Subtle Signs of Chastity in Public

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    #1 Breathe, Jun 18, 2018
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    I'm a big fan of subtle D/s signals - so much can be said with so little! It's also nice when your gestures aren't seen as offensive in public, since most people never even pick up on them, anyway. Unless they're also in the know... ;)

    My key 'pendant' is on proud display, of course; that sterling silver necklace rarely leaves My body! I've recently found some tiny, key-shaped earrings that I will also add to My jewelry box someday.

    I just stumbled upon these adorable cufflinks and will most definitely get something similar for him, once I find a quality pair! Thanks for the inspiration, @DommeLP. :)

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    These are just a few examples of our little 'games'...

    What subtle signs of chastity have you displayed in public?
     
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    #2 L-u-c-y, Jun 18, 2018
    Not a sign of chastity as such, but I made a sub kneel in front of me in public and pretend to do his shoelaces while everyone walked past.
     
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    #3 LesterBallard, Jun 18, 2018
    These are the things that appeal to me most. Subtle signs of devotion discernible only to the submissive and his Dominant. Walking a step behind, waiting until spoken to and so on. Plus the signs of ownership, of course.
     
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    #4 filltee, Jun 18, 2018
    Why not repeat that but have him attend to or pretend to attend to your shoes.
    You might give other women similar ideas or perhaps prompt them to generate ideas of their own.
    Such a simple thing could start any number of memes.
     
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    #5 Truly Tasty, Jun 18, 2018
    My Love has a tendency to have me avavilable to cater to her and her friends when they are over, which I am not complaining. Sometimes her friends say they feel bad, just the other day when My Love told me to shred up some chicken for an appetizer her friend was making She told her friend "sit down, don't worry about it, besides he loves to cater to Me, he knows better than to disobey"
    Her friend laughed thinking it was a joke, My Love smiled and winked at me! I proceed to do as instructed, and I did it with a smile one my face.
     
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    #6 paulie slave, Jun 18, 2018
    Love those cufflinks! Although I don't really wear suits any more. I got my wife a set of ear rings with silver keys last year and she wears them quite regularly. I have a couple of pink t-shirts that I got as a present which I often wear out under a shirt or top so people can only see a bit of pink, what they can't see is that the t-shirts have sissy boy on one and male submissive on the other in big letters.
     
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    #7 DonnaSue, Jun 18, 2018
    Since I spent a lot of time alone and caged, Mistress hung the spare cage key on a tiny gold necklace around my neck and then locked the clasp shut with crazy glue. In an emergency, the chain can be broken.

    That said, my key is often dangling around the front of my neck and readily visible , even when wearing my male clothing. Nobody has said anything, but I've caught a few women noticing it.
     
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    #8 Breathe, Jun 18, 2018
    Never underestimate the positive effects of thorough training. ;)

    I suppose I could have been more inclusive in My title, since in the first line I mentioned D/s rather than chastity, specifically. Either are obviously welcome for responses, as for us they go together quite swimmingly. :)

    A small thing I like to do when we're out (grocery shopping, for instance) is placing My hand on his lower back or the back of his neck as I direct our trajectory. It's usually not for very long, and the touch is rather light... but he made a point to mention that this little gesture makes him feel protected and therefore a bit more subbie when we're out in vanilla public.
     
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    #10 Cagedbyher, Jun 19, 2018
    F2A1837C-0249-4279-9D6B-4181EC33ADB0.jpeg 1EBC90EF-CF40-49CF-89A0-807FC025A76D.jpeg My Keyholder/Wife has worn the key on her necklace a few times, but she prefers to wear nice jewelry there. She has a couple of secretive keys with a lot of bling along with her lovely Brest do attract attention, but she’s never been asked about it. Instead she will wear the key on an anklet or bracket.
     
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    #11 Mascara^Snake, Jun 19, 2018
     
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    #12 Jblocked, Jun 19, 2018
    That's a good idea
     
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    #13 Joan.t, Jun 19, 2018
    How true! :D
     
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    #14 Guest 8306, Jun 19, 2018
    The highlight for me is the subtle hints between me and her.
    The cuff links as you mentioned are one of my favourites. The minute I saw them I knew she had to have them.
    Her nickname is Bunny so she also has a tie that she wears to work with little bunnies on.
    Things like this make me excited that it’s something only we know what’s going on.
    I also have the obligatory key necklace ;)
    I have also some other things that I will share in due course, they haven’t arrived yet but don’t want to give the surprise away just yet.
     
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    #16 bondinchas, Jun 19, 2018
    I use a chastity themed background picture on my PCs!
    My wife and I know what it means but no one else does.

    If anyone vanilla sees them or asks I just say I overwrote the background image with the screensaver lock screen by accident and I've just never got around to sorting it out!

    screen_locked_lockscreen.jpg
     
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    #17 Breathe, Jun 19, 2018
    Loving this thread already. :)
     
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    #18 WhiteKnight, Jun 19, 2018
    I had a necklace made for my Wife / Goddess / Keyholder a few years ago. It features a silver ring a little over one inch in diameter, with silver heart cut-out inside that and a solid silver, stylised key-hole shape inside that. She wears it all the time (although I might ask if I could take and post a pic) and she gets lots of lovely comments and one or two knowing looks.
     
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    #19 SubSnuggler, Jun 19, 2018
    I have the same thing but around my ankle. No one has never asked me about the significance of it, ever.
     
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    #20 JiL, Jun 19, 2018
    I got my Bride an antique sterling key which has a ruby in it. She wears it on a silver chain often.. She also had a small gold key charm with several small emeralds in it which She picked out in Ireland last Summer. It was on Her gold anklet, but got pulled off and ruined, as it was too delicate for an anklet. I would like to find another sturdier gold key charm for Her anklet.
     
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    #21 Beck, Jun 20, 2018
    We have tattoos. She has a key, and I have a lock. They are visible, and we are asked all of the time. The answer is they're couple's tattoos. That is all. But, anyone who can read imagry should know better. ;)
     
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    #22 Penney, Jun 20, 2018
    The other day my wife was getting into the car with her girlfriend to go to a baby shower. I went out to greet the girlfriend and open the door for my wife. As I closed her door I said, have fun Mistress. It just slipped out. My wife, of course, caught the slip up, but I don't think her pal did.
     
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    #23 iome343, Jun 20, 2018
    a really loving thread
     
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    #24 jackburden, Jun 20, 2018
    Those are great, and it seems like a nice pair would look really classy. Would you please post a link when you find something nice, and like what they look like when they arrive?
     
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    #25 Subboy70, Jun 20, 2018
    Wow great thread , I find myself looking at women when I'm out to see if they are wearing any keys.
     
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