Are you a lifer?

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    A definite yes. This is my tenth year of membership of CM and as time has passed chastity has evolved from a spicing-up sex game to a lifestyle. It started with a focus on orgasm denial but now is all about needing to be locked long term. This puts it perfectly:
     
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    Yes it will be forever I am mid 50s and my wife has had me locked for so long to the point where I don' want to cum from penile stimulation i have become obsessed with the orgasms I get from anal they are so much more intense and I can have multiple ones ,far better than anything I have had before and my wife loves it as she has no desire for PIV all a bit erotic really a complete change in sexual reliefe
     
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    Wasnt planning on life but my wife said that this is the way I will be from now on. She said she likes the control she has over me now. Its been over 6 months now and she has never followed through on anything this long as she has now. So I guess this is for life.
     
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    my wife loves me locked so i dont see it coming off in the near future
     
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    It's funny when my wife and I first started this it was mostly for fun and play. When we talked about it and finally went to get my piercing I asked her if she was going to always want this or if it was still just for more secure play...

    Her response "this is life going forward, it never comes off".

    She wrote up a contract (funny enough , she works at a law firm) and had me sign it. I'm allowed release once a month at her discretion and it's not always guaranteed if I have not followed the rules as laid out in the contract.

    It's what I always wanted and I'm glad we are doing it but I definitely miss masterbating whenever I want.
     
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    Definitely a lifer, we started playing with chastity in my mid 20s. I'm mid 40s now and I wear it all day every day. I am naturally a lazy chaotic person and I need control and guidance. In return I give service and obedience. Works for us!
     
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    Do you think you will a sex toy all over your life Lucy? I think not but the idea behind, the method of tease ave denial and off course the stimulation will stay.
     
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    Wonderful question @L-u-c-y . Yes it is a lifer.
     
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    As long as my Mistress will hold my key........this is not up to me (but if she gives it to someone in a nursing home for safekeeping I may ask her to re-evaluate).
     
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    After 5 years and my Wife/KH loving it as much as I do,the answer is : for life!
     
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    Ideally I seek permanent lifetime lockup, yes. No KH at the moment to do so, however.
     
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    While the future is unpredictable. The future's so bright; i gotta wear cage......

    Yes, i parodied Timbuk 3.
     
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    well i spect i will if i keep my willy and im too scared to have it took off anyway. and Mistress says its up to me.
     
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    If you'll have me x
     
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    Certainly not a passing phase. This August will make 2 years of living in a FLR and wearing a cage 24/7 most days of the year. My Bride seems to really enjoy and wants the changes that have come about in me. She has never once indicated that this is anything less than a way of life for us. I want nothing more than to make Her happy and please Her, and I do this far better than I could before my FLR and chastity. Although She has never spoken to me about this topic directly, I would like to ask Her. If it is what She wants then I am a lifer.
     
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    probably not. Taking one day at a time.
     
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    We have been doing chastity for the past 15 years on and off, the past three and a half permanent. She is happy with it being for life for me now. But her goal is also permanent denial. I was happy with 24/7 lock down, but her milkings and ruined orgasms are now only three times a year. This is still hard to adjust too. Even at my age, constantly horny and frustrated takes it toll. This is something she loves though. So yes it is for life, but hopefully she will give me more relief over time.
     
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    My wife really, really likes me locked up... I’m guessing yes.
     
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    Yes. 98% Permanently locked 2% off. The only way this would change is if Nanny physically unlocks me, and rips up our FLR contract. I have told Her this is my assumption, in these words. Her reply:

    'Well then you will be in your belt forever, because I am never releasing you or letting you go'

    Swoon!
     
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    Based on that definition, I would consider myself lifer.

    My interest goes way back in time.
     
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    I'm a lifer, no doubt. I don't wear my cage 24/7/365 any more, but I don't have erections, masturbate, or have intercourse. My wife gives me one hand job every 2 months, which usually takes about 1 minute, and that's been proving to be more than enough.
     
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    I don't believe I could or wish to achieve this level of chasteness. I like erections and I am a masturbator, so I need my cage to achieve the level of submission my Mistress and I desire.
     
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    I never thought I would be where I am now. The big one is never having intercourse again, and it's a very daunting step. My former Keyholder told me that I would only have 3 more orgasms for the rest of my life, and none of them included a woman's presence. I decided rather quickly that she was right about me, and I submitted to her unconditionally. It's the best thing I ever did.

    She no longer owns my little penis, but her training has stopped my erections and ended my masturbation habit, for which I'm extremely grateful. I'm also no longer allowed intercourse, and it hasn't been a problem at all.
     
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    i think that theres some men that have got so much mess in them that they has to get it out and if they get stop from getting it out they go mad.
     
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