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    #1 xMariax, Jul 22, 2018
    This weekend I decided not to have fun with my lovers but with my boyfriend since he has behaved so nice. We had a lovely night where tease and denial was the main thing. I love how it feels to have the power of being in control, to be respected and pleased in every possible way, that is one of the most turn on for me and his frustration only enhance my horniness making me crazy of lust. When everything ended up and he was almost crying due of his blueballs and that aching reminder of his submissiveness was running his entire body he said: "If I have to be in chastity for the rest of my life to have more moments like this, I'd happily seal the deal"

    I just love my boyfriend :love:

    ¿How many of you have experienced this kind of submissiveness just right after the fun ends?
     
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    #2 Mash2214, Jul 22, 2018
    We have and continue to every time She teases me. It’s what makes life so Great.
     
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    #3 iome343, Jul 22, 2018
    He was allowed to cum after that night?
     
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    #4 Joroincharge, Jul 22, 2018
    I'd say take him at his word. Secure him now 24/7/365 in the tightest and most secure device you can get.

    You cannot of course have a lifelong legally binding agreement, but there are workarounds if you are determined enough that this is what you want to do to him.
     
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    #5 Joroincharge, Jul 22, 2018
    @xMariax
    And happy to PM on this if you prefer!:strong::+1::lockkey::+1::strong:
     
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    #6 xMariax, Jul 22, 2018
    Of course not! He wants chastity so he will get chastity ;)
     
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    #7 Jail Bird, Jul 22, 2018
    So happy for the both of you. You're getting what you want and so is he. We ALL get blue balls being locked up and teased. He's telling you the truth as to how happy he is in the state you put him in. Enjoy the ride.

    We live in a WLM here. My wife's sexual needs come before mine always. I never expect anything in return. I'm just happy and proud I am able to take care of her needs and put a smile on her face. I had blue balls this morning myself. When she was ready, we got out of bed and I got to work making the bed, laundry etc. Best way to work off the blues!!
     
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    #8 Joroincharge, Jul 23, 2018
    LOL! Absolutely! But you don't want him changing his mind. So next step is not only to give it to him but also look for ways of taking power :strong::strong::strong:so he's fully secured :lockkey::lockkey::lockkey: and there is nothing he can do about it. Then he's putty, and anything else you want you can be sure that you will get it.
     
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    #9 xMariax, Jul 23, 2018
    I thought it wasn't common at all. I've heard everywhere that right before action ends and his balls are still full of cum he doesn't want to say those things but beg for some relieve
     
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    #10 DonnaSue, Jul 23, 2018
    The "relief" of which you speak is so short-lived when compared to living a full life of servitude. I am kept chaste except for an ocassional milking to keep me docile. Having not had an orgasm is several years keeps me focused on Her needs and desires.
     
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    #11 Joroincharge, Jul 23, 2018
    When that happens then is the time to tighten the screws on him and tweak those balls of his. :strong::strong:Make him simmer.
     
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    #12 xMariax, Jul 23, 2018
    I have to disagree. If there's something as important as frustation there must be hope. If you have no chances to cum again then you don't have a real stimulus to be after. Yeah, pleasure your wife is a nice stimulus and fullfil her needs but IMO subs need something more
     
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    #13 tegelad, Jul 23, 2018
    Very much agree with you on this. True control and torture is being able to remember the taste, feel, and sensations and know that one is restricted from it.

    To quote something from the Vampire Diaries ...

    Why did you save me? Stefan to Emily the witch

    Because you were pure of heart and innocent, and bringing you back and making you live with the knowledge would be the ultimate curse towards you.

     
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    #14 xMariax, Jul 23, 2018
    I really love he way you think ;)
     
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    #15 herboi, Jul 24, 2018
    i love it when she lets me decide if I want to cum. The answer is usually no. I enjoy my sore and full balls. Because she likes me that way.
     
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    #16 JiL, Jul 24, 2018
    Sounds like he appreciates the attention you provided, and the huge impact it must have on him when he knows you spend the majority of your intimate time regularly with other lovers, and you finally spend some time on teasing him. He is grateful, as he should be, willing to live in permanent chastity. If you slowly take away his orgasms, you could probably lead him to permanent chastity, if that is what you want for him. I would discuss it with him a bit more to see if it is what he really wants.
     
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    #17 Chaste Forever, Jul 25, 2018
    You two have it right. Let him explode on rare occasions. If you do this, he will NEVER question your methods. You deserve this kind of respect, especially if you truly love each other. For us, it is a loving thing, not a Dominance thing! Message me if you would like to talk further.
     
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    #18 filltee, Jul 25, 2018
    Now the big question is
    how many guys would dare suggest their Lady ever get into direct communication with Joro
     
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    #19 Joroincharge, Jul 25, 2018
    Some have. My lips are sealed of course as to who they are.;););)
     
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    #20 filltee, Jul 25, 2018
    I wonder how many of them regret it and how many are glad they did.
     
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    #21 Joroincharge, Jul 25, 2018
    Sometimes it is both at the same time!
     
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    #22 Rectrix, Jul 25, 2018
    Ah, the essence of a chaste boy's existence.
     
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    #23 filltee, Jul 26, 2018
    To be honest I was expecting those exact same words.

    Contradiction is it seems a big part of the head fuck for some of us and not just for me.
     
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    #24 jackburden, Jul 26, 2018
    What sort of workarounds are you thinking of?
     
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    #25 Joroincharge, Jul 26, 2018
    I started a thread on this somewhere. ;) Need to search.
     
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