between it and the lock. But urine sprayed everywhere for me. I also got pinched.

Once I went to an open style stainless steel design, her attitude changed. I can keep clean and dry in my Contender. I also can afford a much tighter fit which works great for my grower.

You seem to need to make this “real”. I understand the emotional drive. The PA is a great option. My wife felt it wasn’t just a toy or a game when I got the PA security option added.

We did have trust and my willingness. This is the proper foundation. But it makes a difference when you can’t instead of won’t.

I think you’re on the right path. Do check out the resources above. My wife went with me through the whole process. She was impressed and it made a great shared experience for us. If you get the chance to go with your wife, I recommend it.

Again it’s fun to talk here but do look up Prince Albert piercing advice on the web. I was pierced with a 10ga needle and healed in 8ga. It took me six weeks to heal.

Some stick with 8ga but I’d recommend stretching up to 6ga for chastity. The links below are about initial piercing and healing.

I’ll have to dig up more about stretching. But I found it easy. PAs are good that way.

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10g
https://www.piercingbible.com/piercing-information/male-genital-piercings/prince-albert-piercing/

10g pierced. Wear 8-2ga
https://wiki.bme.com/index.php?title=Prince_Albert_Piercing

10 or 8g to start
https://www.thechaingang.com/blog/size-normal-pierce-prince-albert/

Recommend 8 to start.
https://infinitebody.com/pages/prince-albert-piercing

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Aftercare
http://www.steelnavel.com/body-piercing-body-aftercare.asp

Stretching: wait three months for 8 to 6 (for ears)
https://www.bodyartforms.com/blog/how-to-stretch-your-piercing/

 

How do you lock the jewelry in the PA so the cage is fixed? Seems that everything I've seen is a screw-type fastener which could be undone by the chaste male to then back out of the cage and get partially or totally free.

Unless you're running a master lock through the piercing… what do you affix to the PA to "make it real?"