Need to Milk?

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  1. frank_en _Stein
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    Hi i am now at the beginning of my ne life in a full belt. And please forgive me if I ask

    So is there a need to milk a man in chastity ?
    Please tell me why /whynot if you answer .

    Thank you
     
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    No
    because there is no need.
    Unless you enjoy doing it to him.
     
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    There is a belief that built up semen in the prostate can cause health issues in a male. Milking is ideal for releasing that semen without experiencing the pleasure of orgasm.

    I know for me after about two weeks in chastity I feel like I could almost have a spontaneous orgasm without any stimulation. Milking my prostate prevents this.

    If you have a keyholder the right answer would be it is up to them to decide if you should be milked or not.
     
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    Is there a evidence that a full Prostata causes health Problems ?
     
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    Not sure if there is an absolute need but it can be a kinky compromise for relief. If the guy is finding chastity hard mentally and maybe it's distracting him at work. But the kh doesn't think he deserves to orgasm, perhaps milking is a fun solution. We've tried it a few times, more recently than at the start. Being on all fours naked but caged while your gf sits behind you screwing you with a vibrator I found a profoundly humbling and sexy submissive experience. Though the actual milking part of it seems trickier to manipulate than we anticipated.
     
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    Ok, for the menthal state it may be good. But an evidence for medical need is never seen?
     
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    There is limited research, however a recent research study had linked increase prostate use with lower risk of prostate cancer.
     
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    What evidence there is suggests that increased activity reduces the risk of prostate cancer. That is not the same as saying decrease activity increases the risk. There is no evidence of that.

    So no. It isn't necessary. Bye-bye ejaculations...
     
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    This
    https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0302283816003778
     
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    I have seen a report online - which from memory was an Australian study. It suggested regular ‘emptying’ of the fluid that accumulates at the prostrate glad was good for health reasons. Now bear in mind that I didn’t look into this in any depth and took it at face value. You can probably searchbyye internet and find it if you are looking for more in depth information.
     
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    As some have said, there are studies cited that claim that emptying the prostrate is necessary to fight cancer. Research in this area is limited though, although it is growing and we learn more each year.

    Personally I’m not convinced one way or the other. So, I feel when in doubt exercise caution. So I fall into the camp of draining the prostrate at least once a month.

    I’m also a huge fan of milking. In fact, I personally like it much more than an orgasm. Now please don’t take that as meaning it’s more enjoyable, the experiences are totally different, and the milking does not result in sexual satisfaction. In fact, to me, it makes me much more frustrated and much hornier. Compare this to an orgasm where I just want to crash.

    So I guess once milked, I’m basically easy to control as I’ll basically do anything for the milker.

    That said, it’s been way too long since I’ve been milked and I really miss it. For those that have never done it, I highly recommend trying it, the experience is not like anything you’ll experience any other way.
     
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    Being made to stand naked in nothing but high heels and a cage whilst your key holder toys you or pegs you can be an experience that would push your boundaries and challenge how you feel about your sexuality if you haven’t experienced it before :)
     
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    Wow.
    Thank you for a trip down memory lane.
    My first Domme chained me to hooks in the ceiling, while I was in heels and stockings. She then proceeded to do me with a strapon, it was the most intense session I had ever had up to that point. It really didn’t change anything about my sexuality but it probably laid some groundwork!
     
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    The long answer.

    In relation to ejaculating or not there is available evidence from both sides of the fence.

    No prostate activity does seem on balance to be not a good thing. But the 'leakage' 'chastity tears' 'drooling' whatever frequent but slow loss of fluids some argue is sufficient to maintain prostate health with no milking or edging etc being necessary.

    I have no concerns in that regard, for me orgasms are a thing of the past if I have any more it will be rarely but I do leak daily, and often profusely which we both agree is suffice.

    Prostate cancer is a near inevitability for all men... if they live long enough... and apparently regardless of life style. So its basically what you both decide is best for you two but to be fair you should discus it.

    The short answer
    There is no NEED though one or both of you may have a preference and as with all things you should discus this.

    Some form of induced flow, milking edging to reduce pressure/volume whatever may, but not always, be pleasant the best known plus effect is that the feelings that you need to cum can be diminished without reducing the desire., thereby preventing 'accidents'.
     
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    I find that a good deep hard self milking using an anal hook gives me a feeling of lightness in the groin. Expressing every little bit of prostate fluid is not necessarily pleasurable, but I really do believe it is a healthy thing to do. Surely the constant making of fluid will cause overflow, but my belief is that just leaving it there to stagnate causes it to crystalize and become entrained in the tissues.
    My $.02.
    Thank you for reading.
     
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    Ok is there a orgasm possible while using such a toy?
     
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    Not really an orgasm. No muscle contractions.
     
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    If can orgasm like this then your cage/ tube is probably too wide or long.

    I had a 40mm wide cage that allowed me to get too excited. I’m fine now in a 34mm wide cage
     
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    The degree of confinement you experience within ones cage will certainly influence the type of experience you have when or if ejaculating. Suppressing the ability to gain a full erection is a big help in reducing accidents and the pleasure experienced whilst having them.

    I really dislike in cage accidents and do my utmost to avoid them.
     
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    I do not reside in a cb. We use it occasionally for foreplay and I thrill to the entire concept.
    I express my prostate manually as mentioned above. This is not because of lack of intercourse or ejaculation. I have a low low psa and my doctor says my prostate is soft and he says soft is good. (Annual exam). I do not expect to get prostate cancer.
     
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