Mascara Snake

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    I really don’t know what to say/think.

    If the person behind the charade reads this thread then I want to ask them directly, why? What did you get out of it?

    I feel very sorry for the woman who’s images were stolen.
     
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    She had a link on her profile to a webpage where the name was that of a lilly.
    Here is one
    https://garden.org/plants/view/30172/Daylily-Hemerocallis-Mascara-Snake/

    She mentioned her garden several times to me and seemed proud of it.
    Who knows.
     
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    Yes, I had conversations with MS about this lily as well, but MS is also knowledgeable on a wide variety of subjects, and can hold authoritative conversations about them. MS is also highly intelligent, so why did you waste peoples time and deceive them for so long? I include the question as I'm sure MS is still reading the posts. Perhaps MS would like to contact the website owner, as has been suggested, and offer an explanation.
     
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    I agree with windrush, I'm sure the person behind the MS profile is able to log in (somehow- innate deviousness seems to go with the territory) and see these posts. I certainly hope they can...

    Then at least they can reflect on their mental health and get the professional help they so urgently need. Nine years of deception, fraud and malign intention in wasting the time and lives of others while maintaining an entirely false and serially manipulative 'persona' betrays a genuine identity crisis and psychotic disturbance at a deep level.

    I hope he/she can find the moral fibre to make a formal apology (via L-U-C-Y) to the many, many people they've so seriously and wilfully misled.

    Finally, if CM itself is to retain any credibility after this ridiculous affair it needs to immediately impose a verification process for anyone claiming to be gendered female. A skype/phone call to Lucy or Jens is surely all that's required. There need be no compunction for any female member to verify, but any choosing not to do so will have to accept that their 'identity' will not be taken seriously by other site users.

    I'd just like to finally thank Lucy for her ongoing vigilance, care, professionalism and her impeccable management and improvement of the site.
     
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    I would like to add that I don't have any animosity towards mascara snake, from past experience I have found that 99% of online women are men, so I knew to take it all with a pinch of salt from the start.

    I don't have any hard feelings, but I did find it annoying that MS used the "power" of the photos and fake profile for negative things and bitter vendettas.

    I think men should be a lot more wary of who they are talking to, but as Mistress jules once said, males prefer talking to fake women as they tell them what they want to hear.

    This should be a wake up call to some, but when I look around this site I see many men have not learnt anything from it, perhaps they don't care.

    @Ganymede Guests can view the site without logging in.
     
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    @L-u-c-y I wholly agree that animosity or bitterness has no place in resolving this extraordinary matter.

    I feel nothing but compassion for someone who needs to live behind an entirely fake and 'stolen' persona, and to do so with the sole intention of misleading and duping others.

    As for us men being accused of preferring to hear only what we want to hear, well, I've met plenty of women with exactly the same agenda...

    If, as you imply, you and several others were highly suspicious of either the gender or the persona behind this individual's profile, why did no one act much sooner to confront and 'out' the issue? Perhaps the lesson's been learned, finally. But at what a great waste of time to all concerned.
     
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    I absolutely adored Mistress Amanda.
     
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    I'm suspicious of a lot of female profiles on this site, but nothing can be done without evidence. People can't be banned on the basis of a theory, that would be like a witch hunt and we don't want that.

    I wasn't a owner of the site at the time mascara snake was a moderator, if I was I would have made sure all female moderators verified.
     
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    I'm entirely aware that you were not the owner when MS was a moderator. And I entirely agree that a witch hunt of any sort is not remotely desirable, ever.

    But your post (and others in this thread) seems to imply that there was a serious and longstanding suspicion among previous mods and owners regarding this member's veracity, on multiple levels. Leaving that suspicion unchecked was a rather negligent stance, given the glory of hindsight?

    However, I can only suggest that a benign verification process for female members, of the kind I suggested above, both non-invasive and non-compulsory, should surely now be implemented.
     
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    That is on the way.
     
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    @L-u-c-y Thank you for your reply, and for dealing with all the above matters so sanely and responsibly.
     
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    @beck I have reason to believe that Jens did not even suspect Mascara was not who she said, and I think he will be shocked to find out what has transpired.
     
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    I see nothing extraordinary whatsoever. about MS or what has transpired.
    Trolls & men posing as women are a dime a dozen on adult web boards.
     
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    Now that most people have read the thread I have deleted the stolen photos from MS's profile.
     
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    whats sad is that our real lives are so boring that we even need to be somebody else when we are on the net.
    it is also a shame that the people on the net have lost touch with reality.
    but that's just the world we live in today.
     
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    Quite right too. Problem is that when a member put up new pix for Mod approval it is not really practicable for Mod concerned to check out the veracity of them all individually. Far too time consuming.

    But perhaps I had better make a confession. Neither my avatar nor ANY of the pix I have posted here (not many I know) are my own work: they have ALL been taken from the net; which I assumed were OK as in public domain. So I am sure are those of countless others.
     
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    By the way, it is indicative that almost no women have commented on this thread :)))
     
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    what do you mean?
     
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    Real women would logically be the staunchest supporters of verification and should be raising a voice in throves.
     
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    I can't see any need or point in it as a rule, expect for those seeking or soliciting when of course it would be an obvious help.
     
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    I suspect the vast majority of heterosexual men visiting CM are absolutely "seeking" an empathetic and genuinely FEMALE interlocutor or partner.

    Now that it's apparently been established that the majority of females on the site are impersonators then the step of verification becomes essential if any F/m 'relationship' is to be remotely trustworthy or meaningful.

    If that step isn't taken the site simply becomes a very bad joke.
     
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    I agree that many of us are very interested in corresponding with and learning from the female side of the key. I disagree that it has been "established that the majority of the females" here not really female. But I do agree that some sort of voluntary but not too intrusive verification of females would lend confidence if the women here can agree on such a process that is satisfactory to them. I expect our fearless leader L-u-c-y is probably already having such discussions.
     
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    Wait a second... it's sad that who's real life is so boring....
    Be very careful who you tar with that brush.
    We are talking about one specific fake person here.
    Yes it's sad, pathetic, pitiful etc. I don't dispute that, but when you say "we" and "our lives" you are potentially ascribing those things to everyone including yourself, ironically.
    I take strong exception to that. We are not all fakes or fantasists. We are not all dishonest. We do not all deliberately misrepresent ourselves or seek to deceive others for kicks.

    Why would they? I think "real women" (can we just call them women, please) would likely not care much about male impersonators. The ones who WOULD care, are those who have been tricked or deceived by this person the most... The ones who befriended this person, or felt bullied by them. Plenty of those raising their voices here. There's no gender distinction except in your head.

    It doesn't become "essential" at all, it's just another piece of information a person can choose to share about themselves if they want to.
    Other interlocutors (lol) can then make a decision about whether or not to contact that person based on the information they have chosen to share. It's no different than how the site has always worked... How any web board works.
     
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    Understand the problem about "borrowing" pictures I can see why some does it to protect private life. She sent me picture that looked very female to me.
     
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