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Discussion in 'Novices and newbies' started by Dreamer335, Aug 13, 2018.

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how long should first lock up last

  1. less then a week

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  2. 1 week

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  3. 2 week

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  4. more then 2 weeks

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    Hello all

    I m quite new too this , finally maned up and ordered metal spiral chastity device it arrived on friday now self locked for 2 days. Will try to push as long as I can to have it on and locked any advices want to keep it on for quite long and to make it interesting.

    thank you all for help
     
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    don't try to overdo it first few times out. YOu'll just end up putting yourself off it. Build up gradually. Good luck
     
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    The answer is: as long as you're comfortable doing it.

    I'd say the smart thing to do is to start off with a few short runs so you can become confident that you're not injuring yourself and are staying clean before jumping into a longer lock up. Letting yourself out during those times need not automatically entail orgasm if you don't want.
     
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    thank you both for your advice.
     
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    I think a couple of days at a time to get used to the device. I would have said shorter but you have done 2 days now. Its the same advise as above don't rush to go longer take your time. Enjoy
     
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    You’ve received good advice already. I haven’t voted as it’s not for someone else to set that goal when you’re new to the cage and chastity.

    Good luck!
     
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    thank you too happily accept any advice ^.^
    I made a vote thingy cause I'm generally interested wath people think .
    I unlocked myself now for few h but will lock myself soon back up soon .
     
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    I’d say it would take maybe a month to iron out any problems with the fit of the device and your adjustment to it.

    If you can wear the device for a month every day and night then maybe you’re ready to give the keys away.

    If you’re keyholder lives with you you can give the keys to them earlier, as long as they know you may ask for them in those first few weeks.

    If you have a good fit and no problems wearing the device for a month then a chastity period of indefinite length is possible
     
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    Welcome <3 <3
     
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    Thank you Keyheld for now looks like was quite lucky with fit for now but yea good idea will see problems with time I guess.
    Sadly don t have keyholder yet but I hope I will find it with time so she can guide and mold as she wants .

    thank you very much
     
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    Where are you located?
     
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    I m from Slovenia central Europa Goddess Gaia .
    Thank you for asking.
     
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    How hot is the summer over there?
     
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    Its quite hot normaly between 28 C and 35 C yesterday finally started raining so so its around 20 C today.
    Thank you for asking Goddess Gaia
     
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    Bit of Update now locked for 5 days with two 1 h breaks one on Monday and one Wednesday
     
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    small update locked for 10 days now hope will find nice KH soon ^^
     
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    12 day and was forced to unlock sudeley in the morning my underside of my penis started to hurt removed to cheak waths going on noticed few wounds apparently skin get damaged now will need to heal
     
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    Take the time to heal fully before you get back in. Try to deny yourself without the cage on if you so desire- a few edges here and there to drive yourself crazy! I’m at Day 15 but have to take it off for a few flights in the next few days so I will get a chance to test my edging skills. And yes I am chicken to go through airport security with it on!
     
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